Why are women such hoes?

[Paul1236]

Ok I've met this girl on Tinder today, we talked for a bit, we clicked instantly and asked her for a movie this Saturday. We asked about our sex lives and how many partners we have slept in the past. I told her I slept with 5 and then she told me she slept with 3. I also asked her what is the craziest place you've had sex and then she gave me all these weird places from where she had sex. First in the car, next in the handicap bathroom and then in the garage. I asked her again and then she lied to me about her sexual past and instead of 3 sex partners, she said "over 100 partners". I was disgusted and fully insecure of myself. I called her "a whore" and then she told me she'll change and that she isn't pursuing guys for sex anymore. I was like "I'm done, I can't take it you're just a whore" and from there I blocked her number, blocked her Facebook and blocked her from talking to me on POF straight up. Why are women such sluts these days? It's disgusting

[Anonymous]

So tell me why in the fuck is it ok for guys to screw around and they are legends or studs but a woman does it and she's a whore wtf! Is wrong with some people! Have you every once asked why she has had that many? Has she been abused in the past, maybe it's all she knows, maybe it the ones calling her a whore that is making the situation worse, why didn't you try to get to know her and understand her instead of judging her! Maybe you could of been the bloody guy she needed to feel good about herself! you will never get a woman with that judgmental attitude.

[Paul1236]

Well first of all I'm introverted and I wanted a relationship and second, since I barely can go to bars or nightclubs because all of my guy friends are fucktards so I blew them off and lastly, women can get sex much easier than guys. There you go.

[Paul1236]

I'm not one of those studs or players so you can't tell me who to accept, I've fucked a few girls in my life and that's it.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not saying that tho, I'm telling you to have a open mind, abuse in any form can be so bad for a girls self esteem, a more understanding man will get the right girl is all, I was gang raped does that mean I'm a whore to! because I had more than one at the same time and I was drugged. And after that happened I slept around a bit because I felt empty unsure, trying to find something, I'm not trying to be a bitch I'm trying to get you to understand woman are only ever more sexual inappropriate after sexual abuse I know because I have been threw it, we do things that may seem skanky truth is we are trying to control the bad thoughts in our head as we believe it's all we deserve. Have a heart. I have been with my so For years now and he is a amazing man and I would do anything for him. do you think he looked at my attack and said what a whore she asked for it, no he wants to hurt them actually. He loved me when I couldn't even love myself.

[suckitbe]

This response is typical, sex and access to it are completely different, and a girl that's free with her body is garbage.

[Paul1236]

Umm no, some think it may deal with their "horniness" as in I'm done with the club/bar scene and since I am done with fucking hot guys, might as well settle with the lame ones for financial security type of thing. Not just sex abuse.

[Paul1236]

@suckitbe exactly "I'm a free woman, I can do whatever I want now! Someone throw me a bag of dicks".

[Opinion Owner]

Hey dude you are a pig of a man do yourself a favour and go and get vasoline and shove your opinion up your arse like the prick you are!!! How dare you say it's because they are horny you have no fucking idea prick unless you have be taking in the arse you low life piece of shit. Grow some balls you pathetic little boy!

[Paul1236]

That's what @Anon said "Women want sex just like guys do it's just easier for us to get". "And women are hoes for the same reasons guys are... they like and want sex, they have needs and want to try many flavors before settling down". What is this telling you? Is this "sex abuse"?

[Paul1236]

I don't think so.

[musicbrain5]

Ah yes. You meet one woman who sleeps around and suddenly that makes us all hoes. Another old generalization.

It's because you A) found her on Tinder and B) asked questions. Whether or not she's telling you the truth doesn't matter at this point. You handled this very poorly. Should have just told her you weren't interested and left it at that.

[Paul1236]

Most dating sites don't work for me.

[Paul1236]

I told her "I can't take it". I was just disgusted at her for being a hoe.

[musicbrain5]

So you didn't actually call her a whore?

