Guys- does it rock your world when you're making love and your girl squeezes you with her "love muscles"? And can there be too much of a good thing?

I have always thought this would be one of the sexiest feelings ever, it makes her tighter and gives you more sensations, no matter what she is squeezing for you (dick, finger, tongue) Seems like a sexy win-win?
Have you ever had a situation where it hurt, or did NOT feel good, and you asked her to stop doing it? I know sometimes it can "push out" a less-than-hard dick, so it can be tricky. The other day while we were going at it, my boyfriend told me to stop doing it, or don't push so much, something to that effect. I felt hurt, like I was doing something wrong, when I had been proud and thought it was a GOOD thing that not every woman can do.
Now I'm confused as to whether I should even continue to do it. I thought he'd bring it up afterwards, but he did not :( I know I need to talk with him about it; its just awkward since we are dealing with his frequent ED. Every time we have sex, at least weekly, he has to stop at some point then come back to penetration, getting off less than half of the time with me :( I'm pretty sure he said it the way he did because he probably felt himself getting soft and was frustrated, but it doesn't hurt me any less knowing that.
Thanks for your opinions and advice :)
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After getting the responses here, I will definitely ease up on the sqeezing a little. When I first read about this technique (in my early 20s), the author claimed she could make her husband orgasm without even moving up & down!! She'd straddle him and just sexily squeeze rhythmically with various pressures, squeezing and pushing, and get him off! I thought that sounded like the hottest most intimate damn thing!! One day will make it happen! I've done Kegels regularly since I had a 13# baby LOL!
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  • I understand you're being hurt and kind of confused by his reaction. That's 'cause in my opinion contracting your vaginal muscles is a really special treat that a woman can do for her guy. (And having strong PC muscles is good for the girl too.) So I don't know exactly why he didn't like it. If he's dealing with ED that might have something to do with it but I don't know. But as for what you were doing, I think that's a very wonderful and intimate thing to do while the guy is inside you.

    • Thanks for your opinions :) I feel too it is related to the ED. In the past he has commented how great the squeezes felt, how tight I felt, etc. So it threw me off when he said to stop pushing so hard, really felt self conscious about it, and it hurt when he didn't bring it up later to just explain why. I really think it was that he was starting to go soft, and squeezing was making his thrusts less effective. Just wish he could've put it in words later. He's usually very expressive and open, one of the things I love about him. I know this is a touchy area :( might be a tough road for us. Thanks for your reply.

    • thank you for MH Guy opinion!

  • The tightness never hurts. The girl is more easily hurt. The only time she really could hurt a guy (IMHO) is when riding and coming down at a bad angle (what causes penile fractures). The other way is if she is on top and leans back too far. It would stretch the ligament.

    I've never had a girl do what yo're talking about.. they really never had to as I'm on the thick side and have enough trouble with most girls being in pain.

    • Ouch!! Yea I've worked at a hospital for 25 years, and those fractures are rare but definitely happen :-( Thats too bad you've never been able to feel the sensation, as long as there's enough wetness going on she should be ok? In your case, you should try having her on top controlling the movements, then she could throw in those powerful squeezes/pushes and rock your world! Lol Thanks for replying :)

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  • yes oh my god yes... orgasming with pressure... holy shit.

    but yeah, as with anything you can take it too far. I've used toys on girls to where their orgasm was too intense for them to enjoy. so be a bit gentler, that's all.

    • Thanks for the enthusiastic opinion lol, and the advice :) Toys can be too intense for me too. I will follow that advice. I guess if I remove the silly emotions from my situation, that IS exactly what he told me to do, I just over reacted.

  • Yeah I would not be so hurt by his request. You need to be able to communicate as lovers and talk about things like this.
    And yes, if she can squeeze a bit now and then it can be really cool.

  • Rock my world? Then its a small world indeed. But do I like Junior being squeezed by the invisible hand. Yep!

    • Lol- you know, just an expression. Speaking of small world, the pic you used makes me think of Australia, and I'm in America, and here we are communicating~ small world indeed (if you really lived there. Maybe you live in Texas lol) Thanks for your opinion :)

  • Yeah so you know how girls have penis preferences. Guys have vagina preferences. Because they come in all shapes and sizes just like guys dicks. The texture, the tightness, the depth. If you are tightening too much, it could also be hurting him.

    • Hmm, never thought about different textures~ thought as long as they were wet and not too loose they were all pretty much like apple pie lol. Thanks for the advice :)

    • @feelingunsexy lol, is your username feelin gun sexy or feeling unsexy?

    • LOL!! Didn't think of it the gun way! Hmm once I get past these unsexy issues it COULD be gun sexy. I do have a CC license ;-)

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  • Feels amazing, doesn't hurt, no such thing as too much.

    • Hmm another can't do it too much opinion. This is more what I was expecting. Thanks for replying :)

  • I love it and can never get enough of being squeezed

    • Thank you for replying and sharing your opinion :) I definitely feel better that what I'm doing is a damn good thing lol. Just getting a bad feeling that maybe I'm with the wrong guy, if he's not going to be able to discuss the ED problem at least a little with me :-/

    • you're welcome. it's a very good thing that I wish more women knew how to do. I realize ED is a sensitive subject but you should have enough trust to communicate anything with your partner and if he won't then maybe he isn't right for you

  • Oh hell yes it does. You can't do it too much.

    • Ok you are one of the few who said can't do it too much. Thanks for the opinion :)