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Is it wrong to want a threesome when in a relationship?

I really want a threesome for the experience and it seems hot af but obviously my other half don't agree , is it wrong to even think this?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes, it is wrong. Whatever combination of people, it risks jealousy. It risks mistrust. It risks a total break-up.

    If it's FFM, then your guy might always compare you with the other girl.

    If it's MMF, then your guy will always think of YOU comparing HIM to the other guy.

    Once you go there, you can NEVER undo it. There will always be doubt from your guy. If you have it as a fantasy, then leave it as a fantasy. Enacting it will be YOUR downfall!

    • You have said all that I would have said.

    • This

    • Thanks for MHG!

  • Think it all you want. Expecting your SO to do it is wrong. Why would any sane man want to participate and watch some guy having sex with her. How do you feel about a threesome with your guy and another hot woman? Sex isn't just entertainment like so many young people seem to think it is.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Whether its wrong or not varies from person to person, its not my cup of tea but all i have to say is just don't pressure your boyfriend into it. If you feel like you absolutely cannot live without having a threesome and your boyfriend doesn't want it, then maybe the relationship is not going to work out.

  • It ruined one relationship for me. My boyfriend wanted it but when he saw me enjoying another man he wasn't happy at all. Relationship over.

  • It's not necessarily wrong as long as you don't pressure your partner into it.

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  • MMF or FFM? If he said no to a FFM, well, he should just not exist as a male lol.

    • agree..

    • Course a MMF x

    • Ah... I see the issue now.

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  • No it is not. here's the thing... if your partner is not interested in doing it and you keep bringing it up he/she may feel uncomfortable and start to question you and your loyalty.

  • Nothing is wrong. Just keep in mind that a relationship is like a brigde of glass. At the beginning it works perfectly, but the more cracks you add to the bridge, the higher is the change to break. And cracks can't be fixed. You can glue some parts together, that helps. But not not everything.
    :)

  • You might try thinking of it this way: When you propose having a 3-some to your partner what you're really saying is that you want to have sex with another person. The fact that the 3-some would include your partner doesn't change that. So lots of people would be offended by that and it would make them wonder why their partner wanted to have sex with someone else.

  • Most report this works only when there's not much of a relationship to risk losing, perhaps closer to friends with benefits arrangements. That said, some will risk a loss b/c they have an eye on a replacement or two or three... an constant supply of willing sex participants on tap

  • You;ve been watching too many movies buttercup

  • It definitely not at all wrong to fantasize it and not even wrong to discuss with the partner. In fact sharing such feelings and cravings with the partner is a good thing even though the partner has the opposing views. It helps to get the load off the chest and who knows if the partner is in the mood to try it take a change in the future! ;)
    You fantasize threesome experience with 2 men or 1 girl 1 man?

  • It's not wrong to want something like this, but at the same time, there's nothing wrong with your SO not wanting it. What type of threesome do you want?

  • It's not wrong. My wife and I had both FFMs and MFMs but both of you must be on the same page on this or it will never work out.

    • With your wife lol... wow... that is intereting

    • @TripleAce Yes, at separate times during our marriage, she had a girlfriend and a boyfriend with whom we engaged in regular threesomes.

    • 👍 My wife and I have had a couple threesomes too. Her (now ex) boyfriend a while back never wanted to though :(

  • You should sit down and communicate with your SO and let him know
    just what you want out of a relationship and you shouldn't be judged for
    wanting a threesome that is your preference than talk to your partner.

  • Just get a girl for threesome.. He will be extremely happy

  • Wrong? Meh, no, but if you're partner isn't comfortable it would be wrong to continue to pursue

  • You are a ****

  • when is it wrong to want anything these days.

  • To me, yes. But to each their own. Everyone has the right to their own decisions and choices. I personally wouldn't, even if it was with two girls.

  • Hell no, what's wrong about that? Threesomes are healthy.

  • Its disrespectful.
    Your wanting another dude while in a relationship.
    Of course your partner wouldn't share. No smart guy would

  • depends if its with 2 girls or 2 guys

  • No, it's not. Nothing that you agree to do with your partner - if you are two consenting adults and it doesn't affect other's rights and free will - is wrong.

    The wrong part would be to try to impose your will on him if he doesn't want to. If he doesn't want to, you have two choices. Leave him or give up the idea. Either is ok , from an ethical standpoint.

  • I think it is right..

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