Got fingered at a party for the first time and now "down there" hurts?

so yeah I was at a party and got really drunk and I kissed this guy and we went into a room and he put his hands in my pants. now I remember feeling he was going quite fast in and out and it just feels tender down there. this normal at all considering I never had any sexual contact of any sort before?
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  • If you were drunk (according to United States feminist dumb asses) then you were raped. Intoxication equals rape Period (Even if he doesn't lay a finger on you). You may even be preggers. You should call your dad.

    • it wasn't rape he was drunk too😂 and I didn't sleep with him

  • It's probably just sore because you haven't had sex yet but you should see a gynecologist if it doesn't feel better within a couple of days

Most Helpful Girl

  • He should of rubbed outside your underwear first to get you wet. It may not have hurt as much.

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  • Yeah going fast and fingering doesn't go well together

    But it should pass

  • Yea.. he probably scratched u or just irritated your insides, or possibly just was too rough. My wife used to get fingered at some parties and she'd be sore afterwards sometimes.

  • The pain is normal and will go away. That part of your body is very sensitive. After you get fingered a few more times, you will be use to it. So, you don't masturbate? message me with that answer.

  • that's normal

  • Still hurts rn?

    • this happened on Saturday. it's not like a huge pain just sore and as for fingering myself like I said just tender feeling. slight discomfort

    • Who fingered your then at the party? So when you move it hurts?

    • I didn't really know the guy :( it's not that it hurts not like that it's just a constant uncomfortable feeling I suppose :/

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  • its likely only a temporary feeling , I couldn't see it really lasting long

  • Was this your first time?

    • indeed😂 I don't think I'm infected or anything it's just a slight burn feeling and to even finger myself at this moment just sore. then again I have no idea how many fingers were used and like I said he was quite rough..

    • Yeah most guys are jerks like that. They think they can just stick it in and go to town and that's not how it works! Lol.