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Seriously men, what is so great about anal sex?

What is so great about it that you would pass the pussy to go straight for the shit hole? What pleasure are you getting out of it? I am really really interested in what the big deal is about it. I personally have no interest in it because during the whole event i would just be thinking about shit so the whole thing turns me off. So men please explain why you like the asshole over the pussy. What is the appeal? Cause that seams to be a main thing men want now. Why? No arguements please just truthful answers.
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Women is it the sensation that gives you the orgasm or do you need to help it along? Like the one girl mentioned how she plays with herself during it.
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  • Here's the deal. To me anal sex is cool (will include ass eating and fingering in with anal intercourse for perpouse of discussion.) It's not the be all end all. I like the pussy better.

    That said, it is fun and something you can add to spice things up. When I'm in love with someone or at least sexually attracted to them I want to stick my dick, tongue, or fingers into every orifice they have, asshole included. I want to run my tongue over every inch of their body, baring their feet (which I find disgusting, but not all guys do).

    There is a certain kink factor. It's... a different or new hole to explore, if your guy hasn't been there yet. I'm reasonably certain if all women were born with holes in their armpits some guys would definetly want to lick, finger, and fuck those too.

    Due to wide spread and easily accessed porn, a lot of guys are fixated on the anal. When I was in high school there basically was no internet. If you wanted porn you had to steal it from someone's dad, or get someone to buy it for you or whatever. Now it's everywhere, and even lots of girls like and watch it. When I was in high school, no girls I was with did anal, and few swallowed cum or let a guy even cum in their mouth. Now most girls do both. Some of that had to do with our ages at the time, and apprehensiveness and socital norms, some of it has to do with porn being viewed by so many, so often that those things aren't as taboo as they once were and are now more main stream. A girl isn't a tramp because she takes it up the ass. So now more people do try anal sex, and as a result more guys see it as a maybe even the norm rather than the exception.

    Everyone has their own indivudaluzed fetishes. Some guys just have a huge fetish for it. Many guys are like me in this aspect. I enjoy seeing my love interest be the dirtiest little slut imaginable, but only with me. For some guys, that's the kinkiest thing on their list, so they want that the most.

    Girls will make fun of guys dick sizes. Got news for you ladies. At 18 your pussy is probably the most amazing thing a guy will see and experience. At 40, you've had at least one kid, probably more, been with several guys, and been fucked good and hard, and deep many, many times. That pussy ain't what it used to be. It's like a used car. 100,000 miles of cock on it and as wide open as a bat cave. Doesn't give much of a good fuck anymore. It's loose... but that asshole maybe isn't and is a mighty tempting hole to go for in that case.

  • Truthfully:
    - its more 'special' because we get it less, if at all.
    - it tends to be very tight, and if it's not careful (and sometimes even if it is) it can hurt her. So we feel like our cock is huge.
    - it can feel really good because it's tight
    - we are naturally attracted to the woman's butt already, so it's sort of magic we can have sex with it
    - if we like being dominant, it's very dominant,
    - its... intense. what men hate most in a partner is a 'dead fish'. I think relatively few women are dead fish during anal. Some cum harder then they do in vaginal. Men like that. Some find it uncomfortable. Some men find that hot as well.

    I think you're right it's a 'big thing men want now'. I'm not sure whats changed, but I am suspicious that 40 years ago, men who wanted to 'ravage' their partner were happy with vaginal sex. But as vaginal sex became an exercise in men holding off orgasm while providing lots of clitoral stimulation till she had sufficient orgasms he could allow his orgasm to trickle out... a fair number of men and some women started looking at anal sex as a way for him to dominate and 'take her' while she moans and gasps under him. And some women do find it... very powerfully orgasmic as well.

    • What do you mean by dead fish?

    • Acts bored, doesn't react in any way, hops up when it's over like it was nothing. That's... bad. We want you to react. We want you to act overwhelmed, like its the most intense thing ever, and when we're done, you to be laying there like you can hardly walk.

    • Lol and you can't do that with a vigina?

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  • I don't understand it either.

    The only reason I can think of is:

    1. They like bums
    2. Hole is tighter
    3. Scat fetish
    4. Natural contraception
    5. Hole is longer
    6. Taboo
    7. Curious
    8. It hits the g spot.. as its very close to the vagina

    Its not very good in long run it can cause prolapse.

    The bum has 365 live bacteria that are not good for your body. This can travel to his and her reproductive organs.

    The skin can damage and merge in with vagina :-/ ...

    The lady will have incontinence

    • All the health concerns you mentioned here i have found on medical websites. So yes that is another reason i would never do it.

    • Yes its not very healthy in long run. And the guy who down voted me shows the common sense in some people is limited.

    • Well, you just pooped the party for a bunch of guys.

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  • I use to feel the same but then tried it out a few times and enjoyed it. It's a weird feeling of pain with pleasure being fucked up the ass. It makes me moan more and it just feels amazing. Knowing the guy controls me so much that I gave in everything is a really big turn on. I get more excited as well and play with myself while the guy is doing anal.

    • it certainly can be great

  • I asked a Q like this, and the guy told me anal feels the same as pussy. I've read stories where he didn't even know he was having anal, i the heat of the moment he went in the wrong hole. I think they just like it because it's taboo, or used to be.

