All girls are demisexual or asexual?

[Anonymous]

Demisexual - A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. In general, demisexuals are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender; however, when a demisexual is emotionally connected to someone else (whether the feelings are romantic love or deep friendship), the demisexual experiences sexual attraction and desire, but only towards the specific partner or partners.

Asexual - An asexual person (“ace”, for short) is simply someone who does not experience sexual attraction.

According to girls they never sexually attract to guys before emotionally connected to someone else. They don't attract to guys physically before they've fallen in love. When they first see an extremely attractive guy they don't feel wave of attraction because they don't have emotional bonding with them and he is a stranger. In everyday life they never ever find them attract to guys don't matter how attractive he is. It's would be like seeing an exceptionally pretty flower or painting no internal surge. They just appreciate to beautiful things as like when they see an "attractive lady" this feeling and when they see an "attractive guy" this feelings are same. Just indifferent. No excitement. They never ever see guys in sexual ways and don't have interest to look at them because they don't automatically turn on if they don't have emotional bonding with a guy.


But I get confused. If they don't attract to guys before fallen in love or before emotional bonding why they fall in love with guys? Which is the key that drive them? Money or any other material? Then why don't women make a emotional bonding with other women?

[Anonymous]

Lol no. Women are sexual and no they don't need emotion to have sex with you. This is a lie. Women are sexually attracted to men but a very small percentage of men they are attracted towards.. Usually features of men they want is the typical tall, dark and handsome (aka 6'0 or higher, chiseled jaw and nice face). These guys could have the personality of a potato and girls will chase them down for relationship and sleep with them.

https://i.imgur.com/eHrO9mV.jpg

Women sexuality is fluid and can easily move from being straight to gay given the right circumstances. This is why so many women are able to kiss other women and eat them out when intoxicated, or after bad break ups with too many guys become rug munchers for 5 years and switch back.

[Opinion Owner]

For the men who women do not find very physical attractive (aka majority of men), they must compensate by bringing out her emotion, showing provider qualities and giving her tingles to boost their appeal.

[Asker]

I'm not telling about actual having sex. I just want to know about feelings. When we watch porn we get aroused, when we see a horrible situation we scare. But what happen when they see an attractive guy obviously first time. They don't feel attraction?

[Opinion Owner]

They feel the exact same thing guys do when they see a guy they are physically attracted towards. It's just rare for them because they find vast majority of males below average in looks.

[SkyeMind]

I find this to be quite the ignorant understanding of women and surely how demisexuals work; It tells me that you don't understand at all. As a sex-positive demi (I want to have sex, and feel sexual attraction/have a high sex drive once IN a relationship) I DON'T look at people in a sexual manner. I can recognize that they are attractive/beautiful/handsome by their attributes, but not sexually. It does nothing for me. It connects nothing in my body. I don't feel aroused by any means. My body isn't physically "on board". I don't get sexually frustrated outside of a relationship. Then to assume that means I would if they have material wealth makes me cringe. It's other things that connect us to people; for me, it's the way people think, their character and intelligence; a thought or action of said person. For that to happen, I need to have a connection that's emotional "enough" which means I need to know them. Humans in the rawest beauty are not sexual to me. Educate yourself.

[Scrambledagain]

Only valid for good average joes. Have money or be alpha and women get very sexual.

[Anonymous]

Well that's weird coz every relationship I ever had was a sexual thing for me at first, then I developed feelings. This demisexual thing perfectly describes my boyfriend. Talk about reverse

[Asker]

I think it's a rules of relation that opposite attracts each other. When I see a sexy lady I attract to her, my body and mind process sexual feelings but I don't want to sex with her. But I feel it. It's the first step of relationship. That's why we make relationship with opposite. But what happen to u when u see an attractive guy (stranger) hope u see many attractive guy in ur everyday life do they attract u? or u feel indifferent? For me I see many attractive ladies but don't want to sex with them or don't have any interest to make relationship with them. But their appearance attract me, excite me.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah very sexually excited lol but I try not to look because obviously in relationship. I never intended for my relationships to become that, relationships. I was just excited sexually. Yup that's me, feelings a lot later. Feelings always ruin everything haha that's a joke, love is great

[Anonymous]

I can find a guy I don't know attractive but that doesn't mean I want to have sex with him there and then, I want to get to know him and be be in a relationship first.

[Asker]

When we find a girl attractive and seeing a sexy girl we get excited. But we don't want to sex with her but we checkout her and feel something inside us. But girls don't feel it?

[dwiller943]

No. Most girls jump on every hot dick they see. But some of us do fall for emotional bonds
and some of us do only do so with 1 gender.

[hardboiledink]

Most normal women need some sort of emotional connection to have sex with a guy whether it's seeing his confidence towards her in talking to her, humor, money, etc. MOST women are not whores who just screw anyone unless they've been messed up in the head from trauma

Guys don't need to see any of that but a hot body. So demisexuality to me is kind of silly as it's just a term for what women generally feel. They still do get horny and like sex etc, but overall need an emotional connection to really feel sexual attraction

[Anonymous]

Yes they are