Do actually girls get horny and crave sex as well?

do girls get horny and crave sex like guys do?
i believed the saying that women don't rlly like sex was just one of those myths until a couple recent questions "Is it true a woman can be perfectly happy never having sex once" and to my surprise the majority said yes.
and another more recent one along the lines of "Is sex essential for a relationship" and again to my surprise the majority of girls were cool never to have it.
so is the myth about it being a myth, actually the myth?
Do girls get horny and crave it or is it just a pleasurable way to bond with a guy because guys need it?
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  • I am a man. i can never have sex and still be happy and i believe sex it is not essential for any relationship. sex is not love. love is not sex.
    Women are human being and sexual creatures and they desire as well as any other.

    For your knowledge. the undeniable fact is that female has stronger nerve connection overall than a male, male only has one sensitive spot while a female has more than a few, three essentials and several B-sides. a female own one particular area which directly designed for the pleasure while male never owned such an area, and that particular area owns over thousands of sensitive nerves which generally is third time stronger than male's one and only spot; now, one area only has such a power, then add other several places and gather all the nerves all together! if you compare the genders now, you can feel it's like male doesn't even have a feeling in compare of a female.
    Men:Penis - lips
    Women: Essentials: Clitoris area - Vaginal area - G-spot. Labia Majora and Minora which contains heavy blood flow and containing some sensitivity. B-sides: Breast, neck, arms, stomach, thighs, lips - (rotatable and changing according to personal fantasies and preferences)

    But the list below is part of the reasons why you would think females don't feel much.
    1. Culture and lack of knowledge: The majority of woman around the world are unaware of their own body and how they designed so they can't find the right way of taking care of themselves. the lack of education, the fear of exploration, the wrong behaviors of the environment and shyness of talking about it makes them to completely keep quiet or never realize what kind of feelings they can reach within their own body.
    2. Society: So many females across the world afraid of expressing their feelings cause they scared of being called names and find bad reputations, because of the wrong responds of some sides of each society around the world, thus some females even believed feeling such and having active hormones constantly is abnormal and they have to hide or ignore and at the end forget it.
    3. Religion: Religious communities constantly teaching that getting connected to such feelings are sin (specially for women) and woman shouldn't be like this at all, otherwise something is wrong with that woman.

    Beside all these, women can hold themselves in a better way than men, mostly because women's nature is transmit the beauty and men go crazy.

  • Only for hot guys. Women standards are very high. While the average man can get sexual attracted to the average woman, women on the other hand need you to be like male model status to get their panties wet. These are the guys women pick constantly for ONS/FWB.

    They only give average guys a chance for one or more of the following reason:
    1. Wallet
    2. Companionship
    3. Entertainment

    This is why 70% of women cannot achieve orgasm during sex because overall they aren't really sexually attracted to the men they are with, but be damn sure they will fake moan for you and put on a show.

    • And for the butthurt men who aren't part of the group. Tinder study in 2015 said that women have sex with very specific men on tinder:muscular, tall, and good looking. So as you can see the men that women fuck when they just want sex are very specific.

    • You are so true

Most Helpful Girls

  • I can speak for myself and have an exact idea what very good female friends of mine feel about this. We sometimes are horny, very horny and sometimes not at all for a few days of more than months.
    One girl in our group does not feel horny but enjoys sex.
    A few have days that the crave for sex and are impossible to live with if they cannot get relief from sex with a partner or by masturbation.

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

  • It's myth the girls don't like sex and get horny. Sex is inbuilt in human nature and body. However the difference is that whereas guys express their desire and also they can't hide it, the girls successfully keep it under control.

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • Being single or in relations is immaterial. Sex is inbuilt in human mind, body and is forceful character. Girls even if single get horny as it is natural.

    • Do u think girls experience the same frequency of being horny as guys or less?

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  • Oh yes, we do.

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • Some do, some don't want an emotional attachment. The difference is whether women actually pursue the desire to have sex or not. I'm sure there are plenty of women who get horny and crave sex, yet also want emotional attachment. We can get turned on visually, yes, but I'm not sure it's as much as guys. Long story short bro, hormones cause us to get horny. I don't know what you're tryna get at if this isn't the answer you're looking for, sorry.

    • Thats a great response thank you, what visual things turn u or other girls you know typically?

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  • Girls absolutely do get horny, I can confirm this 100%. If you have seen questions where the majority of girls said that they don't then it was a skewed poll.

