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I have a small penis, how can I build my self confidence?

So yeah... i have a 4-4.5 inch long and 4.5 inch corcumference penis. It gets super hard and stiff when I am turned on so I guess thats cool. But i know this is smaller than average, and I have heard a majority of women would be disappointed when looking at a small one (I know there are some who love small ones and also girls who have small vaginas so they need a small one, but I know in all likelyhood I will not be lucky enough to find any of these women). So basically... I know I will mostly be encountering women who prefer something more than what I have so this has got me a little down... I also am a 22 year old virgin so that does not help much lol. Like I love my small penis but I am just disappointed that due to western culture a lot of women would hold it against me or instantly think that I will not be as good or feel as good just because I am small, but anyway screw them, those types of girls seem selfish anyway. But yeah is there any techniques I can utilize to feel a little bit better?
Just dont think about it.
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Go for girls who like small/have small vaginas.
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Give up son.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Dude, I have exactly the same problem as you, and it has occupied my mind for a long time. I am 34 yo and had a lot of sex in my life and never got any complaints about my size, It's more of an issue in your head about being man enough in general. You don't think "what if he gives better head than me?" or "what if she is more attracted to taller guys than me?", you just think about your penis size as if it's all about it.
    The truth is probably that some or most girls would enjoy a bigger one more, but it doesn't mean they can't enjoy you, and if you add up your size, skills, looks, the way you move, the way you talk, your vibes - it creates something very unique which is you.

    • But ill make her enjoy my small penis more, how bout dat.

    • Oh yeah and from what i have researched, small penises stay more consistent against the g spot.

  • You could try jelqing, no idea if it works or not.. But some guys claim to have had great success with it. You're still average in some countries as well. But at the end of the day, who cares. It's just a meaningless thing. Embrace it. Don't be ashamed of it. If a girl doesn't like it, you honestly just have to laugh. Who cares.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't think 4-4.5 inch is that small, it's normal

    • Yeah i guess but its smaller than average and a lot of people ridicule us small guys and say we can't please a woman with our penises, I don't know why people do this.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Work on your tongue game.

    • Saying my penis won't be good enough to satisfy a girl so I have to use my tongue instead? Lol thanks for that. And of course Ill use my tongue along with my penis.

    • I don't know if it's good, lol. I just meant since yourself conscious about it. At least your oral skills will be amaaaazing!

    • Ok whatever i guess.

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  • Go for girls with small vaginas.

  • Stay single, and make sure you don't have children. Honestly just make the best out of a single life.

  • Get penis enlargement surgery, they've gotta have something like that

  • You better learn to use it along with your fingers and tongue

  • Do not fear for I also have a small penor.

  • Turn it into a fetish I did and I don't care no more

  • don't think too much

    • Ok... what of a girl says something negative about it?

    • accept it if you can't change it

    • Well i guess, but i dont think its a bad thing to have a small one. Maybe i should something negative to her about her vagina just to level the playing field.

  • Just don't think about it.

  • stretch is bro.

  • Go to Korea they have the smallest penises in this world. You are way bigger than them. Good luck.

    • Literally no help.

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