What if I don't have lube or lotion for a handjob? Plus what are good ways to give a handjob to turn him on?

[Anonymous]

I have never given a handjob and don't want to disappoint him. It's usually in the moment when we start messing around. so I don't have anything ready and he doesn't have lotion or lube at his house. If I do it dry would it hurt him? How should I go about it to turn him on and impress him to want more? Guys what do you like your girl to do when she is giving you a handjob? Or girls what does your guy like?

[Anonymous]

it might work dry, but probably not if he's circumcised.

I don't think it matters a whole lot about technique or anything, you just gotta stroke it, lol. You can be pretty clumsy with it, and it will still feel pretty good.

But what would get me is if you get it really hard and throbbing, then tease it a little bit. You can grip his cock, and just lightly rub your thumb on the back of the head. You can give it little licks and kisses if you want to use your mouth at all. I just think it's sometimes sexy to go slower and gentler. I"m not sure about him though.

[darkknight8909]

spit works fine. shake it like a bottle of ketchup and be sure to give attention to the top of it. you can also just kind of try different things and see what gets him going and just keep doing that.

[randomhobo]

Wet it with your mouth if need be, or use spit. If its uncut you won't need lube though from my experience.

[CalebJay18]

Spit, it works just fine... Don't do it dry, only a guy can do it dry to himself, because if a girl tries, it just hurts... Trust me!

[KeiranByrne]

Baby oil.
focus on the top 1/3 of his shaft and end each upstroke with a twist of the knob. Massage the perineum (between scrotum and anus) quite firmly while stroking him.

[viaamtrak]

I have only had a very few handjobs in my life that used lubricant. Most were dry and were very enjoyable. THe only time that it hurt me was when I was sunburned on my penis and she had to put aloe vera on it to soooth me. It became a really good handjob. Other than that, the hundreds that I have had over the years were mostly dry and I enjoyed everyone of them, even the ones where the girl switched with her frind onme inthe dark...

[chnapo]

I would never want a girl to use lube/lotion for a handjob. Your hand does not have to slide over his p...

[Anonymous]

Good question. Use some spit from you mouth. Or else just go slow and a little more loosely on your grip to reduce friction and soreness. I love when my woman uses her nails and lightly scratches it too.

[Anonymous]

baby oil