What's so bad about being a hoe?

[Anonymous]

What's so bad about being a hoe? Men are allowed to be sexually free as much as they would like, but if a woman is she's labeled as a "hoe." The words hoe, thot, etc are rarely used to describe men. If a woman wants a train ran on her, posts nudes willingly, openly discusses sex, has many boyfriends, wears revealing clothing what is exactly wrong with this? I want to know. I'm 17 and I want to be a hoe. I want to be fast and sleep around but use protection. I find many men to be attractive and if I like him I want to fuck him. Should I really be shamed for this?

[Anonymous]

Because its dangerous and dirty. It shows how little you care about yourself, that you have low standards and expectations, that you enjoy being manipulated, that you are not a lady, have little regard for your own dignity, you do not wish to honor anyone in your family, and are willing to bring them shame for your own selfish reasons, you'll have a harder time finding a good man, good men don't date how's, cause they are dirty (with diseases), known for being disloyal and obviously lack self esteem. With 1in 3 having herpes, the invisible nasties (HIV, PID, AIDS, HPV &more) then the rest of the visible nasties, warts, yeast infections etc. When you sleep with a guy you also sleep with all of his prior partners & all of their prior partners, so you could be sleeping with 100+ people everytime you let a players wang in thete. Why would you want to be a hoe? You know guys will do anything to get in there, you know social media / tv tries to build hoes to supplement the multi billion porn industry of "oh my I'm barely legal and horney" and just like a mindless self hating drone you fall in line with why can't I be a hoe? Sweetie you do whatever you please, but a life of that nature is not much of a life. Remember after 25 guys won't be so into you, your old meat by then. The rejections will tear you apart, the sicknesses may kill you, being a single mom is no fun neither is sex when the guy just wants to blow his load and go... or you can control your urges, understand its just hormones, have the best sex ever with the one guy who cared enough about you to learn what you like and satisfies you every time, without all of the other drama, be a respectable lady, who is honest and honors her family name... who's hotter? The slut or the "good teacher" letting her hair down? The Catholic school girl or the whore on the corner?

[CarpetDenim]

You are completely right and I respect your perspective so much.

[Sangita93]

Hoe is a tool for breaking earth, usually used in gardening. it is used as a slag for a woman that is too loose in the booty - and for woman or man that fuck anything with two legs. (Animal sex too). Most cultures and religions never advocate or favor enjoying sex with multiple partners. Most of them advocate for monogamy for many reasons. Responsibility of kids, economics and health related issues are real reason for sticking to monogamy. Enjoying sex with multiple partners may result is STD`s and any life threatening danger. Doing it is equally dagerous for both - girl and guy, and both can be said HOE.

[Kimonono]

I feel like every girl should have a "ho" phase. It sounds weird like that, but OK. I know during mine, I genuinely found out more about my body, how there could please me and how I could please them. You learn about your own sexuality. All within reason and 100% safety first of course, but I think it might be a good thing. I am very open about my sexuality, and yes, some people do frown upon that, but as long as I can justify myself TO MYSELF I feel like I'm fine. I'm not saying, take on 20 guys in one week, but I do think you should go out and explore.

[PlacentaSalad]

For the most part, I don't even know which women at parties are "hoes" or not. It's not until I overhear a group of girls talking about the girl in question and mentioning how much of a slut she is that I actually realize it. If you don't want to be shamed for it, then don't let your girlfriends know or see you sneaking off with a different man every hour. Most guys don't really care when a girl is promiscuous, we see her as an easy lay because that's what she is and that's what most younger guys want.

A promiscuous woman doesn't have many boyfriends, though, she just has a lot of sex partners. There's a difference. If you're dating multiple men at the same time then you certainly do have issues. Nobody likes to be played like that.

[LegateLanius]

Nothing is inherently wrong about being a gardening tool
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[MocaMoco]

STD's lmaoooo

[Rainie_]

Meh, for me, after 18, hoe or not I don't care, as long as she is having responsible sex it's all good and no worry.

Makes most people uncomfortable though but I really don't see the difference between a guy and a girl being sexual and sleeping around.

I only feel uncomfortable about it if they're younger, male or female, because they're not an adult yet. But that's just me.

[mistixs]

I don't think they should be shamed, but I think they're misguided.

Men will do all sorts of things in order to get a chance at sex. If we give it to them very easily, that'll decrease that power we have.

[Scrambledagain]

If the stigma surrounding prostitution wasn't there, women would lose their sexual power. thats why sex work is incredibly important and worthy of the billion dollar size it is.

[Berethor]

It's your choice, but after becoming an hoe, many guys would not want you for anything serious.

[marinajs]

You go girl, its your body. Dont give a fuck about what other people think. Just stay safe, please don't get into rape/abusive situations and please make sure you prioritize health and happiness as number 1.

