Whats the appeal in threesomes?

I mean 1. Girls are hard to make orgasm anyway, so having 2? Sounds more complicated than fun.
2. Just seems like a mess being on top of each other and trying to work out who does what.
So shats the appeal? And why do girls seem to be more open to ffm threesomes, are they bisexual?
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  • 1. You dont have to make them cum, it can be fun without.
    2. The two girls could be laying down (kissing each other and playing with each others boobs ( and the guy be licking one and fingering the other, switching between the two. Or the guy could be laying down while one girl gives him head and the other kisses him and/or kisses/bites/sucks his neck. Or the guy and one of the girls be laying down and the other girl fingering/licking the girl and tossing off/sucking the guy. Or if it's two girls and a guy the guy could be fucking the girl while she's laid down and the other guy stood/kneeled next the the girls face and she'll suck him off. Or one of the guys could be laid down, the women on top with her back to the guy laid down and the other guy above them both, one guy on her arse the other in her pussy.

    3. No idea why females are more open to ffm.

    • sounds like you have some good experience to help out here

    • I guess lol

    • Do girls have to be bi to enjoy a threesome?

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  • I think this is one of those "you can't much help what turns you on" type deals... like if you're into it, it turns you on, but if it's not one of your kinks it probably never will be and that's ok too. Everyone's got their stuff.

    As for me... both types of threesomes turn me on in fantasy, I don't know why exactly... it sounds like an adventure I guess, it sounds like a party. There's something really indulgent about it. But, I'd never do it in real life. But, that's just me!

    • Are you attracted to women btw? I mean i dont see how a person could be into threesomes unless their bi

    • Hmm... I don't really consider myself bi, I think guys get WAY too hung up on these labels, personally. The best way I can explain it is to say that I only want to date men, I only want to have sex with men, and I'd only want a long term relationship with a man. If I had no man in my life I'd miss a thousand things about men, not least of which is having regular access to a decent fucking with a nice dick. So yeah, I consider myself straight. But for some reason, in fantasy, the idea of having a threesome with my man and a random girl we pick up at a bar or something, turns me on. In fantasy. I don't think this makes me bi, so much as it's an expression of my playful, adventurous, curious, try-anything-once type personality. But, I'd never do it in real life because that would probably just ruin the fantasy lol, and because it would create jealousy issues in the relationship. I'm adventurous but not so reckless that I'd risk ruining my relationship over some random fantasy.

    • Yes, men do get WAY too hung up on this

  • I'm not into threesomes but if I had to choose I'd rather do mff than mmf. The pressure to perform would be off me while he was playing with her. It's not being lesbian, it's just whew I don't have to do it all myself.

    On the other hand, two males coming at me would be emotionally and physically intimidating. It might trigger anxiety and I'd just have to get out of there!

    • Why do males intimidate you? Are u not strongly attracted to men?

    • Ummmm... Is that a serious question?

    • Like two bigger, stronger beings coming at me expecting me to please them and I'm naked and trapped between them? Yes, that would cause me to feel a little nervous. Maybe a lot nervous.

Most Helpful Guys

  • 1. There isn't a realistic appeal. It's just one of those things that appears to be appealing. Kind of like how every girl wants kim kardasian fat ass and everyone thinks guy want her but really guys don't like her and fat asses twerking is gross.

    2. It's not your job to please women with orgasms. If a women isn't orgasming then 90% of the time it's her fault. In a threesome it would be more easy for women to have orgasms and a little more difficult for the guy to. He would last longer.

    3. The appeal is the same as how some women want to get nailed by a huge and scary black guy in a cheap hotel (just once in their life). Mainly it's the adventurous wild part. Like bungee jumping.

    4. Girls are not more open to ffm threesomes. They are more open in PORN and hollywood media/movies/magazines. There are more bisexual women though.

  • Fantasy: Two hot women wanted to please a man.
    Reality: Insecurity about being able top please a single woman... then asked to please two women at once?

    I would turn down a threesome in a heartbeat. I would rather watch two lesbians than be responsible to be the uh, penetrater for two women. And mmf same thing, I wouldn't mind topping a guy but I'm no comfortable receiving, and mmf straight just seems too impersonal and weird...

    1 on 1 for me, I don't feel comfortable enough to please 1 human being, let alone two.

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  • I think the appeal is more of a show off/attention thing. Like I want someone else there to set the standard of what to do, than I'll one up them. It's all about being better, sexier, friskier, kinkier... putting on a show and going for the gold.

    • Do girls have to be bi to enjoy a threesome?

    • Do you have to play an instrument to enjoy music?

    • Listening to and playing music are two different things. Sexual intercourse with the same sex and another sex is the same as simply sleeping with the same sex. So would u need sexual attraction to the same gender first?

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  • For me it's because I want to be able to eat a girl while being fucked

    • that's really hot to do

    • I haven't tried but I want to

    • So ur bi?

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  • I've had one threesome with two girls and despite the fact we were drunk, it was really good fun. It was not complicated, it was natural. I'd had sex with them each individually before then so I knew what each one liked and we just had fun. It wasn't planned and I haven't had one since, would I do it again? Sure but I'm not really fussed if I don't.

  • cuz men like variety

    • Everyone likes variety in general. Whats the fun in doing the same thing every day (in all aspects of life) what i mean is, threesomes. I just can't see the appeal in it at all

    • Men like it more

    • Well that's obviously not the case as im living proof not all men do

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  • the appeal is one of dominance, i think. You are being serviced by girls who cannot possibly want romance, or they should know that combining their efforts automatically puts them in competition for your attentions. Thus, it's not your attention they are after, it's your cock. That must mean you have excessive sex appeal. feels good.

  • I never saw the appeal of threesomes eithers.

  • That's why you always make the/a female the center of attention. ;-)

  • I don't really understand it either but it would be fun to do like once or twice, I would just want to have someone sit on my face while another girl fucks me. That's the only appeal, but in reality I don't know if I could actually do it.

  • Nothing. I see no appeal to sex in general because I'm asexual.

  • No idea

    • Do girls have to be bi to enjoy a threesome?

    • Probably

  • They're fun, try a threesome someday

  • Two hot girls

  • It's fun and kinky

  • Lol yeah I don't get why guys are so into them for exactly the reason you said... it's not like they are pleasing to girls most likely...

    If I was going to have a 3some (which I don't think I would) I'd want mfm.

    • Exactly, it just sounds like a fucking mess lmao

    • Yeah it does!

  • I hate them.

  • I don't get it either.