What a prostitute said on Quora vs what women usually say about guys. You judge?

Scrambledagain Explorer

Quora is an excellent website with all sorts of questions asked by people and answered by people that may be experts in the field. One sex worker responding to a question regarding a mans time with an escort.

She said the following: "some girls will only allow you to cum once without paying extra, which is cruel and unfair. Especially if a man suffers from premature ejaculation. I had a virgin ejaculate while putting the condom on but rather than kick him out, we were able to get him hard again and practice having sex, how to move his hips, different positions etc"

VS many women who say shit like:
"men who use prostitutes are pathetic"
"I want a man who is experienced"
"only sad men use prostitutes"

not to mention that women don't have an iota of pity for a man in a virgin situation. Not that she has to pity fuck, but in the sense that a male virgin is seen as a loser etc and he won't even have this opportunity to "practice" if it were not for this sex worker.

so based on character and what is good in this world, who do you think is the more awesome woman? The sex worker helping a virgin, or the common woman who wouldn't even give that man a chance?

you decide.

Updates:

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Blocked again. Kayla couldn't handle the truth and took a stab at me and blocked me. See gents: there is the proof. Prostitute who helped a guy vs your average woman.

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God I hate being right all the time.

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Anonymous
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Well the Sex worker is helping because it's her job and she needs to make a living, not because she wants to touch or be with him and not because she cares about his well being but because repeat costumers are good for business. She is at her core a business women (well the ones who can be, some are owned by Pimps or were sex-trafficked and are just stuck) I personally don't see a problem with either woman though to be honest, not the sex worker and no the woman who is not a sex worker. I have no ill will against a women who does what she needs to to survive because she found herself in a bad situation.

I however have a very very low opinion of John's.
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- Scrambledagain
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  Did you read the thing? She could have told the guy off after he blew his load, but she didn't. Sometimes sex workers do their work because it's fun, not because they are in a bad situation. That said "johns" are there because they are in a bad situation too. They Are worthless in the eyes of women so what do they do? I respect your opinion on johns. But it doesn't make it right. The people who believed the world was round back in the day got a lot of heat by the majority of people who thought the world was flat.
- Opinion Owner
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  Did you read mine? Embarrassing someone means he's less likely to come back and having regular customers is a good thing in any business. Regular people in relationships sort stuff like that out all the time... things don't always work out the way you want them too and that's okay as long as you stick together. Sex workers doing the work 'cause it is fun, if they exist, would most likely be less then 1%. People don't go into that line of work because it's fun. It lacks respect and comes with a lot of risks, not too mention is illegal and your stuck touching the people no one else did because it is your job. Protection is basically non-existence and their are a lot of abuses not too mention a lot of people who are forced into this line of work or only go in to pay for drug habits or because they ran away and have no way to support themselves or owe a loan shark a lot of money. Like I said I try not to blame or judge those women, I don't think anyone is any better of them they are
- Opinion Owner
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  just in a bad situation. I think more help should be set up to help women that want to get out of that life style to get out and actually have options afterwards. Currently it's a huge dead end job.
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- Scrambledagain
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  Girl...80% if the population don't like their jobs. Half my friends use their salary on recreational drugs. I'm friends with several escorts and pro Dommes, I've read bibliographies (including quora) and the escorts I used have been ex porn stars, have YouTube channels etc and love what they do. It's in all the material. - safe sex is Always practiced. Every single time. Did you know the Std rate for escorts in Australia is lower than the std rates in the general Australian public? You more likely to get an infection from a non -sex worker. - it's legal in Australia and many other countries. Only America is dumb enough to promote one form of consensual sex work (porn) and outlaw the other (prostitution). So yeah...
- Opinion Owner
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  WellI actually know a lot of women in that life style and have dealt with a lot of women trying to get out of it and that wasn't the case for any of them... like I said I don't take issue with the women at all. I think we should all be helping them out and giving them a real shot to start over, so many feel stuck and like they couldn't do anything else now, that no one else would hire them or would want them or would even befriend them... it's sad. Many have lost their families over this stuff like I said... we will just have to agree to disagree.
kaylaS91 Influencer
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who do I think is the more 'awesome woman' between one who is obviously incredibly nice to you because you're paying her for access to get between her legs, or the woman who you've deluded yourself into thinking is the description of ALL women across the globe based on the most pride-damaging actions of women you've heard men bitch & moan about on various MGTOW/MRA forums?

