Would you mind being woken up in the middle of the night for sex?

Sometimes I just wake up in the middle of the night really horny and wanting sex or at least to masturbate to get it out of my system. Would you mind being woken up or sex? Have you ever been woken up for sex before or been the one to wake up your SO? How did you do it? Did you wake him up first and ask or just start touching him/her?

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Also to answer my own question. I kinda like the idea of it and have encouraged my boyfriend to do this.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I wouldn't mind at all unless I had to get up super early or was too exhausted. If either of us are just too exhaused or have to wake up early it should be understandable not to. I've had a few girls that we did this all the time tho it was usually one of us had to get up to pee and it woke the other person up and we'd just ask each other for sex : ) It usually happens when we can tell that we both can't sleep. she'll either starting rubbing my thigh and playing with my dick or when we're cuddling i start rubbing my dick on her ass and start rubbing on her boobs or pussy. It reminds me of one girlfriend i had where almost everyday she would set her alarm for 30 min before she had to get up for work so we could have sex and I usually loved it but some mornings where I didn't get home til like 2 she would try to wake me up at 6:30 and it was just like leave me alone woman! haha

  • A bit easier for guys given anatomy. We usually sleep back to back so in case of dire need I just have to roll over, spoon her, and give myself a butt job. About half the time she'll wake up grind me. She's not generally in the mood in the wee hours but she doesn't mind helping a guy out

Most Helpful Girls

  • Did before kids, they kinda ruined it. once they sleep through the night as they are quiet small still, will remind him to start again 😂 Or vice versa it was always wonderful being woken like that.

  • I started by touching him first- he usually went along with it and always respected him if he wasn't in the mood but 99℅ he was in the mood.

    • Not to open a can of worms or anything , but isn't touching someone sexually while sleeping considered rape or am I just imagining things and only women can do this?

    • We talked about it beforehand and he let me know this was his desire and fetish- to be touched in this manner that was unexpected to him. He let me know that if he didn't want it that I'd simply regress my actions. It is a mutual understanding between us. And he's not always sleeping when this happens. He's wide awake usually and enjoys it.

  • We have, no I don't mind it when we're both awake and things just start turning to sexy time!

  • I've done it. My boyfriend used to do it but I get mad now lmfao I like my sleep

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  • Hah. I love the idea of it. There's a super fantasy of being woken up to sex!!

    My wife says that, IRL, I don't wake up, push her away, and mumble or roll over.

    Sad me. :(

  • No.. when I sleep I sleep man.. leave me alone lol

  • Wouldn't mind being woken for that... Been told when I tried to do it, to go to sleep, he's tired...

  • Not unusual at all. Done that plenty of times.

  • No, I would love it. My wife loves it too.

  • if it's a work night and i'm in the middle of REM sleep i would mind... a lot
    otherwise, it's okay sometimes

  • We both wake up during the night around similar times, I'd imagine in the future this time will be used wisely 😉

  • It depends on how my day was and my schedule tomorrow. don't make him tired for work xD

  • maybe if its once in a while on the weekends

  • Probably not considering I often wake up in the middle of the night turned on AF already

  • Yep, love that... she just climbs on whenever the mood takes her, if I'm asleep or not...

  • When I feel too horny.

  • no. that's a turn on.

  • yes i would mind that

  • Yes. I think that's extremely rude.

  • My ex used to wake me up by kissing my neck while straddling me and slip it in

  • I love it and usually I get woken up with a bj

  • major fun being woken up by being touched and played with, even sucked off.

  • For me it depends on my mood and how Im being waked up, but hell If my girl wants sex in the middle of night (unless I have to wake up early in the morning) why the hell should I say no?

  • I also sometimes feels the same then I just masturbate.

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