I want to have more anal sex with my lady, but would really like some pointers from other girls?

[TheFifth]

Hi everyone,
This is my very first post on this site. I actually came across it by Googling "anal sex on her period" and the top result was a girl asking the guys if it would gross them out to have anal on her period! "Peffect" I thought!

I have a pretty strong fetish for anal sex. Not the kind of fetish that involves pain or anything over the top. I actually cannot enjoy anal unless I know that the girl is also enjoying it with me.

My lady usually lets me indulge it once or twice per year. Usually for my birthday or some other special occadion. It's usually very planned out so that she feels clean and mentally prepared for it. When all is said and done we usually have a good anal experience with minimal discomfort, and she usually cums pretty intensely with some clitoral stimulation.

I would really like to have these experiences more often, and I thought maybe monthly anal while on her period would be a perfect opportunity! (Note: she's currently on her period.) It gave me great hope to find girls on this forum who voluntarily do this with their SO while on their periods, and enjoy it.

I'd really appreciate some advice on how to approach the situation. Thanks!

[Skadouchebag]

you're new to this site, eh? well Let me tell you some things you should know. first, a fetish isn't a sexual prefference, it's when you perceive as sexual something that in reality isn't (anal has been observed in animals), like pain, feet, children, fecal matter, or the berlin wall.

second, there are a surprisingly large number of men catfishing as sluty women on here, as well as a large number of genuinely promiscuous women. you can tell them apart in several ways: the fake ones tend to use a lot of exclamation points (!) and are obviously trying to be sexy, but the real ones aren't necessarily like that. if she claims to be bi but almost always talks about dick instead of vagina, then she's a catfish. the fake ones also tend to claim absurd feats, like blowing 50 guys in one night, or only having sex with rich old men who are sadists, and yet elsewhere claiming to sleep with a different guy every night.

[AustinMan]

It sounds to me like you just need to talk to her about how much you both enjoy it. I'm betting that she'll find that when you take her up the ass more often, she'll acclimate to it and find it as much fun as you do.

When you have sex, who dominates?

[iuoala]

in my opinion, spoil her during her period, she might not be feeling well enough to be on for giving anal another try so you have more chances if she is feeling good and is in a good mood. Focus on spoiling her and pleasing her, I don't know, cuddle, rub her stomach, make her hot tea, watch her fave show with her, play with her hair, and make her feel good. when she is better, point out how much you miss and want to fuck her ass. I don't think she would refuse to please you back!

[Anonymous]

I do not have periods any more as I am on my second Nexplanon implant. So my boyfriend and I have anal sex just because we like it. The most important thing is to use plenty of lube and take it very easy and slow. Girl in pain=no more anal.

[Opinion Owner]

How to get more? Ask her outright.

[SovereignessofVamps]

She might have cramps or whatever. I don't think period anal is a good idea. Just tell her you want to try more often!

[Panda_gurl88]

Lots of lube!!! Also try it with her on her back and you on top it’s very very intimate face-to-face. And be patient

[nerms123]

Just tell her. Ask her what she wants in return. Probably get her something nice and she’ll do it. Like some chocolate or something lol

[NJ_Casanova]

You're lucky she lets you do it at all. I've never been given the "green light" to try it.

I don't know about the period anal thing.. but I've had girls that like sex more often as the orgasms helped with their cramps/etc.

[Mommy3cupcakes]

Do not pressure her to do so! Love her for being who she is!!!

Try missionary with her legs up pulled up high if she is flexible. it feels a little less terrible that way, prolly able to relax more and being face-to-face and able to kiss which REALLY REALLY makes it a LOT better for a woman emotionally and mentally.

But please remember for women the idea of a man inserting himself back there is kinda terrifying and a very vulnerable feeling. It’s not sexy but rather something done out of love or devotion. So be very gentle and go very slow!!! For you the pleasure can only increase but for her it’s only a matter of how much pain she’ll have.

Be gentle and love her

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't recommend it on our period. She's more likely to shit on your dick.
Our stomachs are typically more upset on our periods.

[Opinion Owner]

Also she may feel obligated to give it to you on her period.