Why does it seem that girls always give oral sex more than they receive it from their boyfriends?

Today I was talking with some friends and we were talking about how our boyfriends rarely give us oral sex but we constantly give them head. I really like receiving oral sex but my boyfriend doesn't do it very often. Overall, I suck his dick much more than he eats me out. He's the only guy I've ever received oral from and he's good at it. I don't know why sometimes he really wants to do it but then he doesn't do it for weeks. I wouldn't him to go down on me if I hadn't recently showered or was hairy; I keep it clean down there. I'm wondering if this is normal for most couples?
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  • I agree with this, and that's why I have a "you can't beat it up if you don't eat it up" policy. Most of my pleasure comes from receiving oral and if I don't have it, I just don't want sex. My previous partners didn't seem to mind. My ex actually liked my taste and he was the one who usually initiated going down on me.

    • I have had a relationship like that and if it works, why not? In my case I love giving it and am cool with things

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  • I've had girlfriends that didn't like being eaten out, they didn't like being eaten out often or they liked giving head more than being eaten out. If I were you i'd be upfront ith him and say you love when he goes down on you and tell him he's only getting head if he reciprocates from now on. That's totally fair

  • "Why does it seem that girls always give oral sex more than they receive it from their boyfriends?"
    Because they initiate it (or are lobbied to) before they get it. If girls want oral sex, they should set a "de facto" policy (unspoken, but enforced) to get it first if they want it.

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  • Because guys talking about and share their experiences out loud. More then girls maybe. I won't say it happens more because I've seen guys get pretty dirty. NO OFFENSE take it as a kind hearted complimentary tone

  • I won't give unless I recieve for this reason.

  • I'm not sure why that is, but it is true. Women have a natural desire to put a guy's erect penis into her mouth and suck on it until it ejaculates. I guess you do it because it is fun for you. I mean, it looks fun for you, anyway. And the way you moan and hum when he starts shooting his sperm in your mouth makes me think you like that, right?

  • Not exactly.. That comes down to whether a girl wants to give it or expects it back.

  • If it is important to you chamge the paradigm I would give my girl oral every day is she wanted it

  • Us men are lazy and women

  • If i was in a relationship, i would like to give my girlfriend oral and wouldn't find anything wrong, except that she shaves and showers before going under.

  • it's actually not true.. I enjoy giving than receiving

  • No should be equally enjoyable especially 69 both having fun

  • Because in sex it is generally men who do most or all of the work. Oral is your chance to give back.

  • I think it's more common but not always.

    I've given way more than I've received in life. And I'm not alone.

  • It's traditional. Its part of what makes you attractive to us.

    Just like we're expected to pay for dates and buy girls shit. Because it's 'traditional' lol.
    It shows us that you really care. I couldent be with a girl who doesn't give me way more head then I give. That way I know it's not just about sex. (For her!)

    At any rate it ain't changing anytime soon. If you aren't down with giving plenty of head- your sister will, or your best friend.
    It's your traditional duty.

  • It's the same for me, don't worry. My boyfriend always wants head, and some days he will say how much he wants to give me oral, but then he won't say it again for a couple weeks.

  • Because girls love sucking dicks and vaginas taste horrible