uhh.. well. No comment? I mean, of course the prostitute is going to be sickly sweet. She's getting paid for that, after all. The second woman is fictitious.
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- Scrambledagain
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  Did you actually read the thing? She could of let the guy to go after he was done, but she helped him. That's REAL The fact that a man had to go to her as a Virgin: IS REAL But the delusion you percieve me to see? That's a delusion. Not all women are like that, yes, just like not all men will become pro footballers, but GENERALLY it's a fact that: - a virgin is a virgin because he is unnatractive (and unnatractive in a woman's eyes means everything from being soft, introvert, liking... chess or some other nerdy shit, Physically unnatractive, not being fun, not "yolo'ing" ect) - there is a massive sexual gap between men and women, where woman have choice and most men don't. - men are attractive only when they have confidence. Asking a girl for help in the sack is the worst thing a guy can do. All male and female daying gurus don't advise men do this. So yeah. Not fictitious. I just tagged half the female population. And see my reply to jacquesvol. Another element to this.
- kaylaS91
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  ... Damn. The amount of men who are virgins and blame women for failing to be attracted to them when all they can really prove is that they're incredibly skilled at whining as being the reason for not yet being sexually active is ridiculous. It's called scapegoating. &yes, I agree with jacquesvol- prostitutes are nice to you because you're paying them to open their legs and permit you to get your dick wet.
- Scrambledagain
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  I don't blame anything. It just is. I can't be pissed at the sun for being hot can I? Many men can't dictate their sex life and there are reasons for it. Can't be pissed at it. What you can control is whether you die without experience sex or not. Sex work opens up that avenue to millions of men who can't. Men have a choice and It's awesome. Where you woman get it so so so... so so very wrong is you think being sexually active is a choice for men. It hinges on the choice of a woman, so it's not our choice and many, many men would die virgins if it wasn't for sex workers helping them out. What actually happens is that most average joes die without dictating their sex life. They get laid somewhere but that's it. If you such a bright spark in this... get me a threesome by the end of this month? You can't. case closed. And you and jacquesvol need to read between the lines better.
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- kaylaS91
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  Read between the liens better? Don't worry. It's clear as day that you're blaming your laziness and/or social ineptness on a male's 'biological need for sexual intercourse'.
- Scrambledagain
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  If a male is socially inept, that's his quality. I know socially inept sex workers. Do you see the difference there? One high class escort I know got into it because she couldn't hold a job. So she charged for sex. A man can't do this. Not allowed to. He has to offer more than who he is (get a job and not sex work) just to get lucky. And don't worry about me. I swear on every thing that I am that this is true: I have a polyamorous partner who allows me to get sex workers. Not her favorite but she can get any dude of any type and I can't do same with woman. So she allows me to et a sex worker. I have a submissive now too and 2 play partners. But none of this makes anything I have said not true. It's because I play in these spheres that I know how hard it is for men.
- kaylaS91
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  yes, socially inept sex workers can get away without having to interact all too well with other people because they get paid for opening their legs. If you wish to do that and try your hand at being a sex worker, be my guest. Until then, go back to school or try a little harder at logical thinking.
- Scrambledagain
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  And you didn't answer my theesome question. I had to answer that myself in my life, because you women couldn't help men with these things even you tried.
- Scrambledagain
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  ... prostitutes on the other hand... can help.
- kaylaS91
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  ... right. Anyway, enough of your word salad and total incompetency at putting together reasonable thoughts, much less arguments. Go jack off or something, as that's all you seem to be able to do in life. (aside from blaming women for being to blame for everything you're incapable of doing like the 'adult' that you supposedly are.)
- kaylaS91
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  LOL@your update. With so wordsalad coming out of your mouth and throwing a temper tantrum like a 10 year old, I have serious trouble believing that you're 34. No wonder you're so easily irritated- it can't be easy having to live with such developmental deficits.
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  You just taking stabs at me now
- Scrambledagain
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  There is no debate...
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  And no tantrum.
- broad
  +1 y
  if a woman who you liked and were dating (highly unlikely i know) asked you if you had ever been with or used the services of a prostitute would you tell the truth?
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  @broad lol, that's the core of this entire prostitute thing. Whether an unattractive man gets a prostitute (because of his unnatractiveness) or not, still makes him unnatractive and he wouldn't really be in the position of having a woman that he likes, liking him back. He would settle and lying (or seeing a prozzie behind her back) wouldn't be a problem. But that said, no I probably would lie depending on the girl initially and tell her the truth afterwards. Like men have to lie about virginity (a paradox I laugh at everyday), you get in there first and then reveal the truth. I believe that if a woman has had a number of partners, it shouldn't be a problem. It's the exact same thing. But that said, like I mentioned, I'm with a partner who lets me have other women including sex workers. Not a problem I face now.
- kaylaS91
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  @dedguy okay so rather than complaining, whining nonstop like a little bitch, accept this reality of yours and deal with it like an adult.
- kaylaS91
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  @dedguy awwwe sorry that telling the truth made me come off like a 'bitch'. I'll be sure to play along with your delusion next time. :)
- kaylaS91
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  @dedguy *you're ok, bye then! 😚
- kaylaS91
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  @dedguy *narcissistic *fuck's
- kaylaS91
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  @dedguy I have plenty of respect for myself. The majority of it isn't dictated by whether or not I'm able to get the attention of desperate guys. Nice try at trying to offend me, though. :)
- kaylaS91
  +1 y
  @dedguy next time you use a big word, make sure it's an actual word, chump. okay bye. When are you actually going to STFU and stop making attempts to actually make me care about your meaningless existence/words?
- Scrambledagain
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  @dedguy most men have to settle. That's the reality. That's why men cheat a lot on their wives. They can't dictate their love life and so hey settle and settling isn't good. But a sex worker won't solve THAT problem for you. Mine is just about dictating your sex life.
- Scrambledagain
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  @dedguy and dude although I know kayla can't hold an argument either, please don't slut shame or knock her for that. The problem a lot of us guys have is that there aren't enough of these girls around and slut shaming plays a part in this. I am a slut, my partners are sluts and we hate slut shaming. A woman who shuns men for prostitution is the exact same as a man shunning a girl for being promiscuous. I don't like either.
SvetlanaSavachenko Explorer
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As a Whore I think we're pretty awesome. A lot of us really give of ourselves to make sure our clients have an awesome experience. I couldn't even begin to put a number on how many guys have lost their virginity to me and the pleasures my body provided for them. A lot of my regular clients have brought their sons to me to take their virginity. To me that is one of the highest compliments a man can give me, he must think I'm pretty awesome to trust me with his son's virginity.
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- Scrambledagain
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  But you are wise. And I wish people could see this. This side of things. I will also take my kid to a sex worker for sure if he is struggling. He is in more capabable hands of a sex worker than the women of his age. Sex workers can teach him to be a master lover over all the people on his school or college.

