Why has my girlfriend been so horny lately? and Clingy?

We are both virgins and I'm almost 19 and she just turned 18 in July. I met her in 2014. She is usually independent and not clingy towards me and very shy when it comes to talking about sex but nothing else. She did not get her period last month and (no she's not cheating on me and yes she's still a virgin) she has cysts on her ovaries and doesn't get a period every month. Yesterday, she wanted to cuddle and kiss (she's usually not a touchy person) and keeps playing songs on her phone about sex and her face gets red and she laughs. She is staying with me at my parents house for Thanksgiving and we are sharing a room. There are 2 twin beds in the room. She woke me up at like 4 this morning to make out and she was on top of me and kept looking down towards my dick with a grin. Then she went back to her bed to sleep. I woke up before her and went to go pee in the bathroom and then she woke up right after I left came into the bathroom and was standing there grinning at me, I said what and she said nothing and went back to the bed. I went back in and asked her for a kiss and she said no while giggling. She then wanted to make out again. I was watching the Macy's parade by myself because my mom was in the kitchen and my dad was outside helping my aunt and uncle set up the table. Anyways she came in and sat on my lap facing me and giving me this seductive look, while kinda pushing her boobs in my face but backing away quickly smiling and kinda moaning and then sat on the couch right beside me. She also sometimes moans in her sleep, its weird. All day she's been wanting to be by me and kiss me and keeps giving me seductive looks. We have NEVER had sex and I don't exactly want to do it in my parents house or get a hotel. I love her but damn this is too much. What's her problem? How do I get her to stop without having sex?
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I'm complaining because i'm not ready or willing to have sex with her. I just don't think its the right time. Anything could go wrong.
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I'm not one of those guys who will immediately jump on the opportunity to have sex. I barely masturbate as is.
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  • You're complaining that she wants you? Ok, I understand its your parents house and you may not be able to afford a hotel. She is probably ovulating and her body is releasing a bunch of hormones telling her to have sex and get me pregnant. What I would do if I were you is to maybe finger or lick her clit while she is kissing you tonight or something and maybe have her give you head or something. You guys could 69 but explain to her that you aren't willing to do anymore than that in your parents house and you don't have the money for the hotel, if she's willing to pay for the hotel, great! If not, then no sex just oral. You also probably don't have condoms and she's not on birth control and you do need a contraceptive so if you do by chance go to a hotel, please pick up condoms and maybe the morning after pill

  • She is ready for sex. You have to be careful because if she is horny enough she might fuck someone else and not you. Take care of her. Also you are never ready for sex no one is. It is all mental prepare your mind slowly and be with her. She seems she really likes you and want to be your first. Dont ridcule yourself or her. If you try to avoid her she might think you are rejecting her and then thats when problems come. Dont force yourself but prepare your self for her.

  • She wants the D...
    If you want to have sex with her, tell her you'll do it when you get back if she stops.
    If not just tell her you don't want to do it in your parents and to ease up a little.
    Communication is key!

  • I think she just wants your attention. You could talk to her and tell her that you aren't ready for sex yet but it's not because she isn't satisfying or good enough but that right now, you aren't ready to move that quickl

  • Is there any religious reason y u don't want to have sex with her but if do just have sex with her it's not that big of a deal.

    • Anything could go wrong. Yes, I come from a very religious background. I would like to make sure she's the one I am going to marry before having sex with her.

    • Ohk well talk to her probably her hormones are higher than usual and kinda fix her problem by rubbing her clint when making out.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Those christians crack me up. So much time wasted not enjoying things were here on earth for. Make sure you don't eat spaghetti before your wedding... but i like spaghetti... NO! That is the way of the lord... oh fack off.

  • Maybe you should tell her to get herself a real man?

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  • She has never done it before, so it makes more sense that the more time she is in a relationship the more curious she is to try it.

  • Teenagers.., hormones...

  • You're complaining?

    • Are you a closet queen?

    • No, i'm not gay. I just don't want to have sex right now

    • Well that's your opinion. Thank you. Have a good day.

  • fk me lol so its true then, dont ask for something and it happens

  • She wants you to fuck her

  • i'm surprised you dont like it!

  • What stage is she at in the cycle

    • I really don't know. She didn't get her period last month due to cysts on her ovaries but she said her period usually comes on the first week of the month and it didn't come this month either.

    • i think she's lying to you about the whole cysts thing and cheated on you and is pregnant. if you dont have a period you can't ovulate. she hasn't had her period for 2 months. something is fishy

    • @Kandiee She went to the gynecologist and I was in the waiting room waiting for her to be done with her appointment. She is not lying. We see each other every other day. She is not pregnant either, she is skinny as can be. If she were pregnant don't you think it would show by now?

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  • This has nothing to do with the question but I'm glad I found someone besides me who comes from a religious background. If you wasn't anonymous, I would totally follow you.

    • Having a Christian background has nothing to do with how your inner desires work.

  • Dude you have been together for two years without sex. What the fuck are you waiting for?

  • Are you sure that you're straight?

  • I fail to understand why this is a bad thing...

  • Why are you complaining?

  • Look who is complaining.
    Bruh...

    • Update: Ahhh... I see. Just tell her, dear. 😊

  • She's probably ovulating. Tell her to go masturbate

    • You might be right.

    • You could give her some oral