How often do men have wet dreams? And how can women tell?

Question

How often do you have wet or sexual dreams even when in a relationship

normalice · Accepted Answer

I have sexual dreams like once a year. I've only had one wet dream, though - it was really weird.

Wet dreams are obvious from the throbbing cock and sperm everywhere (hence the word 'wet'). Sexual dreams are less obvious - most guys tend to forget having them, in fact, moments after waking. You can't just rely on the 'morning wood,' as that tends to happen anyway.

Relationship status doesn't seem to have an effect on the frequency of sexual dreams, although it seems like going a long while without sex is how one gets a wet dream.

super147 · Accepted Answer

I've never had a wet dream that I'm aware of. I've woken up with erections but just in the usual 'morning wood' kind of way, not with any particular level of arousal in the rest of my body and no precum or anything like that. I've had sexual dreams but they never became wet dreams.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I think most guys only experience wet dreams when they go through puberty. Once they reach maturity, wet dreams are history. . . unless the guy hasn't had an ejaculation in a long, long time.

Soteris · Answer

I have never had a wet dream although I have had a few sexual ones but very rare. Like I can count them on my hands rare.

JuicyBrain · Answer

Wet dreams are for pubescent boys. We're pretty done with that afterwards. We can have sexual dreams, but not wet dreams. We won't soil our sheets.

MarkRet · Answer

Many years ago, when when I was like 14, I would have a wet dream about every 2 or 3 months. The strange thing was, I wasn't dreaming about anything sexual. I would be just dreaming about anything really, and then all of a sudden in my dream, I would have to pee really bad, and then a urinal would just materialize out of nowhere. I'd unzip myself and pee into it, and then I'd wake up, and find my shorts and bed all wet with sperm. I'd just think, "Oh, shit!!!".

Lynx122 · Answer

I had one when I was 16 and it was amazing :P I was still sleeping but half awake so I could feel and remember everything but I was still in a dream. But that was the only one. Some might have them more though I don't know.

Dargil · Answer

In my teens before i discovered masturbation, maybe twice a month. Then, rarely. Now... never, even if i have an erotic dream.

meatballs21 · Answer

Never had one.  You can tell if it's happened because you jizz the bed.

dragonslayer1516 · Answer

Almost every night, I usually wake up in the middle of the night super hard and then it takes me a while to go back to sleep even after taking care of it

Myyke · Answer

men have hard dreams... lol...

astrOnaut01 · Answer

I have never had one

abhisehgal · Answer

Mem who dont masturbate will have wet dreams often say like 100 days or so. .. one's who have sex or masturbate frequently won't have wet dreams.

thebrightstar · Answer

depends, its diff for every guy but they mostly happy 16-21 probably. Also, she wouldn't know unless she's sleeping with him and wakes up and sees.

Decentguy · Answer

i had them mostly, and i seriously hate wet dreams

sexcrazy12 · Answer

for me, presently, not that often. when I was younger I had quite a few in a month. I was hard and I was wet with precum. many times I was wet with cum because I orgasmed in my sleep.