Girls, how are you comfortable showing your boyfriend your body?

I can't imagine showing a guy my body. I have so many flaws and there are so many girls with prettier faces and better bodies that a guy can go for instead of me. How are you comfortable showing him your body when it isn't perfect and knowing you have flaws? I get that love can play a role, but it doesn't change the fact that they can see flaws.
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  • It was a little weird being naked together for the first time. I think I even kinda apologized because I thought my breasts were too small. He just told me not to ever worry about it, that he loves the real me small breasts and all, especially your small breasts!

    I think the first time any girl shows a guy her body she is going to be self conscious. We see all the advertising pictures and models then wonder why I'm not like that. A few years ago I saw an article which showed the ad version of the picture and the picture as it was taken. Many of the models were thinner in areas and thicker in others, breasts were almost always larger, legs, butts and torso thinned faces altered even hair changed in some. There were also images of before and after make up, or with minimal make up to begin with. Seriously some of the models spend at least an hour or two having make up applied before they're "camera ready". That's what we are comparing ourselves to, something that is perfected by hiding flaws with cosmetics, then digitally altered for the advertising! You and I will never ever measure up to that, so why are we trying so hard?

    My guy liked what I was sharing with him, he had all the physical signs that he was, as I showed everything no limits, no hiding just the real me. He was doing the same with me, I'm sure he was thinking his penis was a bit small (it's not at all, above average); actually I thought he looked huge. I was thinking ahead, " that thing will never fit!". I'm glad I didn't verbalized those thoughts, he fit, it was a stretch as I would find out about six months later!!

    Guys aren't as insecure about their bodies as we are, I'm sure they must have a thought or two about looking good or not. If you're really insecure about the "big reveal", make sure that it's on your terms, location, lighting, etc.. Just remember, you wouldn't be there with him if he wasn't already attracted to you in the first place.

  • I am comfortable and content with my body, enjoy looking at it in the mirror, I think I have very feminine body type and If I like it myself, why should I worry that someone will dislike it?

    In my teens I used to be very skinny, though still had a weight on the right places, cause of my body type, I always got compliments on it, BUT sometimes I thought maybe I was too bony, then I gained 2-3 kg after 18 and now I feel even better at 48 kg.

    No one is flawless, no one including me but I think my body deserves to be loved, so does yours :)

    Plus, you should choose the boyfriend who won't be judgmental about your body and will make you feel fine.

  • Completely fine with it, I trust him when he says he finds me attractive and while there are things I'd definitely want to change I put in a fair bit of effort on my body so I'm ok with it.
    I have stretch marks and lots of scars on my tummy from surgeries which he can definitely see! Sometimes I can't be bothered to shave my legs everyday but I'll still rub them against him so he can feel it too.
    No one is perfect, and everyone has flaws. Even without love if they are a decent person they'll understand human bodies aren't photoshopped in real life, and that you're still beautiful

    • Great answer. I personally don't have any problems with stretch marks or scars. It shows you're a real person, and have been through things. That's an attractive trait in my opinion.

    • @FolexGT exactly 😊 It's real, and it's literally a canvas of some experiences. Definitely not a bad thing in my opinion

    • What surgeries? 😮

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  • Well first you have to learn to love yourself! That's what make it easy because we know we love our body and especially if our partner do too? By all means if you don't like your body, make a change. I'm a thick girl with curves and a little belly, and society doesn't approve of it. But I can give two f**** what they think if I look at myself in the mirror and smile! It starts with you first before showing ur body to a partner that's all. Confidence = Beauty

Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys don't care about the flaws, not like you do.

    If it's someone you are close to he will notice for example that maybe you've got a stretch mark on your hip or something, like he will physically see it but it's not what his brain is registering. All he's looking at is the curve of your hips, your nipples and other sexy parts. He will notice how you move, what you smell like etc.. His hormones will be racing and all he's going to have on his mind is touching your skin, tasting you and being inside you. Imperfections you are hyper aware of he won't give a single fuck about.

    Think of it like this if it helps.. Lets pretend that you had a magic wand with which you could create the perfect man and he would have long thick hair, but in reality this just isn't something that matters to you. Especially if you're with a man who makes your heart race and you feel safe with.

    Now imagine you're with a man who has thin hair or is balding and is VERY!! insecure about it. He feels like he can't have sex because he would have to take his hat off. Would that seem kinda silly to you? like would you really care at all about his hair or would you think he's sexy and just want to be with him regardless of his thinning hair?

  • Nobody is perfect.
    But if your in a relationship, your perfect to that person.
    You seriously should see a therapist. They can help with those kind of thoughts.
    as a man, I only see the woman I care about, I really could not possibly care less about any "flaws" she might have.

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  • sometimes to usually, he's been w me for a while so he knows whats coming lol.

  • Honestly, I thought just the same thing as you did.
    But then I got with this guy (not love), and once he get's in the mood, he'll just want to rip your clothes off. Sure, you may not be perfect, I doubt many of us are... but us girls obsess too much about what we look like compared to others.

  • I'm not comfortable with anyone seeing my body naked either which is why I have a huge sexy lingerie collection. Believe me it helps!

  • By not giving a damn about your flaws and knowing that if your partner is worth anything he won't either?

    • Straight up good attitude.☺

  • I was really nervous about it at the beginning and sometimes I have my off days about my self, but I've learnt that my boyfriend doesn't give a dam if I'm a little chunky here and there, he loves me anyway and that's all that matters

  • if he likes you don't worry I think the only flaw is being dirty so be clean and switch off the light quickly... i plan on doing that when that day comes why? because it's embarrassing. note: everyone has at least one flaw it's normal nobody is perfect.. haven't you see a pretty girl with good body but wait till she talks.. her breath is something else😷

  • I can imagine that would be awkward at first but I hope I really do get comfortable since it's something u can't remove easily. I swear I have so many scars from playing rough and some others from accidents but I don't think guys notice that... at least the ones I know don't.

  • I have flaws too but it's whatever, like stretch marks for one, I asked the guy I'm talking to if he minded them and he said no. A lot of times what we think might be wrong with us guys couldn't gaf ab lol

  • Just as every girl has a different body, every guy has different preferences. What one guy sees as a "flaw", another won't notice, and yet another will see as an absolute turn on.

  • We all have flaws under our clothes. Just go with the flow when making out ,, take it off Girl! You'll be surprised to see what he has under his clothes too. . If he's the One he'll appreciate your body.

  • Tbh I'm relatively comfortable with my body in general.

  • I'm absolutely at ease with my husband seeing my body.
    I thank God though, that with all its faults and flaws he continually finds it so very highly desirable.

  • What boyfriend? xD
    I am comfortable in my body, but I wouldn't show it to a guy. I would be too shy/nervous. 😅

  • Never had a boyfriend but I am pretty confident with the way I look.
    Surely I have some flaws here and there but nthng major

  • I walk around naked or in underwear at his apartment. I don't give a shit lol
    He loves the way I look. Why not lol

  • Biggest turndown ever is having sex with a woman who is ashamed of herself and trying to hide her body for you. No one is flawless.

  • I wasn't comfortable at first but eventually got comfortable enough to show
    Him my body any time

  • Because they practice in the mirror with a blow sex doll.

  • guys don't care about most of the things ur insecure about we're just happy there's a naked girl in front of us lol

  • love your body. love the person who love your body. there's no body without flaws.

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