Most Helpful Guys

martyfellow Editor
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There's not a whole lot of difference. Most women in the US are bought, whether they are 'professionals' or not, and you are right at least the professional has some sort of business ethics and wants the client to be satisfied!!

The amateur as you say couldn't care less. Damn if the prostitutes aren;t more empathetic than most of the venal, avaricious 'good girls.'

Great post. Really helps to clarify why guys have difficulty respecting women. Eep. here in the US.
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CasaNorba Guru
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prostitution is illegal for a reason brother. its obviously because our lovely government knows that if they legalize it all men with get it the easy way. but you know they don't want that, they want us to be so called "traditional" and take women out like suckers first. like that's not prostitution as well
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- Scrambledagain
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  America is the only place where one type of sex work (street prostitution) is outlawed yet the other type (pornography) is number one in the world. That's a testiment to how contradictory people are. Governments want female votes. Nothing more nothing less.

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MassieMolina Xper 4
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I've always loved prostitutes. Best and kindest people on the planet
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- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  I've met some amazing ones. I do know uber bitchy ones though.
- martyfellow
  +1 y
  Not here in the US, generally, Massie.
NerdInDenial Master
+1 y
You are guaranteed to get laid with a prostitute. If you are dating a girl, you are leasing a woman who may or may not put out.
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jacquesvol Master
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Those prostitutes think about $$$ not about clients
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- RegularTK421
  +1 y
  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Sessions_(film)
  
