Hickeys and back scratches?

My boyfriend and I have we're having sex and i dug my nails into his back, it felt so good what he was doing. He got really upset, I feel bad I'm sure it hurts and is embarrassing if anyone sees it. I was just wondering if other guys get upset when there's hickey's or scratches on them? Has anyone left scratches or hickeys on their partners? We're they upset?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • the guy needs to stop whining so much. though guys like me have a high tolerance for pain and barley notices scratches when they happen and when they do. its a sign he and the girl had a great time together.

    whats to be embarrassed about unless he or she does not want marks so they can be with others and they dont won't proof of them being in a relationship. i could care less either way myself i would be bragging about that if i had a girl and she left marks. that guy sounds weak lol not meaning to laugh but come on growing up guys never whined they bragged about that shit. what are guys these days being raised on? lol

  • i love both. i want her to scratch my back soo roughly, that i bleed

Most Helpful Girls

  • as someone who's done this/had it done to me, i didn't take any issue with it (as long as any marks could be covered up with clothes). but some people are into those things and others are not; your boyfriend is clearly an other.

    perhaps there's a reason he doesn't like it. childhood abuse or trauma is the most common, though there are other reasons as well. have you asked him why he doesn't like it?

  • My boyfriend has no issue with it.
    He'd prefer I didn't give him a hickey in a place his family can see, which I respect, but if I did it he wouldn't bitch me out

  • I don't think hickeys are painful? I've never been a scratcher so I wouldn't know

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  • Yes to nail play and scratches! No to hickeys.

  • Def yes on nails scratches and digging. No on hickeys.

  • I think my boyfriend doesn't mind the scratches unless it comes to summer time and we're out swimming and there's obvious marks on his back.

    • Y would he be embarrassed of something he made screwed out of us

    • @SSsports777 Your sentence makes no sense.

  • my girl gives me hickeys all the time and she makes my back bleed a lot

  • Why would you do that? I mean, I get that it feels good and all but how does that make you want to hurt him?