Guys, Why do guys cling onto me?

[AnimeGeekKatie]

So I'm religious. Heavily. My religion is Christianity, but my denomination is Holiness. (I can't wear makeup, jeans, shorts, earrings, jewelry, I can't drink, smoke, or have sex before marriage. It goes against my religion.) I'm pretty skinny, to the point my breasts are NOTHING to be desired. I don't believe you can fall in love while you're a teenager, and I despise physical affection. I stand out among other teenage girls (Or so I've been told by adults) because I don't see the need to be petty about things, to act slutty, or the need to cling onto a guy and expect a marriage to happen. I focus more on my education that petty relationships. I thought that because I looked different since I only wore skirts and no makeup, no guys would desire me. Instead, I find myself having almost every guy I make friends with cling to me. I've dated multiple guys, and in the end I became "bored" per say, and broke up with them. Every single one of my exes refuse to date anyone else, and keep telling me that I'm "the only one for them. And that they love me." All eleven of them. Even though I look nothing like your typical teenager girl, and I don't act like a rebellious "I'm in love with him" type of a person, I can't seem to shake guys (and sometimes girls). Everywhere I go I'm constantly asked for my number, if I'm single, etc. Even though I dress modestly I get cat-called, touched inappropriately, and basically just chased. By guys younger, same age, and older than me. A lot of girls who can wear makeup, who basically look like a Kardashian have told me "I wish I had all these guys after me like they do you." I don't understand why though, they can do ANYTHING with their body, but I can't and yet I'm envied? But my question is, why? Why do they follow me around whenever I'm so much different from the typical female now-a-days?

[Dim1213]

Without seeing you I'm guessing that it is your so different, confident, and have high self respect for yourself. I doubt that it is cause your a tomboy. Tour also secure in your faith and you know what you want. I'm guessing that you also probably stay friends with the guys you dated which is causing them to not fully get over you. Those guys I'm sure cause others who never would have gone for you to go for you after hearing about you. It sounds tour kind of like a fad. Your also showing off things that for lack of a better term the same thing that bad boys show off. From your description your probably also out going and you do well in sports. Those guys enjoy spending time with you in stuff they like.
I don't know how big your church is but I'm guessing that those 11 guys were probably from yours or another church. You kind of like the brass ring that is so hard to get for the guys. At my church there was a girl vaguely like you that a lot of the guys liked and she never made them get over her till she finally found the man that took her heart. Also just cause you don't think that tour all that does not mean that your not really hot just cause you don't wear makeup another great thing that you over looked is that your rocking a skirt which is something amazingly attractive and feminine that so few women wear these days.
If you want these guys to get over you seriously talk with them and make them realize that things did not work out between you two and it is over. They will never end up with you. Those are my thoughts
But why do you hate physical attraction? It is something that is God given and very nessassary for a couple to work out. If your just attracted to a guys mind you will get bored with him eventually. You need to love both a guys body and mind and he has to love you completely also.

[Dim1213]

Thanks for giving me MHO I hope that my opinions helped.

[Excited_soup]

Part of me thinks you want people to tell you that you're attractive. You probably are. The guys you end up being with, you're probably not very affectionate to in any way, is what I'm guessing. They want validation from you, and when you don't give it, they want it more. Such is the way of things.

[AnimeGeekKatie]

I actually don't care if someone finds me attractive or not, a lot of people see that your level or being attractive is your level or worth and I believe that's a very petty and demeaning thing to do. I show some affection, just not a lot since some of my previous boyfriends have done a little more than I would've liked, and it's warded me off from going further than holding hands, hugging, and kissing. I've had a lot of obsessive boyfriends in the past, which has made me absolutely terrified of guys who tell me that they are in love with me.

[Excited_soup]

I feel like you might also just be hanging around with the type of guys that do that. Your name is "animegeekkatie", and a lot of the stories I've heard like yours are from people who deviate from "the norm" in those terms. I could be wrong, but I feel like it's likely. I still think what I said before is true, and they want more from you than you're giving, they seek affection because you don't give them any. If you don't want them to do something, let them know. If they don't respect you, leave them. If they continue to bother you, block them on any sort of social media/your phone and ignore them. If it stays as a problem, tell them you're going to go to the police about them harassing you.

[Kachatterjee]

Because you are natural and not fake.

[TryingToWriteBooks]

haha eleven. nice. well, what do you look like?

[AnimeGeekKatie]

I'm on the skinnier, pale side. My hair is thick and curly coffee blonde. In also quite short, and I wear glasses. I've had people tell me that I look like "A fragile doll." (If that was a compliment or a nasty remark I don't know.)

[TryingToWriteBooks]

Are you like an 8+/10?

[Anonymous]

You must give incredible bjs

[AnimeGeekKatie]

I've never had any type of sexual interaction, and I do not wish too since I'm at a young age.

[Anonymous]

maybe they like that you are hard to get, it makes them want you more and more.

People want what they can't have a lot of times.

[Anonymous]

Too bad your cult brainwashed you into being a cold hearted bitch. Not sure why other guys are into you.

[AnimeGeekKatie]

Is it because I said it became bored with them? That's not what I meant. What I want by that was, I was only in high school and they became creepily obsessive. I had a few exes even start preventing me to see some of my family. I didn't mean to sound heartless, I've just had bad past experiences with guys becoming obsessive in an relationship. The part about physical affection? I'm just not comfortable with it. I'm okay with hugging and kissing, but I've had past boyfriends squeeze my thigh, grab me in areas they shouldn't, etc. It's warded me off from touching in an relationship. I apologize if you believe my religion is cult, I didn't intend for it to come across as so, and I apologize if I came off as cold and heartless, I also didn't intend too.