  Have you ever heard of Cheryl Cohen-Greene? She slept with a man who had polio, and was disabled his entire life. They actually made a movie on it and I can't say I blame the kid. He didn't want to die never experiencing sex.
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  @jacquesvol. Did you not read? She could have thrown the guy out once he came. But she didn't, she helped the poor guy (a poor guy who would be spat on by women for trying to solve his sex issues). But here is the ball kicker my friend: Whether it's paid for or not, he had a chance. He felt what it's like being with a woman. And even better, she helped represent what a kind woman can do. Something denied to many men if money isn't on the table.
ScottSummers Yoda
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prostitute ftw
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Anonymous
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It seems like you should should stick with your prostitute accepting women and accept that other women don't want to date. Personally it's a factor I can't look past but I'm sure you could date someone who can or just use prostitutes as you seem to hold them in a high regard and it might work out well
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- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  I couldn't give a shit what a woman thinks. I could cull Dolphins and make love to their dead corpses in my spare time but if I'm attractive/good with women, I can bed her. Will you stay with me? Probably not. But at least that guy has a chance at getting her. None of the woman I date know that I have had escorts. I would love a world where you could say that you did and not be judged.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  You sound aggressive
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  Lol... no, I'm actually a softy that uses aggressive language to drive a point home (I also love dolphins and wanted to be a marine biologist at one stage). In fact, I wish I was aggressive , it would of helped me with women. #womenlovebadboys
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- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  And to me... a women bedding a lot of men is the exact same as a man bedding a lot of prostitutes. It's consensual and fun with no strings. Same exact thing. The only difference is that a man had to pay for it where woman get it so easy.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Do you want a medal?
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  I want a life filled with adventure And variation. Unfortunately many people are denied these things in life. For example, an African with no cash will never be able to see the world unless he gets in a place illegally or works up to it but only sees it when he is much older when it would of been cool to see it when he was younger. Same thing with sex. Many guys are denied a more colourful sex life because of who they are (unnatractive/geeky/ soft/doesn't party etc) so we have to do what we have to do.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Let me guess a woman has two uses and one of them is in the kitchen
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  Where the hell you come up with that? No. I respect woman as equal as men and I owe my business success to women. i actually get turned off by traditional women. But... still does not change the sexual environment we in. I would love to sexually explore with a woman who thinks like me but they are very far and few, and are attracted to badboys, not me.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  You come off as a bad boy saying you are a good guy.
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  Lol I'm a good guy trying to be a bad boy. It helps with getting women.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Doubt it
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  Trust me on this one lol it's taken me 3 years to change.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  You are a fool in my opinion
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  Nope: i just did what you women always tell men to do: change who they are. I wasn't attractive so I change more into a badboy and I'm hoping its working. My sex life is definitely increasing.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  a fool with a brain in his trousers
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  Considering I have several degrees and a great job. I'm no fool. Just was bad with women. Had to change that. The only fools are women who don't see how hard it is for guys to dictate their sex lives. When you realise this, all guy behaviour in the mating game becomes clear.
Anonymous
+1 y
You're really cherry picking to justify prostitutes as legitimate and mutually satisfactory sexual experiences.
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Of course it's easier to pay people to act however you want!
- CasaNorba
  +1 y
  yea like non-prostitutes do it for free
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  So does your hand. The dudes not talking about orgasms in the Q, he's talking about human connection.
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- CasaNorba
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  not once did he say anything about human connection, he was talking about the experience you have with a prostitute over a non-prostitute. so yea nice try at trying to steer the convo to a whole different direction. "so does your hand" this was not funny or offensive, and lets not forget how it doesn't relate to anything in this post so I got two words for you... EPIC FAILURE
- Opinion Owner
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  It relates because sex with a pro is masturbation.
- CasaNorba
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  https://i.imgur.com/FEyilSF.jpg
  
  that's the definition of masturbation for you. with that said having sex with someone is not masturbation so EPIC FAILURE once again
- Opinion Owner
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  In that it's artificial. It's an illusion, a show, a hoax.
- Scrambledagain
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  Masturbation and sex are two different things lol So miss anonymous, tell me: if you compare masturbation to sex, that means it's not a big thing right? Then why all the friction towards men using prostitutes? Yeah epic fail. I didn't justify anything and I put something REAL on the table. It's no hoax. That sex worker did more for him than the woman who would never touch him. Bottom line. That's what this is all about. Where you woman just don't get it, is that it's not about paying to get what we want. It's paying because it's the only way some men can get it. There is a major difference there.
- CasaNorba
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  @Scrambledagain I seriously don't know what planet she's on
- Scrambledagain
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  @CasaNorba I get where she is coming from and it's predictable. If you ever want to test a persons confirmation bias, especially for woman, throw in the sex worker argument. It's unarguable.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Men will use prostitutes to get off no matter what women think, but going on about its some kind of enlightened decision is another matter. An unwanted woman will always be alienated and alone because she can't convince herself otherwise than paying = real connection. A guy can pay someone to pretend he's great and not have to deal with life.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  So many women can't even get a feeling of being a worthy human or even having a simple orgasm even with doing a bunch of stuff for men. But all guys have to do is plunk down some cash and he's golden? That's the part that drives me nuts.
- CasaNorba
  +1 y
  OP I seriously don't know what you're complaining about. women nowadays have it extremely easy. all they have to do now is go out dressing like sluts, act like sluts and they automatically get free sex, free drinks, free food, free gas rides, free shelter and the list goes on! so if that's driving you insane then I think I should be in an asylum right now tide to a stretcher right now.
- Scrambledagain
  +1 y
  Men will get off with prostitites because they can't get off without their help. It has nothing to do with what women think. In fact, men are friendshipzoned listening to women. It's supplicating and not dominant. Unnatractive. - then men pay for it not to feel great (fuck I wish you women could get this), but because they won't get it without it. It's get it, or die without it? Very easy choice. Which leads me to the next thing: Every man would rather get it for free too. You don't think that man feels a little alienated too? The difference is most women can get sex and dates, many men can't. Hence the multibillion prozzie industry. Woman can CHARGE for sex. Not many men can because a) very few attractive men to charge and b) most women don't need this service.