What is going on with me lately? Why can't any girl keep my interest?

Background info:
It's common knowledge that the more sex partners one has their lifetime, the less emotionally attached one is from the act. I'm a guy who has had more partners than most people will ever get the chance to, so my emotional connection with sex is nonexistent at this point. It's not a problem; I'm perfectly fine with it honestly. Just like a lot of people who are promiscuous, I tend to lose interest in a person after I've slept with them; I don't not mind that either.

Problem:
Unfortunately, instead of plateauing at a loss of interest after sex, it seems that I've gone even further. I haven't lost my sex drive but I'm at a stage of losing interest in a woman BEFORE we even have sex. I'm not talking about losing interest because we've been talking for a while and haven't done it; because I lose interest LONG before then. I lose interest right after getting her phone number or texting for longer than hour, or sometimes even in the middle of our first conversation. It's not the girls are necessarily boring or unattractive, it's just feels like a physiological reflex that has recently begun to manifest. It doesn't matter how attractive, intelligent, funny, or extraordinary a woman is, I'll still lose interest within a matter of hours.

With that being said I should note that I still engage in sex on a regular basis (minimum of once per day), and I have a wide variety of partners to choose from. I also "spice" things up rather frequently (BDSM, threesomes, role play, etc).
The issue I'm having is my genuine loss of interest with every girl, especially new girls because I actually have to put in some effort and get to know them first. I use to enjoy getting to know new people. In fact, for me it's never been about the sex as much as it's been about the chase.

Conclusion:
I guess my biggest issue is that thrill of the hunt is beginning to wain...

What's going on with me?
Has anyone had a similar experience?
Is there a way to reverse it? If so, how?
What is going on with me lately? Why can't any girl keep my interest?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • not really... although i just think your still to meet a girl you really like or that truly gets to you... thats all... but i will say having had many partners hasn't helped your situation...😊

    • Yeah it really hasn't lol I know exact girl I would want but damn it nearly impossible to find a girl like that

    • surely not... let me guess someone with no sexual experience at all...😊

    • No lol wtf? I wouldn't mind that but it's not a part of my ideal criteria... besides, I've got someone who has only been with me lol

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  • so what you want to do is have the girl make you chase her instead of you just going up to her and asking her out

    • I'd lose interest if she did she that. If I ask a girl on a date and she says anything other than yes I'll forget she exists

    • so you like the thrill of the chase

  • ahh so many choices, godspeed.
    yeah i went through something similar, basically lost interest in everyone

    • That's not very good advice...

    • lmao well you're gonna get minimal advice from this site anyway, noone's in the same situation here. personally i just dont bother with establishing any sort of relationship cause I know I can't commit

    • Lol I'm not afraid of commitment or anything. I just haven't met the girl who meets my standards for it yet...

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  • Look you just haven't met the right person yet
    When you do you won't lose interest

Most Helpful Guy

  • What are your standards for committing to a lady?

    • I have a value-based judgement when it comes to dating. My only standards are that she needs to be different, boost my ego, and ultimately be a positive/support influence on the continuous improvement of my life and character.

    • Supportive*

    • Technically I have no physical, intellectual, or emotional standards for dating. It's just that a physically attractive woman is more likely to boost my ego, an intelligent/intellectual woman is more likely to be unique, and nurturing/loving woman is more like to have the strength and endurance to support my rapidly changing character.

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  • I like hot promiscuous guys

    • Lol never heard that before

    • your body looks hot

    • Thanks? Lol

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