Do virgin girls generally want sexually experienced guys or would they prefer learning alongside a virgin guy?

[Joti_Harrison]

I'm a proud virgin. I've had several opportunities to have sex since high school, till even now that I'm in Uni. However, I kinda get turned off by a girl who has had several other sexual partners in the past, and I'd rather date and enter an LTR with a virgin girl because I feel she has more probability to be committed If she has kept her self for so long, and less probability of her having an STD having not slept around. I also believe it's a lot more special losing it with a fellow virgin girl who I have grown to love and have built a strong relationship based on honesty and trust. However, it is almost impossible to find a girl who is still a virgin in this modern age. I was wondering If virgin girls out there prefer to date a fellow virgin or would prefer a guy who has slept with several other girls out there and has garnered so-called sexual "experience". Would appreciate If only virgin guys and girls vote in the poll. Virgin guys can also vote If they prefer virgin girls or sexually "experienced" girls.

[Idonthaveausername]

I would absolutely prefer a virgin guy who is confident in himself and his future abilities. A virgin man is STD-free and clearly respects women because he doesn't feel entitled to their bodies or view them as sexual objects. It's even harder for men to control their sex drives than women, so it would be more impressive and show more self-restraint and control than a virgin woman of the same age. A virgin man has proved his own self-worth and value of others as well as responsibility for not taking actions that could have turned sour on him

That said, I wouldn't require a man to be a virgin if I loved him enough, but I'd still require a low partner count. I could never love a manwhore. They abuse and use insecure women for sex and view women as sexual objects they're entitled to. With all of the male virgin shaming that young men are exposed to couples with intense surges of testosterone and other physical urging, I couldn't blame a man for wanting to test the waters or if he had sex during a long-term relationship. Decent men these days are so rare that it's hard to find one who is still a virgin, especially after a certain age

I would prefer a virgin man or one with no more than three partners depending on how he entered into sexual relationship with these girls, and what kinds of girls they were. A non-virgin man would have more to prove to me for me to decide If he could respect me properly or not

[Joti_Harrison]

I see a lot of class and intelligence in how you frame and answer questions. Ladies like you make me know that classy ladies still exist out there. keep up the elegant lifestyle 👍

[Idonthaveausername]

Oh thank you so much. Polite and respectful men with self-control like you are a rarity as well, especially on this site.

[interstellar]

Yupp, you seem a wise lady. So rare.

[Anonymous]

I'd prefer an experienced guy that could lead me through and care for me because I'll have no idea what I'm doing. I also find dominance a turn on in guys and I think that dominance takes experience and confidence which isn't going to happen with a virgin. That being said, I would still lose it to a virgin if we were dating or something and truly cared for each other. I can't really say that I'll only be with experienced guys when I myself am a virgin.

[Raheemudheen]

At what limits do you like dominance

[Anonymous]

I'd rather have a virgin. I like learning together, and it's nice knowing his dick hasn't been stuck in tons of people.

They say it takes your body 7 years to fully shed. So guess if it's any consolation in 7 years any girl you want wouldn't have been touched. Unless they have sex again

[bamesjond0069]

I am not a virgin, not even close. That being said I have taken a few girls virginities and been with even more girls with very low body count, 3 or less. Usually the girls liked that I had experience because they said "I am very selective and I am sticking with you, at least I know the sex is going to be good".

I have never not once, been denied by a girl i was seeing upon sharing my sexual history. So while some may not like it, it never was a problem for me. by the way my body count is in the hundreds.

[kostas25]

I prefer virgins but I take it slow and teach them... being experienced doesn't mean that you are not gentle or you don't care... I think it means the opposite

[lovydoey]

I rather have someone with experience, so I know what I am supposed to do and so he can teach me.

[Joti_Harrison]

Are you thinking about the fact that sexually experienced guys have had soo many other girls and might also be used to experienced things like anal and deep-throating as he is used to higher -level things and girls who probably give it to them in a beat. Also, do you believe it is impossible to learn with a virgin, and do you think that being a virgin makes you automatically bad at sex? Would appreciate your view on this?

[lovydoey]

Well this is my opinion. I am not pushing my views on anyone nor I want anyone's views to shape what I would prefer. If I have sex with a guy who is experience then he will understand that I am a virgin and will take it slow for me. Hence he cares about me. Because I will not have sex with just any guy. I'm not going to lose it that easily and that desperately. Besides I will learn faster on what will feel good to me and how to move and position myself to please him and myself. Is like anything. Ur first time in anything doesn't make u an expert. It takes practice and experience to learn what u are comfortable and what u like and don't.

[Joti_Harrison]

I am not trying to push my views on you, I only wanted to see your views and opinions on the questions I asked. What If your experienced guy wants anal NOW? Do you think a virgin who loves you wouldn't want to take it gently with you so as not to hurt you? Would just live your opinion.

[PurpleTeardrops2]

I prefer Virgins being a Virgin myself

[RebeccaSJ]

My first partner was a virgin too

[JennieF]

My first was experienced.

[yp9209]

I know it would be special for both of us

[Anonymous]

I’d prefer an experienced guy

[Anonymous]

I'd prefer an experienced guy

[Anonymous]

I trust a guy with experience to be more gentle and careful. You wouldn't want a guy who just graduated from med school to perform open heart surgery on you, would you?

[FrenchyRomain]

double standards? that experience guy is a total slut for having multiple sex partners before you... he doesn't value sex at all, or his virginity for that matter (I hate women who talk like that about other women)

[Joti_Harrison]

lol how can you compare sex, a period of pleasure to an open - heart surgery, which takes several hours to perform and several years of learning before graduation from med - school. Guess I understand the level of "Experienced" you want in your partner. It's your preference though, and you have every right to like what you like.

[Opinion Owner]

As a virgin, my first time will not be pleasurable, it's gonna fucking hurt. I know that. I would prefer my first time to be with someone who knows what they are doing and will make it as less painful for me as possible. I don't trust a virgin guy to be gentle.

[Joti_Harrison]

If you want to be in a relationship built on love and trust like me, I can assure you that a virgin guy who loves you would not want to hurt you in anyway and will be as gentle as he can. But If it were a One - night stand or friends with benefits you wanted, then I can understand why that would definitely be different because he wouldn't care about your feelings as he knows he probably won't be seeing you again or he doesn't really care about you deeply.