[Succubus213]

Your 15!!! You know nothing of the repercussions of YOUR actions never mind hers!! Your as brainwashed as she is!! What did your parents teach you about your hormones? The hormones shouldn't be in control, your brain should be!! Your in no position to give sexual advice... if your so confident of your opinion being true and OK go tell your parents that you think its OK to have a train run on you, see what happens.

[Lilier]

Nothing at all. You do you.

[Succubus213]

Your 16!!! You don't even understand the consequences of your own actions, never mind hers!! Like I told the other CHILD if your so confident its OK to degrade yourself and risk the illnesses go tell your parents its cool to be whore, and your excited about taking on the football team, their gonna run a train on you. Watch what happens... neither of you will, why cause your parents are trying to keep you safe, to teach you right from wrong and you know this is both wrong and dangerous. Think with your head not your hormones

[Lilier]

@Succubus213 YOU are what is wrong with society. YOU are why kids rebel. YOU do this to "children" if people like you kept your mouth shut, kids might not want to actually do this stuff and talk themselves out of it. LET PEOPLE BE THEMSELVES WOMAN. SHE CAN LEARN FROM HER OWN MISTAKES, I still think you should get tested occasionally for STDs, AND EXCUSE YOU FOR CALLING OUT AGE WHEN YOU can't EVEN TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN 'you're' and 'your' IN FACT, you're judging on basically nothing, I plan to wait until marriage but I don't go around and try to FORCE my BELIEFS on other people. I bet you were a teen when you lost your virginity, please don't be such a hypocrite.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

She probably doesn't want you or her to make the same mistakes as her. She's just giving you a heads up.

[Lilier]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy I understand completely, she just approached it in the wrong way. Calling me out on age isn't appropriate, I'm probably as mature as she is. If she had came out and had been blunt, this would've gone another way. Something like "don't sleep around, you could seriously get yourself into trouble or get a life threatening STD" probably would've been better than trying to parent the asker AND me.

[Succubus213]

Kids rebel because they are kids, we have all been there. The age of a person is available to be seen by the public for a reason. This site is to get opinions, which are like assholes, everyone has one, most of stink from time to time and they should be kept to yourself. If YOU'RE ( a conjuntion of the words you & are as opposed you the possessive your, if a type-o through auto correct is pissing you off so badly life is gonna be tough!) going to post something that is a source of contention, wether or not you know it, you have to be ready to take what comes your way. I am not "judging on basically nothing" i am judging her words. I can no more control her life than you can. How am I not letting her live it? She asked opinions, I delivered a strong one. To "force my belief" on anyone I would have to do like the Germans did to the Jews. Your angry, I get it, but If you're going to come at someone bring some real and valid points. You can't upset adults with a hissy fit.

[tzdc21]

You're gonna set up a bunch of long term problems for yourself in the future if you go down that path

[wankiam]

well good for you and i hope you have lots and lots of fun

[Fox_McTag]

as long as you use protection, and never ever play with feelings nor pretend to a serious relationship nor disrespect and ruin other's relationships...

and there's no such thing as a sexually free man, we call them immature fuckboi
once again it's all fine for them too if they know what they are doing and comply to all the above mentioned.

[KBob93]

Can you explain to me what a train is, like what you said, a "train ran on her"?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Multiple guys taking turns on her during a sex session.

[Expect2Achieve]

oh... well that explains that.

[WaterRat]

You could be a Virgin for life and have no self worth it makes no difference. Sex is a natural thing, an experience. People just have different goals. You like trains, they like nonstop flights. Choo-choo away.

[LB33777]

I don't think it's a big deal.
Fuck who ever you wanna fuck.

As long as you use protection.
As long as your safe.
As long as your willing.
As long as he is good to you.

Be careful
Some guys
Are crazy.

[ChrisRRC]

Nothing. Do what you want. But keep your nasty immoral ass away from me. And when you're like 30 and ready to settle down, you're gonna have to move and lie your ass off because no guy will even think of you as wife material.

[realperson02]

yeah if you want to be a hoe then you can become one after 18. just remember not to marry any guy.

[Journeyman11]

If a man has many girlfriends he needs to worry about getting kicked in the nuts. I'd rather be called a hoe than be assaulted.

[JustCallMeLeon]

No you shouldn't. However many people will disapprove. Plus having casual sex doesn't make you a hoe.

[Djaaaay]

Well , that's exactly what guys want you to be and what other choice do you have...

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's bad because you show you are cheap and have no self worth to allow yourself to be used sexually by men that don't give darn about.

And for the record men that sleep around are hoes too.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

*you

[April_Ib]

🙌🏽👏🏽

[skaterkid123]

nah you do as you please. you have your right but I want to note that guys who are willing to get married latter down the line also have the right to turn you down for your sexual promiscuity and past so be a hoe enjoy it but then don't complaing if a guy you want a serious relationship with turns you down for being a hoe or an ex hoe

[LoveHorses]

Not listen to the religious prudes who will tell you to wait until marriage to have sex. Nothing wrong with a girl who likes sex.