Is it cheating if a guy fingers a girl who isn't his girlfriend?

because she has two broken arms and cannot do it herself so she asks him to do it because she has a bad case of blue bean?
Is it cheating if a guy fingers a girl who isn't his girlfriend.......?


Blue Bean - The swelling of the female clitoris due to sexual stimulus without the release of orgasm. AKA the female equivalent to blue balls. A painful and annoying sensation which can easily be remedied in a variety of ways. . . ranging from sexual intercourse to a mere twiddling.
Is it cheating if a guy fingers a girl who isn't his girlfriend?


Updates:
+1 y
lol @ the girls responses. At least most of the guys understand that it's ok. It's just helping her out and being a good friend.
+1 y
Whoever replies with a picture of a banana first gets MHO
0 2

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes, sexual contact outside your relationship is cheating. Then there's the whole 'emotional affair' issues people deal with as well.

    She'll get over it. When she's well enough to do herself she will. No one died from being horny, and the whole 'blue bean' thing is just bullshit.

    • Plus it's not like she started having sex but then got left hanging without an orgasm. That's what would cause problems, not just sitting there.

  • In my opinion it's cheating.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, it absolutely is. The fact that she can't do it herself is irrelevant. Buy her a sex toy is she's really having a hard time and you want to help. Or she can always ask someone who is single to help her. Charity is not an excuse to cheat.

    • Most guys "understand" that it's okay? Are you kidding me? There are limits to the call of duty when it comes to being a good friend. I guess there's a lesson in this for all of us: get really, really specific when you talk to your SO about what monogamy means to you.

    • And are you telling me that if the roles were reversed, most guys would be totally fine with their girlfriend jacking off her male friend just because he couldn't do it himself?

  • If both are single it isn't cheating.
    If she's not single, why doesn't her boyfriend do it?
    If he's not single, she could get someone else to do it. Or get a vibrator.

  • Its cheating if you touch the HOE in any kinda way. Dont even hug her. Thats considered "attempting to cheat" 😂😂😂

    • ouch

    • Im kidding (not really) lol

    • LOL! Attempting to cheat.

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

8 17
  • If the finger doesn't go inside then it's not cheating. That's the rule.

    • 😂 that's a super technical rule

    • Lies!! Lol

    • @DizzyDesii :D Hater! :P

  • He's not allowed to touch it but he is allowed to blow on it.

    • o. O Extra strong mint and then blow

    • Not the kind of mints that freeze though maybe something tropical.

    • Can u private me lady please

    • Show All
  • Yes, it is cheating.

    She ain't gonna die without it.

  • of course it is

    • whether it's "helping" or not does change the fact that you are betraying your spouse. if i have sex with a woman who wants a child and can't find anyone to do it it doesn't change the fact that i cheated on my partner.

  • Um , yes, wtf?

  • Is it cheating if a girl blows a guy, since you know, most guys can't suck their own dicks? Dude, your logic is so fucked up. Buy her a vibrator.

    • It's just being nice

    • so you don't mind if yout girl blows another guy? you wanna be nice, buy her a sick fuckmachine or those hitachi massager.

    • You're not being kind, you're being a pervert and a cheater. Again. There are toys you could get her. Or hire a male prostitute for her. Now that is kindness.

  • LOL! You are such a troll. Yes! It's cheating. But funny post.

    • All of you guys are trolls. Fingering counts as cheating and if you ever did that in a relationship, I hope you get smacked. You would deserve it.

  • Pretty much.

  • Acts of mercy are allowed.

    • Might wanna run that by you SO first.

    • @samhradh_leannan No prob. She has a sense of humour. Are you suggesting this is a serious question? Or, worse, that if it it's serious that it should be taken seriously?

    • I'd rather answer it seriously than risk giving someone bad advice.

    • Show All
  • It's for a good cause.

  • in the name of SCIENCE!! ... nah

  • yes it is

  • No, that guy is just being a good friend.

    • That's what I was thinking

  • Yep, I'd say it's cheating.

  • Yeah, if he has a girlfriend and fingers a girl cause she can't do it
    sounds like he be cheating on his girlfriend. LOL

  • Man, with a question like you have set up, this is really tricky to answer.

    • It's really not.

    • @samhradh_leannan That means I'm the only one, who couldn't answer this question so far :/

    • Except that you didn't answer it. But okay.

    • Show All
  • It's cheating.

  • How on earth would you think it's not? Why don't you ask your girlfriend and find out?

  • yes its cheating

  • i will gladly offer her a, hand, or a dick 😂😡

  • Show More (5)