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Should I get angry that my boyfriend masturbates with twerking and dancing videos on youtube?

I get angry because he gets turned on by watching other women who dance. The fact that it's not meant to be porn is what irritates me the most. At the same time, he doesn't want me to watch videos with men who masturbate. When I complain about double standards he's replying it's not the same, because the men I watch are naked but the women he watches aren't, and they don't masturbate, they dance. But the fact that they aren't naked and he's still aroused by it, is exactly what irritates me. I tried to explain it, but he doesn't get why I am angry since they are clothed. And he doesn't like my dancing. Is it wrong he does that or I'm too insecure?
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  • It's not wrong that he does it and it's not wrong that you might masturbate over naked men. The only thing wrong is his logic. Once you are sexualising an image and masturbating over it then it doesn't really matter if the person in the image is naked or not. He is arguing over irrelevant details. Once you are masturbating you have sexualised the imagery anyway.

    Don't accept bullshit reasoning just because he won't accept logic. If he can masturbate to imagery then so can you. What imagery that is doesn't make a difference as long as it's nothing illegal, obviously, and it's not images of real people that you know in your personal life.

  • What he masturbates to shouldn't really matter ( with reason and legality ) but the fact that you have rules to follow about what gets you off I find completely unreasonable. He needs a reality check , you done it before you were with him. Seems like you could just join him though that way your both masturbating together , you to him and him to you tube lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • All guys masturbate. Nearly all do so with porn or pornographic pictures/stories/sexy videos. Some like big girls, other like skinny, some like boobs better and some liks butts, some like lingerie, nude or clothed. It doesn't have anything to do with reality or his feelings for you, it's just his way of jerking off. Let him. It's normal and natural.

    Researchers tried to find a connection between guys' pornography consumption and their real life relationships' health. The result was: we can't find one single guy who doesn't ever watch it so we don't have anyone to compare the porn watchers with.

  • In this particular case I think you're somewhat justified, especially since he wants to be controlling of what you watch.

    Personally I don't care what my boyfriend masturbates to, as long as it's not a live or personal interaction in any way and it doesn't affect our relationship. Br f he told me about it, did it around me, or otherwise rubbed my face in it, I'd definitely be upset by that.

  • I think its okay that he's attracted to twerking, but he needs to let you watch what you wanna watch.

    Honestly, he's the one that sounds the most insecure in this situation.

  • Can he get angry about your fantasizes and what you think about to get off?

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  • Why in the world would he want to watch those nasty hoes in the first place?

    • because that might be something that turns him on. plus you shouldn't call people names. because ever female has alittle nasty in them.

    • @Fieric I'll call them like I see them

    • but am i right though?

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  • are you serious?

  • It shouldn't bother you but not because you're insecure. Just understand that some of us are aroused by things other people just don't get. More accurately can't get.
    I get off on the thought of getting judo-flipped by Lucy Liu in sexy lingerie or Diana Rigg in her Avenger persona. I love it, and I understand others going 'huh?'
    You don't get his kink but that's ok, maybe you should just twerk him?
    What should bother you is his hypocritical objection to your preference.

  • I don't think it's wrong that he does it. I think he should let you masturbate to porn if you want though

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