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Is sex after the third date too soon?

Or is it the right amount of time?
Right amount to wait
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Will what you do be done with some affection for each other or is it just a physical act? After three dates, do you know him well enough to trust that he doesn't have an STD? Won't take the condom off mid-act? Doesn't have a hidden camera or video? Won't post anything on social media? Will still want to see you after he finally has sex with you?

    Probably not.

    But if you are just looking for casual, meaningless sex. . . why not fuck on the first date?

  • If you really like him you gotta wait. Doing it to soon complicates it with the whole "that was good let's fuck again" mindset, next thing your just meeting up to fuck and it dominates. Hard to break that cycle

    • Like hard to make a relationship out of it?

    • Yes. you'll mentally invested into someone who may or may not be a good fit, because you think sex is helping but it just confuses you with the "oh its so good" feeling

Most Helpful Girls

  • It all depends on how the both of you feel. If you want something more serious, it's usually better to wait. Just to see if they're interested in knowing you & not just your body. I'm a natural tease myself, so I definitely like to make them work for it a bit. My boyfriend liked the chase & our first time was amazing. The sex in general is just as amazing.

  • It depends on what you and how you feel. If you want to get in a serious relationship with the guy, maybe you should wait. If not, then go for it.
    And if you feel like you can trust him, then it's not too soon. Otherwise, you will have to wait.

  • It really depends on the guy. If you can't tell what kinda guy he is, it's probably too early. If he is the I wanna settle down kinda guy, I would wait till maybe like a 5th date. But if not, I would go for it.

    • there is no rule when to have sex. it could be 1st or 50 date.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It depends on you. What are you looking for? There is not a too soon or too late. Just what you two want and feel comfortable doing.

  • I voted for DEPENDS, mostly because if that's how comfortable you are with the guy then sure go for it. If not then wait until you are or not. Do what makes you feel good.

  • I'd say any time is the right amount of time. There is no actual time to wait, it's all just made up rules people make so they can judge others who don't follow their arbitrary guidelines. But seriously, just do what you want as long as you're both safe, consenting, and comfortable with it.

  • up to you. for me... it's too soon

  • For myself yes, but I'm into the whole know someone, be comfortable with someone, it means something type.

  • It depends. If you're not sure about him, then it's too soon. If you're sure about his intentions and you're both on the same page, then it's the right time.

  • It's never too soon.

  • Too soon.

  • What happened to the good old days of months of dating before that. What happened to month of dating just to hold hands.

    • Wow, steady on with the hand holding, you don't want to get cooties!

  • Third is fine. Second is fine. Do it when it feels right.

  • I'd say stick to only below the belt and oral for the first several dates.

  • Disregarding religious convictions, it's all about being on the same page. If you're BOTH feeling it, then why not? Just wear protection and explore the beautiful and odd nature of humanity lol.

  • That depends on your own ideas about it and on the worth you attach to sex.

  • If you have both been checked out and use protection then there's no reason not to do it after date one if your both prepared!

  • If you're not married, it's always too soon. When you're husband and wife, then it's time to get naked and have sex!

  • Depends on how long you've known the person. For example if you just met 3 dates ago its too soon but if you've known them for years then its not.

  • Makes sense to me.

  • Works for me.

  • It's too late.

  • Sooner if it feels right

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