Would it turn you on if your girlfriend bought a butt plug for herself?

I want to start experimenting with anal play, and would like surprise my boyfriend by buying a butt plug. I'm afraid of looking too forward. Guys, would you be turned on if your girlfriend bought one or a little uncomfortable?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • - You like it = great thing for your boyfriend
    - He likes anal and you bought it only to prepare yourself = somewhat okay for your boyfriend

    There're no many other cases in which it makes sense to buy a butt plug.
    If any of the two cases applies to yours, then I suggest you to buy it.
    The second case tends after time to the first. Using the butt plug often might make you appreciate it more over time.

  • Is he into anal in a fantasy sense? Is it something he's indicated he'd be into?

Most Helpful Girl

  • My belief is if you laid it out on the dinner table at your first date, THATS too forward. To bring it into the bedroom where you've been having sex with him, NOT too forward.

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  • Butt plugs are fun go for it

  • I would assume that if he's into anal, he'll probably also like that idea. On the other hand, if he isn't, he may get uncomfortable, thinking you want to try it.

  • I would be pleasantly surprised but if you are not sure it might not be the best thing to surprise someone with. Plenty of people have negative opinions of anal and such.

  • my guy would be turned on if I did that

  • If she wants to use it on herself... yes that would be hot. I'm not into her trying it out on me. If she did, that would end the relationship.

  • Oh give me a break would you? Nonstop these kinds of questions

  • Fack no. Pretty uncomfortable

  • yeah that would be cool

  • I don't have a girlfriend... but I suppose it would, although I have zero experience in sex toys.

  • no thats nasty

  • I would ask him if he has any interest first, before you include him. Both genders can have strong feelings one way or the other about it.
    Oh, and you don't need a butt-plug to experiment with anal play. Consider that you might enjoy a vibrator more as well.

  • What's a butt plug? I dont have any experience in sex lmao.

  • well,, if he sees you're really getting off from it how can it be bad? for me nothing is hotter than seeing girl go wild for one reason or another...

  • Major boner. Sad my girl doesn't care about anal, even though we have butt plugs...

  • .. but 2 !!

    • oops.. buy 2.. i mean

  • I'd be turned on :)

  • Turned off.

    Only because we're both anti-toys.

    We'd rather work at pleasing each other with what we were given with.

    If we need to "spice things up", we can do that with just our natural bodies.

  • Huge turn on.

  • yes. my girlfriend and have been talking about buying her one, but with a tail

  • Id be turned on and happy to know that she was up for experimenting and trying new things.

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