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Is it disrespectful to ask my girlfriend to wear clothes around our house, when I'm trying to study, so that I can concentrate on my work?

I'm in love with my girlfriend, of three years, and very sexually attracted to her. I asked her to move into the house, I recently bought, because we were spending just about every night together and I want to marry her in the next few years. However, one downside of her moving in has been that I have been struggling to compete my coursework for my MBA degree. My girlfriend wears minimal clothing around the house, which under most circumstances is great, but not when I have to get stuff done. Today, she had off of work for the national holiday. I woke up early to study, and this morning she comes into the kitchen wearing only a thong. As she made coffee, she sat on my lap, kissed me, and said good morning. I mean god damn, she's got a great body, and I can't resist thinking of sex when she's only wearing a thong. We spent the whole next hour having sex. She went to the gym, the grocery store, and cooked for us; I got a fair amount of work done in that period. When I study, she purposively goes to the bedroom so that she doesn't distract me. She took a shower, watched TV, and came out to grab water in a crop top, that her boobs were hanging out of, and a pair of really cheeky panties- we had sex again. This has been going on since she moved in and by no means is it a bad thing but it's also like I have things that need to get done; I'm working a lot and have a lot of schoolwork. I come home from work and she's usually wearing a thong and laying on her stomach- ass in the air and then all I want to do is have sex and cuddle with her. I want her to feel comfortable in our home but I also want to ask her to cover up so I can focus. I love her so much and don't want her to get offended or feel that there's anything wrong with not wearing clothes around our house. Should I say something about this to her? How should I talk to her about it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Just tell her chances are she is doing it for attention from you! you must be giving her a good time she's coming back for more, tell her she need to wear clothes from this hr to this hr 😉 Tell her that you can't focus because she too bloody hot! In saying that you may need to go back for the next round. She might be having a sexual peak too, which you cannot get enough in those times ☺️ No matter what!

  • well just tell her that ok baby i think you just put a top. what if some one knock on the door and you are just wearing a thong. or just tell him babe i want to focus on my studies i alittle bit kinda distracted that i saw in your thong but after i'm done with my studies then take it off. just tell her in a proper way if she is understanding and easy to talk with she will understand that

  • Asking your girlfriend to wear clothes and not try to get you all sexually worked up when you're trying to study is not disrespectful in itself. You should start working on improving your self control, though.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You want to cuddle with her? Come on man. How can this be a serious problem? Can't you just go to the library or a Starbucks? This is your issue which is hilarious by the way.. NOT HERS. Do you realize there are guys out there that dream of situations like this? And you go on here saying its a problem? Come on man.

    • @coachTanthony knows what he is talking about.

  • Of course it's okay to ask her to wear clothes when you're studying. Tell her first how much you love her and her body but that she's irresistible and that's counter productive to your studying. Tell her that if she'll do this for you, you'll find a way to make it up to her that'll blow her skirt vertical.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Haha this is so cute

  • dude, lol can't you just look away?

    • down vote for that? wow, someone has no self control.

  • I bet a lot of guys would love to have your problem...

  • you need to learn how to control yourself, Be a man.
    A man Has control of himself.

  • Teach me your ways, wise one 🙏🏽

  • "put some clothes on that shit, bitch."

    :) You're the man, right?

  • You could just not look.

  • Lol, not be a control freak

  • Dude it is your own house , any people that stay in your place should follow your rule lol

  • nope not at all.. every one needs a focus..

  • just don't stare?

  • There should be a new category called "alpha male issues", I'm sure there will be other hot topics, such as: "I get too much pussy, please help" "I ran out of money from buying so many condoms, what can I do?"
    And a long etc

  • I have the feeling she's teasing you and doing it all on purpose 😂

  • When you're busy you need to not take an hour. Bend her over some furniture and do it fast. Then get back to work. Easier to get one out of the way then try to study while horny.

  • Look at the fucking pathetic female answers. Try being a dude for once you asshole women. Pussies

  • Learn self-control... and teach your girlfriend about modesty.

  • A guy with no control at all. Can't keep it in his pants to save his life. Stereotype! Gimme a break. This can't be serious.

  • tell her baby you are too sexy for me to focus looking like this. please wear a bit more when I'm busy

  • Just tell her to not put out until you are done studying for the day... it'll give you incentive to do what you gotta do so that you can be with her.

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