How to politely turn down a threesome?

[Anonymous]

I'm on vacation in Mexico, and I met a woman at the resort, and we clicked instantly. The next day at the pool, she introduced me to her husband. And later that day, she asked me if they can "join me" in my room. I was so surprised, I didn't know what to say. I never had a threesome (and I don't want to), and I'm not into girls. I don't know how to say no politely? Thanks.

PS: I know it's super weird... I can't believe it myself!

[OlderAndWiser]

"I am quite flattered by your invitation but I promised someone else my faithfulness."

OR

"I am quite flattered by your invitation but I did that once and had such a horrible experience that I don't ever want to do it again.

OR

"I am quite flattered by your invitation but I know I would not enjoy it and that's a decision I promised myself would never be negotiable."

[SilverRain92]

They treat you like a slut. I don't think that you should be polite with them. Just say "no, how dare you to suggest me to do such disgusting things? Do you consider me being a slut?" and ignore these weird people.

[NyomiMcClinton]

Tell them politely that your not into threesomes. And leave it at that. Your vibe must of came across as flirty for her to ask you.

[LindsayRB91rds]

Just politely say "No thank you". I'm sure they hear that frequently enough that they won't be surprised.

[guy532]

Don't say no! Think of that poor poor man and his childhood dream. You're crushing his dream!

[yorepleasure]

I would be honest and say you are not interested. I bet they are cool with that. They should be if they swingers, thats part of the lifestyle.

[yilanjor]

just say no. they will understand you

[Skeye89]

I would do it for the experience

[Anonymous]

simply say you are not into it

[Anonymous]

they wanna steal from you or drug you and take your sth