Making love or sex? Which do you prefer?

Question

What makes it better? or why are they the same to you?

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

I'm not saying this to be racy, just brutally honest: fucking always wins.

I firmly believe we all only ever make love a handful of times in our lives, even when we love the person we're having sex with. Why? Because to me, fucking (or sex, whatever you wanna call it) is driven by raw, emotionally powered lust and is far more satisfying in my opinion. Lovemaking to me happens so rarely because sex is not often driven solely by feelings of love and affection - but lust that is fueled by said emotions.

I hope that made sense, maybe I'm just overthinking it. Lol.

nala_rawr · Accepted Answer

i prefer fucking, generally.
but having sex is good too, and even making love has its moments. it really just depends on what kind of sex u are into, and where ur at emotionally with ur partner. just bc u dont make love, doesn't mean u dont love ur partner or ur partner doesn't love you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've never done none of these two things. But I would prefer to make love.
To make love would be having intimacy with someone I love, someone I truly care about. So, it would be special.
While having sex, would be meaningless and not with someone I really like.

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

I do both, depending on my mood, and that of my partner.

Sometimes we make love, which is sensual, and romantic. We take our time, exploring each other's bodies, stimulating each other in the most complete, passionate way possible.

Other times, we both just need sex. Hard, lustful, and intense. We'll still engage in foreplay, but usually not as much, because we're both so horny that we just need it. It's usually a little rougher, and almost never lasts as long, but yet we're both exhausted afterwards. :)

BoySittingOnTheMoon · Accepted Answer

If I love her then I will make love for her, but if I just want sex, then I will have sex for her. They're not the same but they can be mixed with someone you love.

Junlian · Answer

Making love is the new thing. I guess what these kids are calling it.

Lioness_81 · Answer

It's been so long since I "made love" I can't remember what it's like!!! 😳 Sex is fun though 😁

Pinky26 · Answer

If we are talking about a couple loving each other, then we will be talking about making love. If it's a casual sex with no feelings, then it's having sex.

rubyrose83 · Answer

Depends on what mood I'm in. Sometimes I wanna make love, sometimes I just wanna fuck

AleDeEurope · Answer

Same thing.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Aren't they like synonyms for the same activity?

helva · Answer

Sometimes it's just sex for the sex (even when in a relation) and sometimes it's making love (but only in a reltion).

ASEXY · Answer

I prefer...   because I'm aromantic/asexual

Sophisticated_Sonic · Answer

I didn't know there was a difference. What is it?

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Depends. Who is it and why am I doing it?

ClumsyAngel · Answer

Making love. I would use that when sleeping with my boyfriend

sp33d · Answer

Making love sounds like something said in play school, where the S-word is sacrilege.

Vostock · Answer

I would like to have a relationship with the next person I get intimate with. When I had sex before ever having a relationship, I just felt empty after the initial high was gone.