[Paul1236]

I called her a who're and when she said she'll change, I told her "sorry, I can't".

[Paul1236]

I was disgusted and insecure, what can I do?

[musicbrain5]

All you can really do is move on and forget her.

[Paul1236]

Exactly

[kaylaS91]

'Why are women such sluts these days? It's disgusting'
... says the man who turned to Tinder, an app KNOWN to be solely for hookups, in an effort to find someone to fuck?
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[Paul1236]

I've tried everything. Nothing seems to work.

[kaylaS91]

okay well perhaps it's time that you change how you go about the actual approach versus blaming the platform or calling all women a derogatory term simply because you've failed to get interest from any of them. (Which, may I add, makes me wonder what gives you ground to call women sluts if they've all supposedly gone cold on you but.. I digress.)

[Paul1236]

I didn't call all women sluts, it's not like I want a virgin or something but I have a limit when it comes to the number of partners in the opposite sex.

[kaylaS91]

No, you didn't. Without specifying how many women this broad generalization was applicable to, the implication is all.

[SarahsSummer]

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[Paul1236]

Why are women such hoes? Where do you see "all" in the question? 100 partners is disgusting though.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Society currently caters to women. They are the dominant sex because they determine when and where it happens, not the guy. She logs into her account and doesn't even have to anything but upload one pic. It doesn't even have to be a good one, just as long as she has one pic and her inbox will be flooded in hours if not minutes. Online dating is for women, not men. Men get ignored and by the time we finally find an actual girl we are interested in chances are she's crazy or what you ended up with. Best of luck.

[Paul1236]

😂 lol

[Anonymous]

I know right. Fucking disgusting. It's like they're the pigs. Always wanting more and more. It's probably to make their meaningless existence useful for someone. I hope this trend ends soon so females will become ladies again. God they are truly disgusting parasites...

[Paul1236]

LOL!

[Opinion Owner]

Watch all the parasites down vote this. Sickening ew don't even go near my opinion...

[suckitbe]

You're so right

[Opinion Owner]

@suckitbe what's even worse is that they expect to be treated like goddesses in return. Pitiful

[Paul1236]

Lol not to me,

[existing_not_living]

Cause it's so much fun.

[SarahsSummer]

If you can't handle the answers don't ask the questions.

[Paul1236]

If you can't handle the judgement than shut your freaking trap!

[Paul1236]

Then*

[FZhull]

let me guess a perfect number would be 0 or less than yours... am I right?

[Paul1236]

@FZhull yes

[Paul1236]

Not zero but less than mine.

[FZhull]

I don't know if you are trolling now. are you saying any girl that has sleep with one more than you have is a whore?

[SarahsSummer]

@FZhull he's been trolling the whole time.

[Paul1236]

Umm no, you're just stupid.

[Paul1236]

How was I "trolling"? You don't know what I've been through.

[SarahsSummer]

I might have actually cared 3 comments ago. Peace.

[Paul1236]

@FZhull no but I have a limit.

[JuicyBrain]

You should be ashamed you little sissy. Instead of giving her a chance to show you she is a great gal, you ran like a scared little girl and insulted her in the process. Did you call her a whore in an attempt to gain back some shreds of masculinity?
Fortunately she dodged the bullet. She can keep looking for real men.
She lied in the misguided attempt to not scare you away. Luckily for her, it didn't work.

[Paul1236]

It didn't, but do you call yourself a real man?

[TheDevilInside]

She could just be joking, you know... Exaggerating... Wow.

[Paul1236]

I don't know, now I don't want to see her. I was really insecure that I deleted her out of my life. Does women even have 100 partners and she was 20 years old too.

[Paul1236]

Do women even have 100 partners by the age of 20 or even later?

[rsstanford]

You know there can't be no logical way at 20 she had slept with over 100 guys. Unless she was a prostitute

[Paul1236]

@rsstanford she told me she been to a lot of parties in the past.

