My girlfriend doesn't want sex anymore?

[jaack]

Hi everyone,

I'll try to summarize it as much as possible
We are both girls, 25yo, had been dating for 2.5y, but hadn't seen each others much (only on weekends and free times, even less now that she is in Erasmus)
She was my bestfriend before i asked her out
She has no interest in girls apart from me (her words)

At first we had sex regurlarly, not everytime but it was OK, she was even the one to initiate it.
Now she is never horny
She doesn't even make space for me to try an attempt (i mean all she wants to do after dinner is watch anime and play games on her tablet... Like she coule play for an hour while im laying on the bed doing nothing and she wouldn't give à fuck)
And when i try to make her horny its à disaster... Like last time i was touching and caressing her boobies the way she liked before but she looked like she didn't even felt my hands and the only thing she said was that she should take the trash out because it stinks. Like WTF?
When we talk by phone she would Say things like "you will get it" but when im here its like nothing happened
Or if I Say "lets have fun tonight" or "remember this lingerie I bought? Should I Wear it?" she says yes but when the night comes the only thing she wants is watching anime...
She always seems disconnected like that.

I feel like we only live as bestfriends and not girlfriends anymore.

I know that she is not a very sexual person at first but still... Her reactions hurt me. And I dont want to be blunt with her like saying "i want to have sex now" cause I know that she will do it but I dont want her to do it out of pity or because she feels she HAS to...

Im wondering if she even wanted to go out with me in the first place

[Anonymous]

I would be concerned too if I were you. I would talk to her. Is there anything going on in her life that could make her less interested in sex? Has she had stresses at school or work?

Of is it possible she is just asexual? I ask this because it sounds like she isn't very sexual (from parts of your post). So perhaps that's just how she is.

[briannabuf577]

she's not interested maybe she feels uncomfortable or maybe you need to make sex more interesting for her

[Alderamin]

She is not a real lesbian. Maybe she is having sex with a guy. Why don't you offer a threesome? You both choose a nice guy and have threesome. If you are not interested in guys let him fuck her and you make love with her

[arnoldronaldo]

Better B Good as Friends
Don't Force her , ( Later she will realize )
.

Find Others who likes you
please Focus on your Career

[FatherJack]

Time to end it !! Game Over !!

[Anonymous]

Same thing is happening with my girlfriend. To the point I got pissed and left and ever since she has been calling crying to me to come back.

[Anonymous]

she is no longer interested