Guys, do you always need to masturbate when you get a boner?

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Lol sorry guys! I feel embarrassed🙈 but I was really curious
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  • No. When the stimulus goes away so does the boner. Some girls seem to think that sperm causes the erection and the sperm has to be ejaculated in order to lose boner, but it's blood that makes the dick hard. So you don't have to ejaculate in order to lose boner.

    • Yeah I actually used to think so too even though I know it is the blood that causes boners 🙈

  • Not at all, no.

    Sometimes they just happen, so there's no overwhelming urge to go masturbate, because of it. A lot of our boners just go wasted, lol.

    • When do you need to masturbate then? Does it depend on how hard it is? Sorry for sounding ignorant

    • No apologies necessary, I assure you. That's what this site is here for: asking/answering questions. :) Boners can happen for a few different reasons, or no reason at all. If they happen specifically because we're horny; those are the ones we'll usually need to take care of, by masturbating. It's not so much the actual boner that causes our desire to masturbate, but our state of mind, at the time. Like, if we see an attractive girl, we might get hard. Those just go away, and we don't need to masturbate. If we get one as a result of already being horny; those we want to take care of. I hope that's not too confusing?

    • Thank you. That is exactly what I wanted to know. So if a guy got a boner after talking to a girl he finds attractive, he doesn't need to masturbate to get rid of the boner unless he is in the mood of doing so?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Never had a boner so I don't know..
    Pretty sure they it hurts them though.

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  • No, not always

    • It's ok, nothing to be embarrassed about. But since you asked, and I answered, you have to answer mine. How often do you masturbate?

    • Well I'm odd... I get horny but I don't masturbate

    • Why don't you masturbate? Do you feel it's a sin or that it's shameful in some way?

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  • Not really , I may want to... sometimes I squeeze it a little so that it feels nice and then just let it go away... that might just be a me thing though lol

  • No, but we WANT to masturbate usually. Morning wood is a possible exception though. Morning wood is something that just happens but that isn't necessarily sexual. When I wake up with morning wood, I wasn't thinking of sex.

  • No they dont.

  • Nah not really lol, if I had to masturbate every time I got a boner I'd probably be masturbating too much, at least once or twice a day

    • But it's more fun to, it makes it go away more easily

    • Lol that would so unconvenient 😂

    • Haha yeah, I (and most guys I think) wake up in the morning with boners, so that would make it at least one time a day lol. Sometimes I do masturbate in the mornings with that morning boner but usually not

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  • need? no. Would like to, if sex isn't an option, though..

    • So let's say you talked to an attractive girl and got a boner after that. Do you excuse yourself and try to get rid of it in private or do you let it go by itself?

    • no, I stick around in case by some off chance she decides she wants to have sex. If it turns out she doesn't, and the opportunity passes, then I go home and jerk off.

  • What? I'd end up masturbating like 10 times a day xD
    No, most boners don't end up in masturbation.

  • No, not every erection is sexually related lol.
    You can walk it off in seconds.

  • dont be embarrassed and for me, i do have to masturbate whenever im hard which is most the time

  • I am not guy but scientifically NO

  • no not always lol

  • Yes. If we don't, our ball sacks literally explode

    • OMG like it literally goes booooom!

    • @Autumn-Bunny either we boom or it booms 😳

    • OMG should call bomb squad for that... I'm sure those guys have a lot of experience.

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  • Nope... not at all.

  • Nope cause sometimes it just goes away than that's it.

  • It’s uncomfortable in the pants but it’s not enough to make you want to masturbate unless there’s more visual or audio stimulation - then it might be masturbating time 😉👍

  • Nope. Do you need to masturbate every time you get wet?

    • No but our bodies are different

  • No, sometimes it's not a bad thing just to get the boner and not touch it...

    • Why be embarrassed... it's totally natural

  • Err no.

  • if i get hard i usually do jerk off its just the way i am

  • I am frequently hard, so no

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