Why is it women try to STEAL men they like from their female friends?

[Anonymous]

When a man sees a woman he likes but she is taken by their friends, he would want a WOMAN LIKE HER (Not her per say) and would not try to fuck up the relationship with his friend and the girl; most men anyways who haven't been turn into women these days.

However, women often act different. When a female friend likes a GUY but he is taken by another female friend, she will try to fuck up the relationship and maybe even get him to cheat so he can have her to herself.

Quote taken by a girl on her real life experience:
"I tend to have more guy friends than girl friends because girls are hard to trust. I actually just had one of my girl "friends" turn on me last night. She told the guy im dating that were not right together (because she likes him) lol. I''ve had only a handful of women that i've been able to consistently trust over the years."

And this was a response made by a woman that got lots of upvotes from pink users:

"Women do not have friends we have competition. We lie to our so-called female friends and pretend we are loyal and faithful to them, just like we do with the men in our lives. Secretly, we are jealous of each other, and we want all of the desirable things that other women have—most especially when it comes to our female friends’ things. And we consider men to be things. If one of our friends has a hot man, we want him to want us. We will do everything we can to seduce him. Not because we really want him—we don’t really want anybody. We do it because we are rarely happy, and we don’t want our girlfriends to be happy, either, and we want to boost our own egos more than anything else. And after we get him to fuck us, when our girlfriends find out that he has had sex with us, that’s when we finally get what we wanted in the first place. If we break up the previously happy couple, that’s fine, too. It’s all about our pussy, not hers. It’s about winning."

[evenlift]

While both men and women are capable of second-handed thinking, women do it much more. Women want what other women want.

If you take a single man and a taken man, the taken man is going to get much more female admiration than the single man, unless the single man is much, much better than the taken man.

Women claim that this is because taken men are happier and more confident, but that wouldn't explain why this also applies to men who appear taken but aren't, for example men who are in the company of female friends or female relatives who might be mistaken for girlfriends.

[Blitzkrieger]

These particular women see men as status objects to be acquired. They see it as a object of some sorts to get more status.

When you are single not many women will approach you. When you get in a relationship suddenly they come. Relationship status is more valuable to them than single status. Stealing you away has a higher prestige value than simply taking you.

These are also the same women who view sex as something that is given from a woman to a man. They dont date you, they date your status.

[Anonymous]

Sadly enough I know more guys who have went for their friends girlfriends then the other way around. in my opinion you can't steal a person (unless we are talking kidnapping), they make their own decisions and if someone really wants you then they want you... your friend stealing them away is doing you a service in the long run 'cause the person you were in the relationship just wasn't that serious about you then *shrugs* Oh well, more fish in the sea.

[redeyemindtricks]

This is the original:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a28145-the-competitiveness-of-females-how-social-media-affects-them

The author is clearly a boy.
Women would not refer to "our female friends" -- nor in a thousand years would a woman write "It's all about our pussy".

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Oh and... ahha yh sure, there are "lots of pink upvotes"... uhm 2 of them. Lol you're such a drama queen OP

[Victoria-Anna]

Not all women behave that way 😏 I'm too selfish.. I want a man of my own lol Besides, I have a conscience , I'd never hurt another girl in that way , even if I didn't know her. I'd feel too guilty. I'm not a total bitch.

If I "stole" a man from another woman, how could I ever trust him?

[Guccigabbana18]

Usually the girl who is in the relationship is prettier or better in some way than the "man-stealer." The man-stealing woman therefore sees it as some sort of accomplishment to take the man away from a prettier girl. It boosts their ego and proves to themselves that they're good enough or just as pretty or prettier. It's all insecurity. Just look at Sumner Stroh and Behati Prinsloo, Sumner wanted to boost her ego by taking the man of a "Victoria's Secret Angel" who she felt inferior to.

No one can truly be "stolen" though. If someone can be taken away from you, apart from cases of manipulation or lies, then they weren't that into you to begin with.

[Mynameisnottolong]

Well being that they are female friends they... approve of each other and that means some of their things like their guys.

[ThisDudeHere]

"When a man sees a woman he likes but she is taken by their friends, he would want a WOMAN LIKE HER (Not her per say) and would not try to fuck up the relationship"

And yet somehow I keep hearing complaints from girls that say otherwise.

[rcm1ah]

Because they're being insecure bitches.

[Ayshea]

This is your opinion not a matter of fact.
Some people do those kinds of things, it's not gender based.

[Iraqveteran666]

https://youtu.be/MaOUnwfD1dQ

Chris rock tells it like it is. Sorry ladies you know it's true.

[JustCallMeLeon]

Because when they see their friend with a guy, this guy immediately is tagged as "capable of making my friend happy, so he must be great". Its actually the same thing that happens with married men. Most girls will avoid them but they still feel really jealous of their wives.

[Anonymous]

because than they are no reall friends! that's not something you do! I would never ever even dare to look at the man of my firends

or maybe because these girls are jealous or some shit