    Don't worry, lots of guys are like you and dislike or even hate anal.

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  • First, shit as you so delicately put it over and over, isn't usually an issue with anal sex. For me and my partners, it's about dominance and submission, alternate forms of pleasure and for some of us, it plays into the D/s and BDSM elements of our relationship.

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a6855-comfortable-anal-sex-for-beginners-a-guide-to-the-first-time

  • it feels primal, like the most animalistic way to fuck a girl is in her ass. I could wax poetic about anal for pages and pages (and I have) but I think that's the simplest explanation.

  • It's tighter and convincing the girl to do it is kind of like a win in the sense that the mang got to be dominant.

    • Or she likes it! Lots of girls say it gives great Os, and don't need convincing lol Srsly though, if he thinks he's dom because of an act... I think that's really stupid. And weak. Dom is a mindset, not about the act.

    • @SovereignessofVamps and convincing someone to do certain acts changes the mindset.

    • No... like his mindset, if you're dom then you're dom. And I don't think you can convince the sub, they have to be willing anyway. Especially in things like BDSM, I've heard it's pretty much all mental. I'm sorry, but I think guys who believe that about acts, are just srsly immature. It makes me angry, like why can't he be secure in himself, and not have to try to make me into anything? If he was secure, I'd have anal with him no problem, but I feel like guys like this, are basically lying to me. So no matter how much I like them... they put needing to feel that way over our relationship, like ego over our relationship.

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  • Anal sex is ok if you prepare!
    First have an enema around an hour before.
    Second make sure you are lubricated and relaxed.
    I quite enjoy someone fucking me, but I prefer penetrating a vagina, it just feels better to me.
    But, many guys indulge in anal sex to avoid any chance of pregnancy.
    At one time it was the primary form of contraception.
    It is always good for a girl to masturbate during penile penetrative sex fun, most females cannot orgasm from a penis alone, whether vaginally or anally!

  • it's different, seen as a bit of a taboo, deeper, tighter especially around the opening, so long as you have excellent personal hygiene and diet you don't need to worry about any mess. personally I love it

  • It's hot to some because the ass is tighter, it's taboo, and it makes many men feel sexually dominant.

  • well anal is supposed to be prepared by douching and cleaning beforehand so there is no shit left that could come out.

    i guess people hope for it to be more tight and it´s just a little exciting as it´s "unusual".

  • I've never enjoyed it so Im not sure what the big deal is either, I did it once and that was enough. It is where crap comes out and no matter what you will smell feces and that doesn't make me horny. A pussy is wet and warm and an ass smells. Guys always seem to say yea but the ass is tighter but really if you can't cum from a nice juicy wet pussy you have a problem lol

    • YES the smell, the area... I would want to try anal eventually, but it's still such an ew area for me too.

    • @SovereignessofVamps Seems like a lot of prep has to go into it, cleaning the ass very well (enima/douche) so the smell is eliminated and no feces on the guys penis

  • I never tried it but most people I've talked to, are not as excited as you re describing. Its just an "animalistic" and dominant feeling to it i guess. Anyways, I would like to try it but I doubt Id like it., unless my girl is really into it. If she likes it a lot, then just the taught of her having a great time, will definitely make me like it too.

  • The chocolatey surprise when not prepped for it

  • It's so tight, at least the opening and the fact that it's not always as easily available as the pussy makes it more exciting.

  • i dont like anal sex

  • I agree with you.

  • tried it once.. I'm too big for that hole, girl couldn't handle me and I literally felt nothing

  • Just thinking about shit 😂😂

  • Butthole pleasures

  • most like it as it is tighter

  • One attraction is that it means that we are with a woman who is uninhibited, adventurous, not hung up on what her mother told her during potty training, and she is willing to be open minded and find pleasure wherever it may be.

    From your perspective, you may not be able to understand that.

    • I am not against people who do it. Go for it. My mother never discussed anal sex with me. If you must know i work in a hospital have had patients with bad experiences with it. Yes, i can't get past the idea of the guy shoving his dick into shit. So there is no need to try and disrespect me for my preference.

    • You should understand that fecal material does not move into the rectum until immediately before defecation. With a minimum of attention to hygiene, anal sex never leads to an encounter with fecal matter. I am not tying to disrespect you. Some people have an attitude about anal sex, or oral sex, they have never experienced such things and they likely never will. Your initial post sounds like you have a hostile attitude on the subject. Most people who have a hostile attitude don't really want to understand.

    • Well I am sorry if I came off that way.

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  • I never done it. But I guess the curiosity and taboo aspect of it.

  • 1) It is tighter, especially around the opening
    2) It is velvety smooth inside
    3) It is deeper - no cervix to keep bumping into
    4) It is actually very clean - over the hundreds of times I'm done my wife in the ass, I can count on one hand the number of times have only gotten messy
    5) It feels great for her. She has stronger orgasms anally. Most women do if they can get past the mental aversion so many have.
    6) No pregnancy concerns

    • Nothing like being down voted for a honest and legit answer!

    • @truthbeknown I know, right? So whoever down voted me, how about telling us what I wrote that offended you?

    • I think it depends on the guy, I didn't downvote. But lots of guys say anal feels like pussy to the point where they can't tell a difference, or worse than pussy. I have heard women can get awesome Os from it, yep.

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