What are some good ways to "torture" my bf?

Me and my boyfriend are into BDSM. We have a game we play where we each write down a "secret" and have half an hour with the other tied up to do whatever we want to get them to reveal the "secret". The loser (usually me, I'm not very good at it!) has to do whatever the winner wants and my boyfriend usually wants anal.

Can anyone suggest any "tortures" I can use to help me win our game?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Have you tried post orgasm penis stimulation while he is tied up. After he ejaculates using plenty of lube take your palm in a circular motion on the sensitive penis head. He will agree to anything and beg you to stop, but don't. He will tell you all his secrets

  • Give him a naked lapdance without touching him. Just get naked and dance REALLY sexy just above his cock and infront of his face, and keep telling him that you won't touch him until he gives up. He will want to fuck you so bad that he caves.

    • I've tried it. He's starting to squirm by the end of the 30 minutes but not quite there yet

    • Ah ok. Then how about if you either fuck him, suck his cock or jerk him off but you stop right when he's about to cum, then you wait for him to go soft, do it again, and keep going.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Put a really strong chillI mint and go down on him, it tingles and feels warm in the nice way but it's crazy intense the first few times and will defo make him squirm. You can get them online or at Ann Summers.

  • Tell him to unlock his phone and let you go through the entire thing including even his YouTube search history 😩👌🏻💦 He'll be on his knees in seconds

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  • Piss enima...

  • Talking to him about popular culture should suffice...

  • Tie him naked to the bed, get a sharp knife and tell him you're going "Lorena Bobbitt" on him.

  • how brutal can you get?

    • We're open to most things that don't cause permanent harm. The "secret" is basically his safeword so he can quit at any time

    • okay, most guys have issues with anal, so anything in his... or google CBT and see some ideas, or get a humbler, make him eat his own cum, nipple torture, especially clover clamps connected to a "gates of hell" and make him do pony trotting drills.

    • What are the gates of hell?

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  • A ball press comes to mind.

  • Stick his dick in a blender

  • How does he get you to give up the secret? Would that work on him?

    • Tickling my boobs and feet (his feet aren't ticklish i've tried) Vibrator in my pu$$y on full with no break (doesn't work for obvious reasons) Medical electrode pads either side of my pu$$y (again, can't really replicate on a man) Everything else is just playing on fears that I have and he doesn't. He doesn't really have any fears I can exploit - drowning maybe but I don't want to kill him!

    • You can use vibrator on the tip of his dick. That might work!

    • I tried it once but my hand got tired of holding it before it had any affect. With me he can just insert it and leave it there while he does other things.

  • Have you tried tickling him?

    • He's not very ticklish (or if he is I haven't found out where)

  • use ice or something cold from the freezer on him

    • Just pressing it against him?

    • on his skin, and trying different places for a reaction. an ice pack on the inner thighs or on the back?

    • or try a bigger style paper clip on the nipples.

  • masterbate in front of him

  • Ask him about his day for 30 minutes

  • Play around with (NOT DANGEROUSLY) his balls and dick. Also nipples are a sensitive point. Maybe shove something (safely) but unexpectedly up his ass lmao. Don't do anything too painful like toenails or some shit cuz then it'll seem like military torture

  • My girlfriend ties me to the bed sometimes. She also plays with my dick and balls. You should shove a flashlight in his ass and a football in his mouth.

  • Eat a lot of tacos then tie him up and fart in his face.

  • You can trample his dick under ur barefoot or in heels.

    • How do I best tie him to do this?

    • You can tie his hands n feet so he can't move n then step on his dick and squeeze till he beg you.

    • Tie them together or apart? Do I need him on his back or his side?

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  • Be fat

  • flirt in front of him with another guy

    • We're not really into that sort of thing

  • torture his sensitive nipples with clothes pins or clamps
    Drip candle wax on his chest, nipples, pubes and dick
    Put a noose around his balls and tie them to the end of the bed tightly
    Shave his pubes and dick
    Shave his chest
    Apply duct tape to any hair on his thigh's - leave it awhile - slowly peel off.
    He'll be ready to tell you his secret - that's what wife does to me and its amazing!

  • But I don't want you to win.

    It's hotter when you lose and get ass fucked.

    I suppose you could go old old school and try figging him.

  • My question is what are you going to do to him, get from him, if you win the game?

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