Ok. Well. 1. Do you give a rats ass what anyone thinks of you? I pretty much don't. So long as I approve of me, that's all the approval I require. 2. Who says anyone is going to find out? He might, no probably will tell his buddies, who may or may not know who you are. Guys love to talk about sex and sexual exploits. If they do know who you are, who cares. They probably wish they could be in this guys place anyway. Do they make your car payment, will they judge your soul on Judgement Day, do they pay your rent? No right? Then who gives a rats ass what they think? I wouldn't. 3. You've never had sex, nor oral sex, so the most you could have done is fingering/or a handy J right? Getting oral sex from one guy in no way makes you a slut, which I know is your main concern. 4. It's up to you. If you aren't 100% sure you want to receive it or give it, don't. Like if you change you mind in a week he'll be all "too late now!" Please. He'll still lick you til he can stick you on an envalope and mail you. 5. I'm not going to tell you to do it or not, all I'll say is if you decide to and he's good at it, (hopefully he is if you do) you will probally cum so hard the earths gravitational pull will shift. If you decide to give, you'll probably enjoy that a lot too. Just be sure he's disease free.
You know what... have fun! you never know how it will end up, just have some protection ;)
Think about why it is you want to. Is it because you like him and have feelings for him or because you just want to feel good. Either of these reasons is legitimate, but it will change what happens after if you do it. If you like him then this could be steps to showing those feelings turning into a relationship. If it is just about the sex, that is ok but you'll want to make sure he knows that so he doesn't feel played later on. Also if it is just about the sex that is more likely to affect your reputation. Although tbh unless the guy is a d-bag who broadcasts what you did, no one will know so it won't affect how other people see you.
Let him if you want. But be prepared for him to try to take it further and try to have sex with you. A lot of guys will say this so it's not as scary as saying he wants to have sex. And they think it will get them closer to actually having sex with you when they see you. He will start off with oral then ask if a finger is ok then ask if you want to try sex.
lol I'm not like that tho
@Iamgreat24 not everyone is the same. This is just an example of basically what could happen.
Gotcha can u message me I have a question lol
If you're not ready, you're not ready. Be careful. If a guy were to say that to me I would assume there's no emotional attachment and that's not how you want your first time. It's okay to wait.
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If you're not comfortable don't do it.
If you scared if getting a bad name, then you can always wait until marriage.
College freshman at (30-35yrs old?)
If he's offering to eat you out, you get to have all the fun, and you don't have to do anything! Beware though, he might want something more than just eating you out.
Don't do it if you're scared
If your worried about a bad name just find out if he is a player or not.
What an awkward thing to say mid-convo... lol
Enjoy and have fun!
why would you get a bad name? ur an adult do what u want
If you are scared then don't.
I agree with Ashley. Be prepared for him to try for more including fingering, asslicking and sex
Let him do it just make sure that you clean yourself first and you'll be fine
I would say go for it it's college lol
You're in college, go have fun
its sad how love has become a sport. and a fame/vanity thingy... .
Virgin at 30 years plus of age? Cool.
I understand it that you are nervous if you still are a virgin. But there is always a first time! So enjoy
College freshman at 30-35.
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