Potential boyfriend sent unsolicited dick print/crotch pics and I don't know how to respond?
So there's this guy I met online and have known for 3yrs. Over the last 8 months or so we've gotten to know each other more and talk via social media or FaceTime all the time. I know he's liked me for a while but I haven't entertained it til now. Anyway whenever we talk, we don't talk about "us", but instead talk about everything else about us when we do FT. However, when he messages me he sends me cute things, showers me with compliments, tells me he really, really likes me, says he misses me etc. but never says this when we're talking on FT. I figured maybe it's because he's uncomfortable communicating his feelings verbally even though his actions say otherwise and because he's shy but I'm not sure?
The dick print/crotch pictures:
About 3 months ago, I woke up to a Snapchat from him in his boxers grabbing his erect penis saying "do you like my boxers?" I ignored it and didn't talk to him for a several days. Then finally had a conversation about how it made me uncomfortable and how he needs to be more mature, transparent and direct about how he feels about me. Then 2 days ago he was really addimet about asking me for pictures, but I kept ignoring him. Then he started sending me crotch pics and then said "send me a pic of your boobs👀" Mind you I've never once sent him an illicit or "sexy" picture of myself to him. So I'm at this point were I feel like he doesn't respect me or my wishes and I'm just really turned off by him now. I haven't talked to him since that day, but I'm fed up and don't understand why he's behaving like this. It's confusing and frustrating and I don't know what to do.
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