  • I certainly do. Unless I have a penis hiding inside of me.

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • LOL good answer

    • Not all women do, but you have to keep in mind that sex, for women is exercising a lot of vulnerability; you're basically bearing all to someone, so to feel comfortable having sex with someone often (but not in all cases) takes caring about the person. Women are visual, we're attracted to attractive men but what we find attractive about them can vary, that's individuality. Unlike men though (again, not all) we aren't so driven by what's on the surface to act on carnal urges.

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  • No. We TOTALLY don't get horny OR crave sex. (Hence the sarcasm)

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • Females can get turned on simply by looking at a man. Just like men get turned on by looking at females. We need an emotional connection with sex when we're in a RELATIONSHIP. Not with just every man we sleep with.

    • Do most girls get turned on looking at guys? the large majority of girls I've seen on gag claim the male body doesn't turn them on? What specifically about the male body turns them on?

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  • We are robots and we never do... come on wake up!

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • It differs from a girl to a girl... its a bit private inbox me

    • Sent you an inbox:)

  • ssshhhh... secret

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • Ovulation period typically it takes 5 to 8 days. Some women have raging hormones that they want it everyday. Some want it few. We have testesterone so and producing sperm everyday therefore we are always horny. Women walk around turn off most of the time. They have to see or encounter with high value men (tall, masculine hot guys) to get aroused. Or they have to see or encounter with their boyfriend. Women don't desire most men but we desire most healthy women. Women desire specific men. Don't get confused with emotional connection it just a word for desire. Women have a lot of hook ups how can you explain that with emotional connection? When women desire a man they develop feelings, desire like you desire any hot woman.

  • I can't even believe this is a question. Yes.

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • Oh my god... we do get visually turned on. When I watch a movie with even a subtle and tasteful sex scene, it definitely can be stimulating. Also auditory stimulus like hearing someone moaning has the same effect, even if I can't see it. Personally I am not as likely to get horny just from seeing an attractive man, but some women do. Women occasionally get horny as part of a cycle, and there are also certainly times when they do not desire sex, which is when emotional attachment and connection plays an influential role. All female mammals in the animal kingdom experience these times of sexual desire, when they are "in heat." Please read about it.

    • In your opinion do you think in general women crave it less often/ less intensely compared to men or around the same?

  • Yes, they do too. But they are acting like they don't partially to play mind games and to not be viewed as a slut by others.

  • yea we have hormones too

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • it really depends on the girl

    • Well in ur experience?

  • How do we get wet if we don t get horny in the first place

    • Ik girls can get horny in the heat of the moment but i just meant do they actually crave it, since most of the girls were cool to live an entire life and not have it once

    • Obviously you apply bottled wetness when we aren't looking o. O I find it bizarre that anyone can think that girls don't get horny. Jeez, that would almost make all sex abusive. Girls just going through the motions to satisfy their partner. What a grim world that would be +____+

    • Of course

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  • you don't know much about biology do you /= or how reproduction works?

  • I have my own feeling and yea we crave sex and we get hot just like y'all do

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

  • I know some who do 😂

  • yes, at certain times during my cycle

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • i can't speak for anyone except myself but i've always been extremely visual and the guy MUST be my type to a certain % physically to even do foreplay let alone sex. i'm very, very picky. i get strong sexual feelings around ovulation and off and on for a few days from the 3rd/4th day of my period. at those times i don't care as much about relationships (although that would be ideal and i try to hold out for that) and i'm weak to guys who i am attracted to and NOT to guys who i am not attracted to.

    • a guy i'm not attracted to will never get anything physical out of me no matter what

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  • That belief is a lie. THE CAKE IS A LIE!!!

  • I think yes. Sometimes my girl gets really horny.

  • Yes..

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

  • Now I seriously doubt your age 25-29 ? Really?

  • I do.

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

  • Yeah. They get hot and start sweating. Their heart rate increases and they start breathing heavily. Blood rushes to their poosay. The vagina expands and their clit starts to swell just like a penor.

  • yup..

    • Can u explain how it works with women, i mean they say they need an emotional attached to want sex so what is it that makes them horny when their single with no emotional attachments to anyone? Also they dont get turned on visually as guys do? So when their single what causes them to feel horny? Sorry if this sounds dumb but as a guy this confuses me.

    • I think it's a matter of hormones that makes us horny.

    • @helva What about in day to day life is there anything u see or experience that provokes a feeling of arousal at all?

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