Can a man explain please why I should not be insecure if my boyfriend checks out other women?
Now, since my latest boyfriend suddenly I am extremely jealous. It hell hurts me to think my boyfriend watches porn or checks out other women. Somehow I had a change of focus of the idea. And I feel as if all men are all perverted and even if they only look at other woman they desire her (I mean as well when in relationship) they want her, and that just does not stand logical to me for someone who supposed to love a certain person.. I mean I can see handsome men but I dont give it importance. They are just handsome, so what. The most handsome man on the planet cannot compare to my SO and to why I love him. So when guys are checking out other women when in relationship I feel like, they are looking elsewhere. They cannot settle with one. Or they simply want all the gorgeous women. So where is love here? All these really hurts me. Can someone please explain to me how it is from the guy view? What would you tell to someone you really love, why she should not feel insecure about your loyalty and desire? Unless of course there is a reason that you do desire all those women and simply cannot be loyal.
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