If you found gay porn/pics of dicks on your Bf's laptop, what would you do?

[Anonymous]

So I just found gay porn on my boyfriends lap top. Not a lot compared to his straight porn but still. He had like... gay emo guys who look like girls having sex with other guys. Some videos of a guy with girl like legs jerking off in panties. You could only see his bottom half. videos of guys touching their dicks together. Japanese comics of guys having sex with cross-dressing guys. I know it sounds like a lot but compared to his normal porn, it's a small amount.

I never thought he would be bisexual if not gay. I mean he is always horny and pretty much loves my vagina. To the point he just eats me out without asking me to return the favor. Still though I just can't help but feel weird about it. Like I failed as a woman or something? I never seen him check other guys out before. He would definitely stare at a girl walking by or on a magazine though. I just don't know what to feel or do.

[eruru]

i think you should say nothing n don't care... but jus to keep you in the know.

I believe what you came across is called shemale porn... n not all guys would look at this, our sexual chakras are all different or rather our sexual imaginations are different.

its very ok... sex is a mental thing, because there are two things that men love, the feeling in their dicks when they are aroused and naked women... so if you think about it a shemale in somehow a fantasy with the combination of both.

it doesn't mean he's gay... calm down, you have not failed as a woman... you are perfectly ok as you've said he still eats you every now n then... its just a fantasy/fetish, we all have them.

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[Anonymous]

The specifics you mention make me suspect he may not even be bi.

He seems sort of interested in dicks, but not actually in men.

That's not that uncommon. If he had a lot of pics of shirtless guys, that would more suggest he's into both. It seems like he doesn't find men, overall, very attractive.

So I'd relax.

[Asker]

what do you mean? How can he not be at least bi?

[Opinion Owner]

Finding an erect penis arousing is not the same as being attracted to men. You might find watching a woman masturbate arousing, but that doesn't make you bi.

[Edymemelord]

Talk to him about it1 Secrets are useless.
He could have been curious or had a weird kink but it's something you should know.
i know all of my boyfriend's weird ass kinks.

[fauchelevent]

Say nothing, I wouldn't care. As long as he's not jacking it to kids or animals, I don't see why I should care about what he watches.

[BubbleBoy69]

So she shouldn't be concern that he could be using her as a beard to cover up he is gay and be fucking a man on the side?

[Shawn58]

This ish is crazy I think she should question him too but I don't know man this kinda a crazy situation, he could be very well attracted to her so he may not be using her but who knows

[fauchelevent]

@BubbleBoy69 I don't think that him having gay porn means he's gay or he's using her to cover up. That's pretty ridiculous. If she wants to question him, she can but I personally wouldn't care seeing as I don't think it means anything.

[BubbleBoy69]

Porn serves the purpose of arousal to get one off. Gay porn on a computer gives suspect to him using it regularly (why keep it on computer when you can use tube sites)--> For one to become arouse one must have sexual attraction to what is being shown--->Homosexual sex is being shown on screen then for one to be aroused you are at the very least have bi tendencies. This is even more credible for men since men are visual and get horny on what they see with their eyes.

[fauchelevent]

@BubbleBoy69 Well, obviously, yes. But watching gay porn doesn't mean you're gay and it certainly doesn't mean you're covering up your sexuality or using someone.

[Shawn58]

I don't know man he's watching it so he does show some interest at least I have no idea what the exact step should be other then asking him about it. I mean she has to ask him about I just don't see how she can let this go, she has to do something

[fauchelevent]

@Shawn58 A woman watching lesbian porn doesn't mean she's interested in women, most people accept that, and the same should go for a dude. And even if he did have some level of attraction to dudes, that doesn't mean he doesn't have attraction to women so it hardly matters. Unless she'd confront him for finding male-female or female-female porn on his computer, there's no real reason to confront him for finding male-male porn.

[NJ_Casanova]

Definitely need to talk to him. He's either bi, Bi-curious or gay.

[uknaked]

Everybody on the planet is bi to some degree, he may get turned on by ladyboys, but that does not mean he would ever do anything about it.
Obviously he is mainly heterosexual, but like all guys, there is a bit of gay desire there. Most people ignore their least dominant desire side and never indulge in it!

[Bananaman177]

My porn collection's as straight as a fuckin' arrow.

Just sayin'.

[jman46241]

I'm straight

[suckitbe]

people have interests expressed through porn, but most have nothing to do with their sexuality irl. Just forget about it and stop going through his stuff

[cupidkisses]

i would talk to him about it

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Talk to him and break up.

[bennyboy18320]

Ask him about it in a non-confrontational way. This is way more common than you think, even though a lot of guys will lie about it and deny it.

[nudeNhorny]

you can talk to him but don't make a big deal out of it, probably he is not gonna do this he just like to watch these kinds of porn.

[Blitzkrieger]

Were you spying on him.

[nikhilm]

better ask him if he is gay or not that's a good way to clear confusion.

[Anonymous]

1. You shouldn't have been in his private stuff.

2. His personal fantasies are like your personal fantasies and have nothing to do with you. Women's most common fantasy is rape, but you don't want to get raped... it's a fantasy it has nothing to do with real life.
I am a straight male and have zero interest in men... but I have pictures of naked men, trannies, even girls banging dogs and horses on my computer but have no interest in that stuff in real life.

The only problem here is that you went through his stuff (and please don't pretend you accidently found it like all women say, we know better)
You search for things to get bothered by and you find them... so don't look.
If your guy could see the fucked up shit that gets you off... he would be bothered as well, but you are lucky enough to have your fantasy locked away in your mind.

[Anonymous]

Break up. Never had a good experience with a guy who has done this.

[Anonymous]

Aaaaayyyy lol so in fairness when i was living overseas there was a community hard drive that was passed around with a ton of porn/movies/music on there for free cause there are no copyright laws in certain countries. I just copied all of it like everyone else and when i got home i found some real sketchy shit lol. Someone put it on there as a joke. I still have it too cause it gives me a laugh. Might not be his.
It may be though and maybe thats the reason he doesn't want you to return the favor

[Opinion Owner]

How the fuck did i get a dislike on this like wtf

[Anonymous]

That's gay AF.
There's no way a straight bloke would be interested in watching an effeminate looking male wearing panties and jacking off, let alone dudes crossing swords etc.

[Prof_Don]

is gay = bad?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't see it as bad, just gay

[Anonymous]

It never ceases to amaze how many women in long term relationships with men, have absolutely NO IDEA about men.

[Anonymous]

Talk to him. Apparently it's normal for guys to check other guys dicks.

[Anonymous]

If I had a boyfriend that would mean I am already gay myself.