Is 14 too young to lose your virginity?

[Anonymous]

I would enter more but comp ain't letting me :D
Basiclly where i live it the norm to lose it at 13, 14 max 15... Im 14 and well lately I've been thining and all my friends call me the last virgin standing and the guys all want to hookup with me :/ But i dont know i find it young, for me 14 is still a baby, to my mother im still her little baby and i dont think it would be very good for me or my mind too have sex at 14, and i think i should wait till im 15 :D And till i have a nice sweet boyfriend who cares about me :)

Thoughts? Opinions? Please share XD

I have experience tho, I've gone pretty far but yh not sex :D

[btbc92]

You are very young to be wanting to engaging in sex. Hookups and such is shallow and a bad way to experience your sex life because you end up embodying all of their sex partners into YOUR sexual identity. They become part of your body and you become part of theirs. There are serious risks and consequences to pay for doing so outside of marriage:

1. You are not of legal age to be engaging in sexual activities.
2. You are not of legal age to be married ; which is 18 or 16 with parental consent.
3. You are looking to just do this in a dating relationship, somebody who will NOT be responsible for what happens to you if you end up pregnant or with a disease.
4. There is no guarantee that birth control hormonal contraceptives with be safe for your body. And condoms have a chance at failing. And your friends won't be around once you experience heartbreak and end up with those issues.
5. Engaging in sex can lead to serious legal issues that your parents will have to be involved with.

You also have to look at this long term. Not short term. Because how you chose to have sex will determine your future relationships and the outcome of your life for now on. It will affect your family, friends, future children, and grandchildren. There is no guarantee if you will scapegoat from not getting an STD, or live till your old age. My mother never got that chance because she died from cervical cancer that became terminal and metastasized. She was very young, only in her 40's. She ended up with an STD at 13. Don't be foolish. Because these guys below the age of 45 will not be responsible for your well-being when your not married to him. Everything comes with the price. And sometimes it's your life.

[Lillypad190]

I"m going to sound like a mom when i say this (being 26) but its what id tell my own baby girl if she asked me the same thing. but sweet heart do not be any a hurry to grow up you have your hole life to have sex and be sexual. just in joy being you enjoy being 14 . you have the right mind set keep that mind set. wait till you are ready. you know in you heart that you are not ready. my first time i Waited till i was 18 and was with the guy for 2 years and i loved him deeply my first time was wonderful. if you Waite i proims it will be so so so worth it.

[sreeteja143]

madam its not "hole life" you must say "whole life"please replace it... otherwise the meaning may change

[Asker]

@sreeteja143 Urghhh u people r soo annoying, let her spell whole hole if she wants :/

[sreeteja143]

as u wish😂

[Prettygurl12]

When asking that question you should always replace, "have sex" with "be a parent" because protection fails. Caution fails. When engaging in sex there is always a chance of pregnancy and if you feel you're too young to take care of another human life then don't be sticking things where they don't belong.

[Asker]

thanks for the input :)

[super147]

There is a school of thought that says you shouldn't have sex until you are ready to deal with the consequences of sex. I don't mean just the emotional consequences, I mean the possibly physical and financial consequences. With sex there is always an element of risk, even with the safest sex. If you are not in a place to be able to raise and pay for a baby then you're not ready for sex.

Don't be in a rush to get everything done and don't give in to peer pressure. Too many young people do things simply to fit in and be accepted. You don't need to do that and you'll have more respect for yourself in later life if you don't.

[Asker]

thanks for the input :)

[jabbahut]

I personally think 14 is too young as you are still not yet an adult and haven't fully developed. It's a big decision that shouldn't be taken lightly. Enjoy your life as a Teen and instead wait a few years. Once you mature then I think it would be different story however 14 is still very young. Go out have fun but don't rush into potentially life changing decisions live that one.

[Asker]

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[Livinglogical]

I know they say its the average but is that really a good thing? Seems really gross to me. I was 18 though but just because it was never really a big deal to me. I wasn't 'waiting for the one' or any of that shit, I just didn't feel the need to bang anyone before that. If it feels like this big scary thing that you have to do rather than want to do then its probably not the best time to do it.

[Asker]

thanks for the input :)

[spuitkaas]

I don't think there's a age that's good to loose your virginity, but you say it yourself you think you're too young and thus not ready. If you feel that way you definetly shouldn't do it. There's no shame in waiting till you feel completely ready.

[Asker]

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[RJGraveyTrain]

How about you wait until you're the legal age of consent? Kids these days. Even if you have sex with another 14 year old or 15 year old, it's too damn young I say.

[AnayaWilliams]

14 is a bit young to lose your virginity. Don't do it because everyone else is doing it, wait until you are ready.

[Asker]

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[nicoleks]

I meant to click yes

[VesatileMarie]

WHAT EVER YOU DOOOO WAIT!!!

[Asker]

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[madhatters4]

i personally feel it's too young. but it is up to individuals i guess. people have to decide for themselves when the right time is. not based on what other people are doing but what they personally are ready and prepared for

[Asker]

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[MaiNameIsSunshine]

I'd say it's a bad idea if you only want to lose it because everyone else is doing it. Just wait until you are ready.

[Asker]

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[BertMacklinFBI]

not my place to say. but im gonna say no.

ask your mom

[sherbearee]

it's leaning on the young side in most western culture, but if you feel ready that's your call - just don't feel pressured

[Asker]

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[TripleAce]

Well it's not waiting much, might be young sure but not wrong if you did. I know when we were 14-15, most of us did explore

[Asker]

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[Phoenix98]

Jeez what is wrong with people, yes it's to young to lose it seriously, 14 is like still a child.

[Asker]

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[Phoenix98]

Welcome.

[SoloStarGazer]

I lost mine at 13

[Azdımdaondan]

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[KatherineJ]

My goodness yes! There is so much more involved than just losing your virginity. The emotional part, the risk part. Once you lose it, it can't be recovered. Wait until the right guy comes along.

[NANDHININANDU]

yes Its too young lose the virginity

[Asker]

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[genericname85]

if somebody told me "i lost my virginity at 14", i´d be like good for you, you´re really promiscuous, i guess"... but if you ask me if 14 is too young for it, i´d answer with a resounding yes. i don´t think there´s a valid reason for why you must have it that early.

[RainbowFanGirl]

If you have to have sex to get validation from your friends then you are doing it for all the wrong reasons.

[CHRIS11796]

Too young. Go live your life have fun, sex doesn't have to be a priority for you right now.

[Asker]

thanks for the input :)

[clampfan101]

Under 18 is for sure no deal! 🙅‍♂️
I would say 21 at the earliest, and not unless you've been bf/gf for a good amount of time. 🙂
I personally think it should wait until marriage, but that's 'cause I'm Christian. 😇 Either way, I'd say 21+.

[Adigelunar]

yeah it is too young