Have you ever had a threesome ruin your relationship?

Question

I have never had a threesome and probably never will. It seems to be a common topic on this site and reading so many posts has piqued my curiosity. It seems that people who have never done it either think that it would be exciting or they don't want to do it. People who have had a threesome talk about it in very casual terms. But what happens when you're in a relationship that seems to be working well and you then add a threesome into the mix? How does that affect the relationship?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've had various types of 3somes.

i) The wife was more into voyeur, therefore she enjoyed watching others and also others watching us. Then one day her bff suggested that I do her while the wife watched. The wife went berserk but agreed on condition, no kissing, no cuddling after it was over and it was a strict one time thing. She enjoyed watching and after it was over enjoyed asking her how it felt. There was some silence between us for a few weeks.

ii) Not really sure how this one started but she was good friends with one of the neighbors and she had the idea she wanted to try some woman-on-woman action. I told her it was disgusting and didn't want any part of it. Anyway I relented and that woman came and eventually I just let them be and decided have a beer with her husband. After it was over the women suggested I and her husband do something, I told them to fuck off as I'm very homophobic.

iii) The same neighbor again, he came up with the idea of my wife and him watch me do his wife. I told him it was a stupid idea, he insisted she was fine and that his wife was asking my wife about it. After some coaxing and talking I went for it. He enjoyed it that I was hurting her and kept cheering me on like it was some WWF match. The wife developed a friendship with her and felt our sex life must be normal since it hurt her too. I stopped seeing them after that as I started a new job.

iv) She had this friend from some event they met from, somehow they managed to get into this idea of doing a wife-swap. The other woman was rather hot, she made the rule that during the swap everything must be as similar and real as how we treated our own and it would be a voyeur style. I did the other woman, she enjoyed the dominant feel I brought upon her and liked the entire experience. Then came to his and my wife's turn. He gave her a very serving and submissive type treatment, everything being about her and kept trying to reassure her his dick won't hurt her unlike mine. He kept doing her real soft, slow and gentle, kissing her plenty, whole thing took nearly 4 damn hours. Then after it was over, she said to him she enjoyed it more with him than with me, it pissed me off big time and there and there I fucked her hard. It did not end well. We been on a cold war since then.

AlphaMale1 · Accepted Answer

I have been in two relationships where we did a MMF. Both times it was her idea without any influence from me.

If done properly with the right SO this can me the most erotically sexual experience of your life.

If done for the wrong reasons it will most likely ruin your relationship.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'd love to have a MFM three some but probably never would. Society has a way of teaching women that they are used from such endeavors. I'd love vaginal and anal at the same time... I just have to settle for sex while getting pegged :/

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

I had a few threesomes over the years but I was never in a serious relationship. There were no more threesomes or a lot of other things I did once I did get into a relationship which turned into marriage.

TacosRAwesome · Accepted Answer

I won't have a threesome because if its two guys, I'd feel like a ho. And if another girl is involved, I might get jealous and kick her out naked. :)

LaurenGrace · Accepted Answer

I've had a lot of great times between 2 or 3 men and a lot of great times pleasing my man with another women

SovereignessofVamps · Accepted Answer

I'd only do this with friends or something, nvr in a relationship.

3336PS · Answer

C - and not interested in have one.

JenSCDC · Answer

I've never understood their appeal.

godfatherfan · Answer

If you are ok with anyone else having sex with your SO, then the relationship is over. All your doing is looking for a way to fuck someone else and don't have the balls to end the relationship./

Notorisch_Arschloch · Answer

I've had being too picky about the second girl be the reason one of my exes just said fuck it and cheated with a girl. She had shit standards... all her picks, and the girl she chose to get her ass dumped for, were bleh.

supernes · Answer

I wouldn't mind having one but not seeking it out.

Rissyanne · Answer

You never know... you might have one.

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

It was all OK, in both our FFMs and MFMs, mainly because we stuck with the same people. We were considering another couple to join us once, but soon realized before things went anywhere that they weren't right for us, so we cut ties with them. It wasn't so much that we thought it would ruin our relationship but we just didn't want them bringing their bullshit around us.

MyExperience · Answer

I could've chosen a couple answers in your poll but ultimately I voted D. It was great and then it wasn't but in the long run it all worked out the way it was supposed to.