Whats up with my driving instructor?

Question

Hey everyone! I have been taking driving lessons lately, but I’ve only taken very few. Me and my instructor get along really well, he is really charismatic and funny but…. The thing is that I think he might be flirting with me but maybe I just over react and misinterpret his actions? (He is in his 50’s and I’m 18)
He always touches my arm when he talks to me, but I think he does that to everyone cause he is a very ‘touchy’ person. He also rests his hand on my leg (thigh). He puts his hand on top of mine on the gear stick, to show me how to do it I guess, but he does that very often. I don’t know if it’s normal for driving instructors to touch their students so much?
He always teases me, like constantly...
Once I was looking in a mirror, trying to take a piece of hair out of my face, and he was like ‘ you don’t have to look in the mirror, you’re pretty, don’t worry”….
Another time I missed a stop sign and he said “Whatt, such pretty eyes and you can’t see with them?” He also told me I’m intelligent.

He also always makes remarks, sort of teasing me , about me having a boyfriend. I don’t even have one, and I think I even said that before but for some reason he always brings up the boyfriend.

Also the way he talks to me sometimes, like the tone of voice that he sometimes uses makes me think he is flirting?

A few days ago I was trying to find the gear stick while keeping my eyes on the street and I accidentally touched his arm, for only like 1 sec and I can’t exactly remember what he said but he made some sort of flirty/cheeky remark. Something along the lines of ‘you cannot touch men like that’. He was probably joking. I don't know.

Maybe I’m just overreacting? I mean no normal 50 year old would actually hit on an 18 year old right? Maybe he is just being very friendly and he sees me as a daughter figure?
I really wanna know your opinion cause I wanna know if it’s better to change instructors or if I don’t need to worry?

cheapshotbob · Accepted Answer

change instructors is the smart thing to do. he sounds like a old lonely desperate guy or a man who is married and is tired of his wife and wants something new and is afraid to do anything about it.

but yeah finding someone else would be best before he starts being more friendly. thats just my opinion seeing how i will be 50 in a few more
years and wish i was younger when i see kids out having fun i used to have lol.

suseel_sushi · Accepted Answer

All he wants to hear is "that's enough driving. now I'm gonna ride you to the sunset" 😂😂😂😂

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am not sure, but think it's illegal to do that. Teasing can be part of driving as sometimes instructor just wants for you to be relaxed. But touching your leg or telling that you are pretty... he is flirting. And probably do that with other girls too.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

"No normal 50 year old would actually hit on an 18 year old" Don't make me laugh. Most guys are attracted to teenagers.

spencify · Answer

this is your free ticket to having your driver training certificate haha

deathyy · Answer

he puts his hand on your thigh... yeah thats a pedo alright

suckmynuts369 · Answer

Well, you are probably too young for concealed carry. Tasers and mace/pepper spray/knives should be handy. Beyond that, it seems as if he wants you to bite, and be a sugar daddy, otherwise he's a straight up perv. I honestly cannot tell you what the fuck in this situation.