Can I ask him to finger me without him expecting sex?
Every time I go over to my boyfriends place for dinner and a movie, we end up in the same chair with me sat on his lap and our arms around each other cuddling for hours. I'm a virgin and want to remain that way until I'm married but I get really horny sometimes. I've tried masturbating but can't ever seem to get myself off (with either my hand or the shower head - any tips?) He's very patient and has said he's letting me set the pace he also once said he's not a selfish lover. Anyway when I'm sat on his lap, I keep wondering what it would be like if he was to just slide his hand up my skirt and finger me. I'm completely unexperienced - he was my first kiss and we haven't made out or felt each other up or anything yet - we have a very innocent relationship (been dating for almost 4 months).
As he's letting me set the pace of things, when we're cuddling can I ask him to finger me or tell him it's something I'd like to do? But without it leading to sex. I'm willing to give him a hand job in return but can't have it go any further!!
Or if you have any tips on how I can relieve myself that would be good too!
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