Girls, I need advice... what is first time sex with a guy like?

My girlfriend has wanted to try a threesome with a guy for awhile. I finally agreed on our last anniversary and decided to do this for her. She also wants to see guy/guy action as well. The guy we found is willing as long as I am a bottom or basically the one getting fucked. I"m OK with that since I have no exp. with guys anyway and doubt I could even get hard to fuck a guy. We've also played with toys and strapons before so I kinda know what to expect.
Still.. just wondering what the first time with real guy will be like. does sucking cock taste bad? Do you gag on it? What is it like being fucked? Do you feel vulnerable at first or do you get over that?
I never had any desire to try this but I am not opposed to it either. The more I think about it, I like the idea of trying sex where there won't be pressure on me to perform and I can let someone else take the lead. My girlfriend told me that if the guy is good in bed, it is like a roller coaster where you just hold on and enjoy it but you aren't really in control. If he is bad, you are basically just bored and want it to be over ASAP.
This could happen as soon as tonight if our schedules work out. Just want an idea of what it will be like and what I 'm in for.
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  • Disclaimer: Be careful that you both are emotionally ready for this. Threesomes can fuck relationships up if you're not careful.

    That being said, if you guys are both ok with it it's a great time!
    Sucking cock doesn't taste bad as long as they're clean. Make sure you don't try to suck it with a condom (not flavored) or after a condom has been on his dick, because then that'll taste bad. You'll maybe gag since it's your first time if you try to deep throat him. I would just try going slow and make sure you use both your hands and mouth. Do what you would want done to you.
    I've never been fucked in the ass so I can't comment on that. You might feel submissive at first but you'll get over it once the pleasure starts.

    Use protection and make sure YOU want to do this. Also you don't have to have him fuck you if you're nervous about it. I'm sure your girlfriend will be happy getting even half of her fantasy fulfilled. Remember this is for you too.

    You're an awesome boyfriend to do this for your girl. Let me know if you have questions!

    • Also make sure he switches condoms if he goes between fucking you in the ass and fucking your girl. Some things shouldn't be transferred between those two areas lol

    • Thanks for the thoughtful reply! I'm OK with trying this. Like I said, I am now curious what sex is like from the other gender's perspective, from her perspective. I guess I am worried that she might see me differently once she sees another guy fucking me. I know it's her fantasy but initially her fantasy was guy/guy action, not necessarily just me getting fucked. I just don't think I could get hard to fuck a guy and the guy we found is not interested. I agree with protection, that is definite!

    • Just make sure she doesn't feel left out tho. You getting fucked and her just sitting there might be kinda awkward, especially since it's supposed to be her night.

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  • It's weird they make u feel awkward and u think u will mess everything up but everything goes pretty well haha

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