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Do all girls liked being eaten out? I don't, is that bad?

my boyfriend (only sexual partner I've ever had) I've been with for years somtiems likes to go down on me. I just can't seem to like it. I love blowing him but I feel like it's weird when the roles reverse. It feels weird and slobbery with his tounge everywhere as well as messy. I also somtiems feel like he may be juging how down there is (even though I know he wouldn't go down there if he didn't want to and I am completely comfortable with him) He has read somewhere and been told by his buddy's that girls love it. So when I try to say I don't really enjoy it he says all girls do. Is it just me?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Sounds like you have trouble relaxing for him. Maybe every girl feels like this at first, maybe not, I'm sure the percentage is high though. Part of that is because we are such multi tankers,,, you know the routine,, "Am I clean down there?" "Did the garbage get taken out.." "I'm sure he'll taste pee!!" "Omg he likes that?" And about a million other things that go, through our silly heads!

    We were both first time everything too. I worried what he tasted when he was down there. I'm also bare so nothing hiding any of my bits. I guess I was worried about what he was thinking about what he was looking at. Turns out he was and he liked it! We sort of settled on a compromise that helps me relax, if it's spontaneous I get to rush to the bathroom for a warm washcloth and make sure I feel clean. If it's kinda planned like I'm jumping his bones, I wash up then jump him. It only takes a second and the peace of mind that it brings is totally worth it, I can relax and let his tongue do magic! It even helps me forget about the garbage!! = }

    I do the same thing when I'm surprising him with a bj only I bring the warm washcloth to him! He rarely tastes bad though, but I just do it so the one time he might T's already taken care of.

    • Thank You!!

  • Some girls dont like it. You sound a lot like i used to. Let yourself relax and "coach" him. If your not sure what does it let him practice and then recall what you enjoyed. I could never let myself "release" but in time I've learned to really enjoy and even crave this... I was 28 before i discovered the joy that comes with trusting surrender. The best tips i have are clean up, go pee!!!, & relax. It is more fun for him when you enjoy it too, so ask for a finger, palm up, with a "come hither" motion tickling the back side of your belly button (g-spot) while he goes orally at your clit, from the side (to avoid his face getting in the way of his hand). You can still be in control while giving it up. Trust me you will enjoy it, when you learn to relax and just enjoy him trying so hard to please you.

    • Thank you! Both of us are firsts at that been with him years he's the first and only guy I've ever been with, he's slept with like 3 other girls in his life but never gone down on one till he asked to on me. I think your right I need to realx and let him practice as I did in blowing. I'm gonna try what you suggested maybe if help him understand what I do and don't like (if I can learn to like it even a bit more) he could improve as well.

  • It's not bad, it's normal when girls get uncomfortable about it, including me. When my first ex and I were together, he was trying to encourage me to try it. He wanted to do it to me and I kept saying I don't want to (maybe mostly because I think about what would happen to him and that I fear about possible infections. Of course it might feel good in general but I told him I wasn't ready since he was the first guy I ever had a relationship with and I don't want it to get too far yet.

  • It's not just you. I don't really enjoy it either. I'm not thinking about what he's thinking about down there I just find the overall feeling to not be all that. There are some girls who absolutely love it and then there are some who don't. Doesn't make you weird. You like what you like there's no shame in that.

Most Helpful Guys

  • u girls need to just let the animal inside you out and spread those legs and let a horny animal burry his face in your crotch. stop thinking so much and lose control in the moment. grab his head and force it into your wet pussy. i can tell u right now as a man.. the last thing we are worried about is 'how it tastes' or 'how it smells' if were down there were down there. the messier the better. in fact bend over and let us lick your ass while were at it ! try to take pleasure in being 'uncomfortable' or being in a vulnerable position. maybe pretend like he's doing this to you against your will but it feels so good.. then when he's done grab his hard dick and let him force it in your mouth.

    • Fuckin brilliant😂😂😂

  • I have been with a few women and everyone I met liked me going down on them. Maybe your man is just not doing it right or something.
    As for his answer to you when you say you don't enjoy it, I think that is a little pushy.
    Still, I would see if maybe he is just not doing it right, in which case, you might really enjoy it if it got you off.

    • Thanks for the MHO. I hope you can relax and enjoy, and the he has found the magic button.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I enjoy it, but it's not what I get the most out of and prefer to do other things

  • Everybody enjoys sex in a different way and it has to please both parties. So, if you don't like, don't do.

  • He is more than likely not judging you down there and not everyone enjoys it. Some do and some do not. If you do not like the way it feels when he does it maybe try to suggest different things that do make you feel good by guiding him through it

  • Yes they do. I just think your boy friend isn't good at it. Yet.

  • I felt like that for a year but now I've learnt to like it and it actually feels good.

    So in time I guess you'll like it too. :-)

  • Maybe he's not doing a proper job at it?

  • If it doesn't feel good, tell him. His technique may need improvement. Can' t tell for sure.

  • If you don't enjoy it, most likely he's doing it wrong.

  • I love giving blow jobs but really hate getting eaten out or fingered

    • Same. It's probably my favorite sexual act. I love the feel and somtiems even beg him to let me. I take pride in doing a good job too. Just not so ok with the reverse of the act haha

  • Ure boyfriend most not be doing it right

  • I enjoy but heard from others they don't like.

  • You can give him some directions..

  • Oral is like sex; sometimes you get a great long session and sometimes you want your money back

  • I don't really like it... it makes me feel uncomfortable

  • nope i've had a couple girls weren't into it that just loved to get fucked. totally normal we all have our preferences

  • every girl I've been with absolutely loves it and wants it as much as I want blowjobs

  • I like it

  • Most girls apparently do

    • All girls

  • I don't either AT ALL and never have... kills my sex drive.

  • Could be. But i love it.. mm. Yumy yumy

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