What is going on with me lately? Why can't any girl keep my interest?
It's common knowledge that the more sex partners one has their lifetime, the less emotionally attached one is from the act. I'm a guy who has had more partners than most people will ever get the chance to, so my emotional connection with sex is nonexistent at this point. It's not a problem; I'm perfectly fine with it honestly. Just like a lot of people who are promiscuous, I tend to lose interest in a person after I've slept with them; I don't not mind that either.
Problem:
Unfortunately, instead of plateauing at a loss of interest after sex, it seems that I've gone even further. I haven't lost my sex drive but I'm at a stage of losing interest in a woman BEFORE we even have sex. I'm not talking about losing interest because we've been talking for a while and haven't done it; because I lose interest LONG before then. I lose interest right after getting her phone number or texting for longer than hour, or sometimes even in the middle of our first conversation. It's not the girls are necessarily boring or unattractive, it's just feels like a physiological reflex that has recently begun to manifest. It doesn't matter how attractive, intelligent, funny, or extraordinary a woman is, I'll still lose interest within a matter of hours.
With that being said I should note that I still engage in sex on a regular basis (minimum of once per day), and I have a wide variety of partners to choose from. I also "spice" things up rather frequently (BDSM, threesomes, role play, etc).
The issue I'm having is my genuine loss of interest with every girl, especially new girls because I actually have to put in some effort and get to know them first. I use to enjoy getting to know new people. In fact, for me it's never been about the sex as much as it's been about the chase.
Conclusion:
I guess my biggest issue is that thrill of the hunt is beginning to wain...
What's going on with me?
Has anyone had a similar experience?
Is there a way to reverse it? If so, how?
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