[Paul1236]

Highschool parties, college parties and so forth.

[rsstanford]

It can't be 100 maybe 30 or 40 I don't know

[TheDevilInside]

@rsstanford that's why I said maybe she was being sarcastic and asker just didn't get her humor

[Paul1236]

I told her is she serious about it and she said yeah.

[Leo2390]

Exactly u met her on Tender. What do expect

[Paul1236]

I've tried everything, nothing worked.

[Leo2390]

Some women expect men to be whores like them or players so they often do things they probably shouldn't in order not to get hurt. No one wants to get hurt.

[suckitbe]

I heard the same thing, but how do I find a virgin or at least a girl in the single digits to have as a temp girlfriend

[Paul1236]

I see

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

"I've met this girl on Tinder" <-- there's your answer

Also, you're one judgy motherfucker. Stay classy.

[Paul1236]

None of other dating apps work for me.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Obviously, Tinder doesn't either.

[Paul1236]

Some do

[AleDeEurope]

Lol dude, it's something you have to accept, girls fuck around too. Don't ever believe the number they tell you, it's probably like 30 more lol

[Paul1236]

Lol I don't give 2 fucks man!

[Brownhairedgirl]

You're another insecure loser women hater on this site. Stop whining. You're obviously mad because she won't have sex with you. Women are allowed to like and enjoy sex! Byeee.

[Paul1236]

I asked her out and she said yes! dumbass

[AleDeEurope]

Damn, this woman sounds like your Tinder date lol no wonder she got offended xD

[Paul1236]

You're probably just as whorish as her anyways!

[Paul1236]

@AleDeEurope lol whores...

[Paul1236]

The thing is I talked to her after I asked her out.

[Brownhairedgirl]

Why does it bother you so much though? Its her body. She's allowed to have as much sex as she wants. So am i. Stop slut shaming women and grow up !

[Paul1236]

LOL, it's my money. I decide who to commit! How about you come here and make me you hoe?

[starwarsfan66]

@brownhairedgirl just a curious observer here. Would you date a guy that had over 100 partners?

[soccerchick4eva]

100 seems like an exaggeration like shit but one thing is that not all women are sluts -.-

[Paul1236]

I know, I was insecure for making this. I apologize.

[soccerchick4eva]

if you don't wanna see her, just stop dwelling on it and move on to someone better that doesn't make you feel like that

[Paul1236]

Okay

[Prof_Don]

How old was she?

[Paul1236]

20 years old

[Prof_Don]

Whoa! #SlutStatus

[Paul1236]

Lol 😂

[fay23]

wow i don't even know what to say to you... I sure hope your trolling I mean it's Tinder a hook up site and also way to generalize all women in earth.

[Paul1236]

I didn't meant to say all women and I don't really want a virgin. I have a limit when it comes to sexual partners from the opposite sex.

[fay23]

I get that but your reaction was overbroad, listen everyone has different lifestyles and it doesn't mean you have to love it but at least respect people's right. i think your finding love in all the wrong places, and keep an open mind, your insecurity is holding you back from love. We all have different journeys to follow, people change.

[fay23]

wow I wrote a lot

[Paul1236]

Good job

[Paul1236]

I don't want to change, you know why? It won't be the same as when a woman had like 5 partners compare to 40. I just find it disgusting when a woman has to open her legs for 40 or 50 men compare to 1 or 2 boyfriends. I'd find love quicker than any slut would.

[Paul1236]

" i don't want it to change"

[fay23]

we have different views, I care more about emotional and mental connection sex is meaningless to me. All I can say is i wish you get over your insecurities.

[Paul1236]

It's not going to happen.

[fay23]

okay whatever makes you happy

[KnightCross]

there are women who are sex addicts... that can't stand stay some days without sex... and most of them even regularly visits therapists and psychologists... yeah welcome to the Brave New World!

[Paul1236]

Good point.

