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What do you think about wanting threesomes (in a relationship) but only if they DO NOT include someone of your own gender?

Girls, if your boyfriend says he'd be down for a threesome under the condition that it's with you and another female, what would you think about it?
What do you think about wanting threesomes (in a relationship) but only if they DO NOT include someone of your own gender?

Guys, if your girlfriend says she'd be down for a threesome under the condition that it's with you and another male, what would you think about it?



What do you think about wanting threesomes (in a relationship) but only if they DO NOT include someone of your own gender?







I'm male and I'am fine with it
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I'm female and I'm fine with it
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I'm male and I would not like it
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I'm female and I would not like it
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  • If I asked for a threesome, it means I'm just using you for sex, pleasure and other benefits. If I really love you, no way I'd need another woman. Sure, I'll still get attracted to random hot chics and they'd give me boner, but no, I don't need anyone because I have the most beautiful woman in the world waiting for me at home.

    Seriously, I would be ecstatic about threesome and feel accomplished by having two baginas at the same time, but when I'm serious, I'll be lot more possessive and that's why, I'll expect her to not to demand that from me. I'd get a bit worried about myself. I'd question myself whether I'm not doing the things wholly and properly or does she just want to spice up the things? How exciting our usual sex sessions would be? But why another male? Who would it be? On what basis she'll select him? Lucky bastard.

    • Offtopic: Why did you make polls like "I'm a male/female..." Why didn't you simply make "I'm fine with it/not fine with it"? because people could fuck up the polls by tapping the button for the opposite gender. And if you wanted gender specific results, it could easily be seen by pink and blue colour.

    • Well la di da

  • I'm not instantly opposed to threesomes in any capacity.

    It would depend on the current health of our relationship, her reasons for wanting to do it, who the third party would be, and what she expects the result to be.

    If any of that doesn't jive with me, it's not happening.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's okay to want that, as long as you respect it if your girlfriend feels the same the other way around.
    Im a bisexual girl so ffm threesomes are a win for me. The guy I've done those with isn't interested in men at all so if we'd have mmf threesomes, they'd be very unbalanced (with not everyone giving and getting equal attention). However, if I'd been straight and only interested in mmf, the result would probably be us not having any threesomes and we should both respect the others likes and dislikes.

    • I've had a mmf threesome we stayed on opposite ends but she brought it up how would i bring it up to 2 women im 35 and never had a mff

    • @wildbill81 in my case I was already dating the girl, she and that guy had been together for years and were polyamorous. He was dating several people and so was she. I felt attracted to him too, we had dinner with a group and afterwards we stayed behind, watched a movie and it then was just the natural thing to happen

  • Somehow idea of threesomes, in relationship or not, doesn't appeal me at all. Still, talking about relationship threesome (hypothetically) I wouldn't share my partner with ANYONE #Possessiveaf

    • Understandable. Generally I wouldn't either but I assume after a decade of being together your ideals loosen. If I ever do do it with my wife, thenot probably at 50 or something when you generally care less.

    • Well I don't get this concept of loosening ideals tbh. I can't see myself doing it even after years of marriage.

    • Understandable again. I wouldn't mind living without it. It's something I "may" agree to try - but never strive towards or even ask for it often.

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  • This couple I know was hinting around they wanted a threesome with me today. I think they were high or something lol. I was like wtf! So I made a polite excuse and went home XD

    • You may have liked it lol

    • If you saw them, you'd have turned them down.

    • All right, understandable.

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  • Im a female, and I would not like it. The guy may enjoy having sex with her and want it done on the regular or the female may enjoy the sex with him and want him. I have seen so many cases of these and they do not end good. They only end up with the female being hurt and heartbroken.

  • The idea of threesomes has never, and will never appeal to me regardless of the gender. I don't think it's romantic or sexy to have another person share something so special with my partner. I have no desire and neither does my boyfriend.

  • I wouldn't be okay with a threesome at all, no matter who the third person was. But knowing that he would only consider a threesome with another girl would only solidify my unwillingness to have one.

  • i've done it, but only in relationships i wasn't invested in/where i didn't love the person i was with.

    now that i am in love with my special person, i might still be okay with it, but i'm not really the sharing type lol.

    • How is it a relationship if you're not invested. Wasn't that just a friends with benefits kind of thing?

    • no; it was an ltr. i was with the dude for 7 years. i wanted to be in love with him, but i just wasn't. back then, falling in love was hard for me. i simply didn't trust people enough to let them close enough for that~ the one time i did, it ended badly and i was so broken afterward that it only cemented my belief that true love didn't exist and people couldn't be trusted. so i refrained from ever allowing myself to get that attached to someone.

    • Damn... that's a bummer

  • My girl says she is a bit bi-sexual. I am not bi-sexual at all. So that makes the choice of the third persons gender simple.

  • I'd just leave

    • So it is enough for your SO to just propose the idea for you to leave?

    • Yes. If we're a couple, we would have already had the talk about exclusivity, commitment and being faithful, so she would know where I stand on the matter.

    • But in order to talk about it, you have to bring it up.

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  • I don't think in a relationship it's healthy. I think it would be something fun for that moment they'd do but.. then may give partners the idea they can sleep with who ever they want whenever they want... and can start an open relationship and or cheating.. it's not smart

    • I'm inclined to agree.

    • I know haha it's not smart lol if you do that you might as well be single and sleep around

  • fmf and mfm both are amazing fun.. with the right people

    • how would i bring it up to 2 women

    • just ask

    • ill try that

  • I would really be up for that actually

  • I don't think that I'd want to do that. It's fine for him to suggest it, we've discussed things like that before, but I don't think I want to go through with that.

  • I had a 3some in college with my girlfriend and her hot roommate and we had a blast although I was kinda sore the next day. I'm not sure if I would be comfortable with another guy and one girl. But never say never.

  • Pass...

  • unless it was an open relationship, I wouldn't do this with my girlfriend. Some other random girl, sure.

  • I'm not into sharing myself or my partner. Them even suggesting such thing is a huge red flag.

    • Well nothing wrong with bringing something up. Insisting on it should be a red flag.

    • But bringing it up is them not thinking of being monogamous. It's them being ok with either of us being with someone else, and that's not the type of thing I want in a relationship. If they bring it up, it means they already have desires of being with someone else... so it's just time before they end up cheating.

    • Not true. Once can separate feelings from sex quite easily. I could love a woman with all my heart and want to spend the rest of my life with her and still I could easily bring up the question about a threesome just to hear what she thinks about it. At no moment would any intentions to cheat appear.

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  • Threesomes have no place in relationships PERIOD. If you only want a threesome with two people of the opposite gender, but forbid your partner from doing the same, that's selfish and hypocritical to say the least.

  • Hell no, if he *ONLY* wants to do it with another girl that's selfish. Either we both get one with someone of the opposite gender or no one gets anything.

  • This is stupid, people who are in love don't perform such crap.

    • Many people can separate love from sex.

  • Not for me, I don't want sex for pleasure.
    I want to have it with the girl I love!

  • I wouldn't be ok with that, but to each their own

  • I would leave him
    I'm not even kidding

    • @blahhblahh22 💋💋💋💋💋💋

    • But if he were to simply propose the idea, what then? Not demand it, just bring it up to see what you'd want?

    • I'd be really hurt. Like am I not enough wtf. A single me is enough for two women lmao. Js.

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