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My boyfriend said I was amazing for my first time and said next time we could try going a bit deeper. Girls, what's your experience,?

So I gave my boyfriend head. He was blindfolded and handcuffed. He guided me through and afterwards said he was very impressed. He told me to go slower and faster and focus on the tip a little. It wasn't bad at all, he didn't cum. My boyfriend said he never comes from it anyway. He suggested that next time I put it in a bit deeper in my mouth because he loves when it gets messy with saliva.

It sounds like I'm going to be choked to be honest. I'm a little worried. Any tips?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Especially since you're new to blowjobs, I would strongly encourage you to stay in control of how deep his penis goes, the speed, etc. It sounds like he's suggesting deep throating, which is a pretty big deal and not something everyone enjoys. It can be pretty uncomfortable and it really has to be something that you personally are into. It's not something to jump into without being totally ready and comfortable with how blowjobs work for you. So maintain control and make the decisions for yourself, so that the experience will be comfortable for you as well as enjoyable for him. You don't have to deeptheoat to give a good blowjob.

  • If you're still trying it with him tied down then you can control the depth. It doesn't have to be choking, just slowly push further until you reach your limit. If you can hold it down there for a bit breath slowly through your nose until you're ready to move. Once you get used to that just swallow and your throat muscles will convulse around the tip, if you just focus on breathing through your nose it's really not that hard.
    Don't feel pressured to do something you aren't comfortable with though Hun, it sounds like he really appreciated your efforts 😊

    • Very good instructions

  • A masturbation fetish. At christian camp one of the female counselors told myself and two of my roommates that to be able to keep a guy and not get we need to be good at sex and to grow our cliterouses and the best way was to before bed to apply baby oil on it and rub it for an hour. That night the three of us did and kept doing it until camp was over.

  • Only do as much as your comfortable with... if it's in too deep and your uncomfortable it won't be good for him anyway. Botyh people need to feel comfortable and get some kind of pleasure no sexual act should be compeltely one sided... he should be taking into account how you feel abotu ti all so make sure you talk to him about it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • choking a little and being messy like that is a turn on for lots of guys. also you can try twisting your tongue around the head while you go out. if you want to try going deeper, i suggest slowly breathing in while taking it in as deep as you can and breath out through your nose while going out. this way you surpress your gagging reflex. don´t worry about gagging or choking. you can just take it out at any point. you shouldn´t eat before you do it though :D but even if you actually throw up, don´t worry, it can happen xD he won´t think bad of you. that´s gonna be an a for effort ^^

  • Yeah, when he talks about deeper and saliva he is pretty much talking deep throat. That particular saliva is more about gagging than just normal drool. I would have a serious think about whether you want to be choking on his penis and feeling like you're going to throw up. If that's not a turn on for you then draw a firm line and say no, this is not going to happen.

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  • most guys like it as deep as possible. for your part do it as deep as is comfortable for you. if it is beyond teh point of comfort don't go further and you can just explain this as the reason if he asks

  • you won't be chocked but only go as far as you can

  • Open your throats like you are trying to swallow a giant pill or large piece of food. I also have no gag reflex so if you also don't have one then you should be good to go. Just take your time.

  • Weird

  • you gonna get deep throat baby. goosebumps on the way...

  • Go slow and press your forehead against his stomach when he goes in deeper (adds to the effect) and say ahhh slightly wrapping your lips around your teeth can prevent unwanted biting in case you choke. I hope that was the advice you were looking for xD

  • ıf ı were u ı wouldn't do it

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