[redxiii74]

your a tool, she did nothing but be honest.. TOOL

[Thump12]

Who gives a shit? He doesn't need to have a relationship with her if he doesn't want to.

[suckitbe]

Bc they can be in insulated communities like colleges. It's disgusting. Islam is the only answer to this.

[Paul1236]

Lol...

[Djaaaay]

Youve got all kinds of effn sluts (men and women ) out there in society , and you'll hear every Effn excuse and justifying testimonys ever possessed by a human being. Deceptions in detail from every monologue on earth , to every man and women's ear. Then the majority of us find a decent s/o

[TonyRyanAgain]

Lmao. They're not the problem, it's your inexperience and insecurities. Get over it.

[Paul1236]

No! Why should I? I have the right to commit who I want! You're just pathetic!

[TonyRyanAgain]

LOL, It's your gross generalization that's pathetic.

[Paul1236]

I maybe generalize but why do I have to put up with her? It's not the experience, it's because she's "used" and not worth the commitment.

[Paul1236]

If she wants commitment, she has to find someone equally as used up as her.

[TonyRyanAgain]

You used an app specifically used for hookups...

[Paul1236]

Yes but any other dating site don't work for me.

[Paul1236]

She wanted more than just a hookup

[TonyRyanAgain]

Real life is better... just man up and put yourself out there...

[Paul1236]

How? I'm reserved. I don't have much friends.

[TonyRyanAgain]

Step outside your boundaries. You'll never really be happy unless you do. I would know... I'm a reformed introvert. You have to train yourself to get used to talking to people. It can be done, and without meds even. But stop judging women like you are, it makes you a total prick.

[Paul1236]

Is there even meds for this type of personality? How about you come here and make me dude? I can do what the heck I want. If my head tells me I'm insecure, I'm insecure. Buddy, you sound like a fraud, you're never an introvert.

[Paul1236]

If my head tells me to slut shame women for being promiscuous than shall I will.

[TonyRyanAgain]

I don't have the want or will to help someone who won't even try. Stop being combative over the internet, that's dumb, lol. I offered advice, I'm no longer a lonely introvert because i made the changes NECESSARY to grow myself. Hate me all you want. You either advance or you retreat, that's real, and that's life.

[Paul1236]

Introverts can't change you're born with it, plain and simple. I can't control how I feel and that to me was overly disgusting.

[hottguy]

they always want diffrent taste

[Paul1236]

Nah, it's just whorish.

[Anonymous]

Or you could just stop being insecure. Women want sex just like guys do it's just easier for us to get... if it was easier for you would you be penalizing other people. Taking your crap out on others is a serious character flaw and she dodged a bullet... if you started to get weird i would have told you 100 too even though my number is 1... if your going to judge based on that your not worth my time or energy. Your free to choose how you want but don't be surprised if girls just keep giving you high numbers to get you out of their face once you start obcessing.

[Opinion Owner]

And women are hoes for the same reasons guys are... they like and want sex, they have needs and want to try many flavors before settling down. Try falling for the person, chances are if you look within and get to know her her numbers will probably be somewhere around your own and she'll be honest cause she knows your into her. I have only ever been with one guy but if some guy started asking questions and got way too into it and started throwing around names I'd let him believe whatever he wants, let him show his true colors.

[Paul1236]

"And women are hoes for the same reasons guys are... they like and want sex, they have needs and want to try many flavors before settling down." You actually think I'll waste my time and my money on a fucking hoe? She can find a player instead. Men are free to commit who they wish, we hold the commitment. If you want to become a slut, get a fucking player to settle with!

[Paul1236]

If I find another slut, I'm kicking her stupid ass to the curb. You want sex? Get a sugar daddy to spend your slutty ass!

[Anonymous]

Why are some women such hoes? Correct that.

[FZhull]

slut shamming... interesting

[Paul1236]

Some women, I was insecure. leave me alone.

[Anonymous]

That's crazy hahah.

Uh what was her number?

[Paul1236]

Not going to tell you