Is it normal how obsessed my girlfriend is with cuddling with me?

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Hey I'm not complaining, not at all. I love it.

But she is a cuddle fiend. Whenever we're together, she always tries to do little things to get me to cuddle with her. Like sitting down on the couch and stretching in a cute way, things like that to bait me into it.

Most of our dates involve one of us at each other's houses either napping in bed together or binge watching shows on the couch under a blanket with make-out sessions in between. And she talks all the time when she's occupied with something that she'd rather be in my arms.

And it's not like it's cuddling for pure romance sake either. Even when neither of us feel up for sex at that moment, she still gets pretty fucking horny when she's laying down and I'm holding her.

I can almost say that it's all she wants to do. Even if it's not sexual, she's obsessed with being physically intimate with me. Like I said, I'm not complaining at all. I love how physically affectionate/passionate she is and I love how happy she gets when I'm holding her and kissing her in bed or on the couch.

Can any other girls relate with her?

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

She sounds a lot like me in that respect.
Unless we're getting a heatwave in the summer (which doesn't happen that often), I can't get enough of the cuddles. It doesn't matter if we're just watching a movie while spooning, napping while spooning, if I'm giving a handjob while spooning.. it's all good. It's gotten so far that I know have an apparent 'cuddle quota' that must be met on a weekly basis (established by him).

BaileyisDarcy · Accepted Answer

I used to love cuddles, but now i get the feeling of being trapped, so its not very often my partner can give me a hug and Ill be okay with it.
Which sucks and I wish it were different, now and then Ill ask him to cuddle me, but thats usually just my hormones being needy, rather than actually me wanting a hug.

Curious625 · Accepted Answer

It's a feeling you can't find anywhere else or with anyone else tbh so I can relate. The closeness brings a warm safe feeling and it's like being in a bubble away from the world, only focussed on the feeling of the one your with. Only way I can explain it tbh.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Im like her, but my husband doesn't like it anymore, so i stopped. Its just her love language, she needs physical touch to feel loved.

Chico_brah · Accepted Answer

That would make me cringe so hard. Although my girlfriend randomly wraps her whole body around me with a fucking death grip every time she falls asleep. I push her off and 30 seconds later she is back lmfao. She drools too.

NyomiMcClinton · Answer

I am the same way when Im with someone who I am really in love with. But one thing I learned is that I dont want to be to pushy and overbearing. A guy can get tired of that... fast.

Felinegirl · Answer

Yeah I can relate. I love cuddles.

SteppingOnRoses · Answer

Im jealous. In my case i want it too, but maybe its because its an ldr. Either way enjoy it.

Checkers82 · Answer

I am exactly the same. Cuddling is so amazing and I love it and I wish I could do it all the time. I also love making out and playing with my bfs dick so I'm just a little on the clingy and attention seeking side. Hahaha

Maypai · Answer

Why complain then? Be happy, some girlfriends don't like to cuddle. For what reason? I have no clue. If I love you I always want to be up under you, in your arms or somewhere in your presence.

shorty_51 · Answer

I can absolutely relate.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Cuddling is great, so I'm glad she likes it She's probably glad that you like it

Gracie_bae · Answer

I'm a lot like this with my boyfriend he gets slightly the annoyed every once in a while, especially when I do it in public but the main reason I like it is because we like feeling you, the warmth of you and maybe feel your heart, and be able to smell you and its generally really relaxing feeling your arms around us and it feels protective.