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Can you force physical attraction?

Also have you ever been in relationship with someone you weren't physically attracted to?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think you can FORCE physical attraction. You can't force yourself to have feelings for someone either.

    I do believe if you aren't initially attracted to someone you can gradually find them more physically appealing as you get to know their personality more. It just happens, it's not something your mind can control

  • Yes watch.

    Girl: "Hi guy!" :D!

    Guy: "hi Girl"

    Girl: "do you like me? :D"

    Guy: "not really"

    Girl: :o!

    Guy: :/

    Girl: "like me now!!" >:o!!

    Guy: o_0

    Girl: "like me physically right now!!"

    Guy: "okay" :|

    Girl: :D! "Tank you"! :D!!!

    Guy: o_o

  • I don't think you can force it, and I've been in a relationship with someone I wasn't physically attracted to and it was hard. It felt like I was forcing myself to be affectionate and was just horrible for both of us

    • A girl i know has a BIG crush on me not even that, i think she has feelings for me even though i think she is a bit forward about it since i haven't known her for that long. She is so sweet and caring with me, always throwing hints for me to ask her out because she is too shy to do it. On the other hand, i am not attracted to her and i don't want to hurt her feelings.. what should i do :/

    • Tell her you value her as a friend? I guess it depends how direct your comfortable being with this

    • How did that relationship START? •_______•

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Not really, can't help who you fall for or who you feel attracted to. Yes over time with someone you appreciate and grow with and enjoy spending time with and love can have you end up appreciating certain things about their looks more then you did in the begining, but all out attraction usually is either there or isn't.

  • Only if you forcibly kidnap them and tie them up in the basement and scream "LOVE ME! LOOOVE ME! PUT THE FUCKING LOTION IN THE BASKET!"

    If that It doesn't work, dude, i don't know what to tell you. If ducttape and rope doesn't work, you might need to check your BO.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No and no. Physical attraction is crucial. Without it, a partner will feel less inclined to be sexually available as they wouldn't be turned on by their partner per say. It also leads to basic affection problems. You need a marginal level of attraction. If it's not there, it makes things a lot harder.

  • I wasn't attracted to my boyfriend before we started dating, but now I can't keep my hands off him.

    I don't think I forced myself, I just found him more and more attractive as I got to know him.

  • Nope. I've gone on dates with guys I didn't find attractive, and no matter what I did no spark ignited. Mind you, they didn't have much in the personality department either but some of them were great guys. You can't force it.

    • Then why did you even bother to go out with them?

    • @VerbalWN Because going on the dates with them is what showed me their personalities sucked. They seemed alright initially and I am of the mindset of "give the guy a chance."

    • So even if you were not physically attracted to them. If they had better personalitys. You would of been ok with dating them?

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  • nope. if she falls for your "personality" she must have found you at least a LITTLE attractive and it grew from there. you can't go from nothing to something. there has to be a seed.

  • Absolutely not.

  • I will never date a woman that I don't find physically attractive and I will never date a woman that doesn't find me attractive.

  • No you can't force physical attraction in my opinion.

  • No you can't force physical attraction. That's not how sexuality works. You can't force feelings that don't exist...

    • But you are asexual how u know?

    • I know because, before I accepted my asexuality, I tried to force physical attraction and it never worked. I assume the same is true for everyone else.

  • Yes, if you use occult magic of the left hand path @xhoneyxbeex

  • no u can't

  • You mean have sex if you dont want to? If yes, then no but that happens when im really tired/sleepy.
    Second part: no.

  • No how would one force that?

    • force yourself to be attracted to them

    • That's impossible

  • nope

  • no you cannot

  • Nope. It can change but you can't force it.

  • no never

  • nope. but I'm never been in a relationship

  • Nope

  • No, and no!

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