Guys, do you think its weird for a girl to like being manhandled during sex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I are very close, he is so sweet and caring to me and always goes out of his way to make sure im happy. He gives me the most respect out of all my past relationships and always values my opinions. However, when we have sex he is very rough. Hard deep thrusts, spanking, hair pulling, etc. Is it weird that I love it? There is something so sexy about being his princess by day and something else by night. I've never told him I like it, he's the only person I've had sex with and I dont want him to think its weird im super into it, maybe even more than him. Should I tell him?

[UnderlyDedicated]

Nah don't tell him, show him. Show him with your reaction and maybe dirty talk. People are so quick to talk it takes the fun out of it. I'm the same with my girlfriend. She likes the way I treat her and even likes to be called "my princess". But when we have sex she likes being smacked in the face, choked, spit on, called dirty names, hard deep thrust, etc. When I caught on I kept pushing it and she kept responding well. She would call me daddy and say she's my dirty slut and to fuck her like it. We eventually got to the point where I will tie her up. All this was just done never planned or discussed and that made it more exciting and enjoyable. So I say just respond well when he does what you like. He'll push it and hopefully you like it. Enjoy :)

[AustinMan]

It's not remotely weird. A LOT of women love rough, manhandling sex, my ladies among them. You might consider buying a sex toy or two for Xmas: a thin wooden paddle and a glass butt plug.

What do you think?

[RJGraveyTrain]

K, so, look at your own logic for one second:

- He does this to you, you accept it willingly.
- He treats you really well, clearly cares about you.
- You've never (to my knowledge) made any effort to say you don't like what he does to you sexually.

He could NOT possibly have any issue with you liking it because he clearly already knows. And if he did, wouldn't that be totally asinine and hypocritical? That makes no sense. If he cares about you he'd be THRILLED to know you find him sexually adequate.

My own gender baffles me.

[CheerGirl38139]

Not sure Pink Anon is your gender yo. 🙋

[RJGraveyTrain]

@CheerGirl38139 Who knows these days?

[AriadneSky]

yeah i think its fucked up but i think plenty of people have the same fetish as you.

[AlphaMale1]

Most women are into rough sex in different degrees. My ex would show me bruises on her breasts from me squeezing them too hard. I had no idea I was doing that to her to leave bruises. When I apologized for leaving those marks she simply smiled and said she didn't mind. That is how I found out she liked rough sex sometimes.

From my experience women who are into rough sex are most likely to be open to more things sexually.

[Answerdude]

I don't think it's that weird. At least it's not that unusual, but I'm uncomfortable with girls who want me to get really rough with them, except for maybe hard, deep thrusts.

[KatherineJ]

I think it's natural.

[beez1717]

It's not weird as long as it's consensual and you both have a safe word.

[Walrus_au]

I've come across a little of this from the other point of view - but I don't feel comfortable inflicting that on my partner.

[Grumps]

no I've always liked it rough. they fall hard after.

[MrExtremely2Kinky]

That's hot... make it happen.

[Justin85283]

It's a dream come true!

[Anonymous]

I like when u dominate

[Anonymous]

Sounds like the perfect relationship to me. My dream relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, if I was you I would tell him because it's always good to know that we do something that you like/enjoy. :-)