Bleh, I don't know. I bet if genders were reversed everyone would say it was terrible, well not everyone. But that's whatever.
Seems like a grey area. He wanted to be tied up. He clearly enjoyed being 'made' to have things happen. So you made him do something he finds gross, which he didn't want to do. The question is, was the overall sexual experience of being pushed to do something he didn't like... hot, or not? As you said, you also said 'if you want to cum this is going to happen' and he quasi agreed then didn't like it. I recognize that officially consent is continuous. But we're dealing with a sub here where being pushed to do what they don't want is sometimes part of the point. The issue here = no safeword. So no way to distinguish between 'no no no (so hot)' and 'no, seriously no'.
My guess by the way is that actually it may have been 'no no no' before it happened, and 'no seriously no' when it did. Why?
Because his sex drive would have hit zero as soon as he came, and his willingness to be forced to do gross sexy stuff would have dropppppped.
Who knows, maybe he liked it.
And what about you? You were reluctant, but found you enjoyed it a bit? Was making him taste his own cum your favorite part?
No. Edging him was.
That's kinda funny actucally.
Couple of things here. He must not be too bright. Why would you let someone tie you up who you just had an argument with, and moreover an argument about wanting to be tied up? That's like playing Russian Roulette. I would not enjoy being tied up by anyone. Not my thing, however if it were, the last person I'd want tieing me up is someone I just had an argument with.
To answer the question, yeah it's F'd up, but I also think it's super funny. He should look on the bright side. A. At least it was his cum, and not some other guys. B. At least you were kind enough to eventually untie him, hopefully before he puked all over himself. Bottom line is, yeah it was wrong and you shouldn't have done it.
I made it look like we were having a big fight over it, which wasn't. The "price" for having his orgasm was a kiss which i clearly told him a few times. I would have untied him any time he wanted, but that would be his loss. I guess he just chickened out at the last moment.
Well, a deal is a deal then. Not a deal I would have made. If you were upfront, than it's his problem.
If he said explicitly that he didn't want to or didn't like it then I think it's wrong to force him.
Just as you shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to he shouldn't either. If you really didn't want to tie him up - don't.
I must admit, i díd sort of like having total control after all.
He didn't say anything but hmm hmm because he didn't want to open his mouth. Until i pinched his nose.
Then talk to him after and make sure he was ok with what happened. If he says no then apologise and don't do it again. If he did enjoy it then use a safe word/signal next time
Yes some guys are real weird about the taste of their own cum. Odd isn't it. They think it's ok to cum in your mouth yet some how think it makes them gay to taste themselves.
Thanks for the MHG,
true but don't you get a little freaked out when one wants to taste his own cum?
@chrissykerdock Not really.
I think he wanted you to dominate him but you didn't want to, so you did it half-heartedly and he wasn't satisfied
Yeah, I don't think that's right. You shouldn't force someone to do something they don't enjoy.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes... You were wrong. If you knew he wouldn't like it but did it anyway. That would be the same as him giving you a dirty sanchez. or fingering your ass against your will.
Hah, good on you.
I respect you for doing that.
should have not gave in in tying his up in the 1st place so you wouldn't have to kiss him forcefully after giving him a bj
Most guys don't enjoy having cum in their mouth, even if it is their own. Some guys get off on it but most are strongly repulsed by it. Sounds like you enjoyed being dominant but be more respectful of his boundaries. The dominant partner is supposed to make the submissive partner feel comfortable and trusting. You kinda did the opposite.
should have kissed him befor the bj cos now he finished he dosenr want a bitch near him
That's actually pretty funny.
Wow gross. I wouldn't date you.
I wouldn't mind it but I like snowballing. I think its weird for a guy to be squeamish when its his own cum
that's fine.
Hahaha thats what you get for wanting to be submissive.
Yep. I couldn't agree more.
Not wrong
he's missing out!!
I love that!
Its HOT!
That got me hard !! One of my fantasies
You should've been able to do what you wanted to do. It's never ok to force someone into doing something.
How did he convince you to tie him? Did he just not shut up about it? Did he argue with you about it?
Not really an argument. He just asked it for the 10 th time so i agreed.
I actually enjoyed it too
Well, I'm glad you enjoyed it. But still, try not to let him force you to do anything.
So you both didn't want something. win/win
Haha savage
Not enough context. /shrug
He sounds very very selfish... suggest you find a new guy who will be more respectful and kinder
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