Why do girls find possessive sex a turn off?

[Anonymous]

I really don't understand why they get so offended and upset over possessive dirty talk. "I own your ass." "This pussy is my property" "What's you're mouth good for besides sucking my cock?" I find this stuff a major turn on in the heat of the moment. But women seem to freak the hell out when you start talking like this. And don't go blaming porn because out of all the porn I've seen, they never say any of this stuff. Just "oohhh, yeah, like that," Soft stuff like that.

And would I like it if a girl treated me like this sometimes? HELL YES! I want her to say, "I own this dick" "You're body belongs to me." "You're nothing but my toy. To use as I want." "All you're good for is your cock." "You love that pussy all in your face!" That stuff is freaking hot! To own and to feel owned sexually! You never act this way or say these things with other people and it shows a lot of trust and respect in my opinion. It's not like they really own you outside of sex. You're his nasty little sex kitten in heat during sex and you're his beautiful, strong and respected wife/girlfriend during all the other times. Why are so many women against possessive dirty talk?

[kano140]

I hate the degrading kind (you claiming just my body, saying im good for nothing except as your toy or something like that) because you are literally insulting me. I want to be loved, not just my body.

In contrast if you say something like "you are mine" or "I'm gonna keep you" it immediately goes from something I hate to something I would love. The possesive stuff it good in my opinion but only when it is in a loving way (makes me feel happy and loved).

[laurapalmer]

Some possessive talk can be hot. I think the first two of your examples are hot, but if someone were to say "What's your mouth good for besides sucking my cock" I'd get up an leave. It's really degrading and I understand that it's just in the heat of the moment, but it would make me feel pretty shitty about myself.

[Asker]

even after the sex he kisses you passionately, hugs you tight, calls you his goddess and that he loves you?

[laurapalmer]

Yeah even after that

[Jager66]

" "I own this dick" "You're body belongs to me." "You're nothing but my toy. To use as I want." "All you're good for is your cock." "You love that pussy all in your face!" That stuff is freaking hot!"

Agreed, that would be pretty hot.

[Anonymous]

I think it's a huge turn on. But only if I'm the one being possessive.